It is better to love ta dead and alive than to love yourself

In life, many times it is for other people or things to live, not for themselves. This is also what many people are in it without knowing it.

For example, after falling in love and breaking up, some people are in pain to find death and even end their lives. This is not unloved, but it is somewhat unworthy to live a hasty life.

For example, some people work hard day and night for their careers, constantly overdrawing their lives, resulting in diseases coming to the door early. This is not a fight, but the disease is somewhat more than worth the loss.

Some are not effective in cultivating children to learn, angry and angry, and some boil chai rice oil and salt into a "yellow-faced woman", and so on. Things like that happen happen all the time.

The author believes that this is all the specific manifestation of loving other people or things, not loving themselves, and most of them have no good results in the end.

If you want to love someone or something, you must first love yourself. People who don't even love themselves, in a sense, it is difficult to say that they will really love other people or things.

Love yourself, in fact, is not profound, to know that you are the fundamental basis for a person to walk in the world. As long as you understand this truth, it is easy to love yourself, and you only need to do three things well.

Love to the sea to the point of decay, love to the death and come back to life, this is an emotional reaction of man, not the end of the world. It can be painful for a while, or even a lifetime, but it's never the only thing in your life.

Lu Xun's Xianglin sister-in-law, losing her child and immersing herself in it, led to a lifetime of madness. But look at it objectively and rationally, saying that the passing point, the departure of the dearest and dearest will make us miserable, but the days must always go forward.

Not to mention that life has not reached this point, and our mentality towards people or things should be more positive. Zheng Banqiao said: "It is rare to be confused! "We also often say that when the water is clear, there is no fish, and when people are aware, there is no disciple. The world is not black and white, so a healthy mindset will keep you optimistic and healthy.

Whether you study a book with words or a book without words, you always have to learn something. "A little understanding of everything makes life more exciting."

Cultivating children has a headache and is angry and angry every day, so it is better to find some information in this regard or go to a parent training class to improve their ability in this regard.

In this way, there is no need to rush to the fire for the cultivation of children and damage the body. As the saying goes, ten diseases and nine qi, the impact of this qi on physical health is a terrible thing, or pay more attention, another way to solve the problem may be better.

In today's society, the work pressure is very high, the pace of life is very fast, and people are overdrawing their bodies to varying degrees.

The body is the capital of the revolution. Therefore, it is also necessary to do some exercises that are suitable for yourself and to strengthen your body. The problem is, many people may say, busy to death, where is the time.

But if you think about it, is there really no time every day? Lu Xun said that time is the water in the sponge, and there will always be squeezing. Therefore, time is not a problem, it depends on whether you want to or not.

To say that it is to work for the sake of the family and what is struggling for what is fundamentally health pays for it.

Moreover, the above three points are not independent of each other. On the contrary, they are interrelated and mutually reinforcing, and can play the effect of 1+1>2.

If you bloom, the butterflies come, the women are embarrassed by the women, the men cry is not sinful; the belly has poetry and books, these are all love for themselves. Love yourself in order to love others, is this the truth of careful disking?

Well, that's it, look forward to seeing you