Just now, my husband and I had a verbal altercation over money. I am currently a second-born mother, because the second child is still young, I did not go to work for a while, at home with children. Dabao usually slept with his grandmother. My in-laws are very good, and usually help our little family and help me bring big treasures, I am very grateful to them, I think I am very lucky, met a good in-laws. The family also got along very well.
Since I had a second child and was a boy, my husband was under a lot of pressure. My mother's father gave us the old house for free, so that we could build a house and rent it out to earn some commissions, and our children could use it when they were older. Because I want to build a house, so my husband rarely rests at work, and all the previous savings are used to build a house, because the funds needed to build a house are tight, so my husband is under great pressure, and every time he spends a sum of money, he must remember clearly. It was a good habit and there was nothing wrong with it. But because the child has been sick in the winter recently, it just so happens that the ten thousand yuan on my previous card is not much, and I am afraid that when the time comes, I will not have enough money to treat the child, and I want my husband to transfer some money to me. My husband listened and said how he ran out of money so quickly, and the ten thousand yuan that was transferred was only used up in three months. Let me say where the money is spent? I showed him the details of the mobile phone bill, but he didn't look at it, so he had to ask me to tell him. I then told him the details of each month's expenditure, and I also felt that I didn't realize that the money was used very quickly, but it was all the usual expenses, food and clothing, utilities... Before you know it, there is not much money left. I usually don't spend it randomly, but ten thousand pieces is gone. Husband looked at this year we spent more than 30,000, he was depressed, asked me how I spent so much in a year, did not do anything, I said that spending so much a year is not normal, and then we quarreled because of the problem of money, he felt that I just asked how much it cost to build a house, did not help him keep accounts, said how much he spent, I know. I wondered, I said that as long as it is the money in my hand, there are accounts, you don't tell me where you spent money, how do I help you remember, and even if I don't help you remember, there are details in your mobile phone bill, the money will not automatically run to others Ah... In short, we are not happy.
The more I think about it, the more I feel depressed, I will try not to use your money in the future, the account is turned over, it is really speechless, the New Year will earn their own money.
Money is really not a good thing, and people love and hate it.
Woman, what exactly is marriage for? Women, in the end, still have to rely on themselves.