To be a person in the world, not to look at the surface, to know the face, to know the heart

As the saying goes, "people's hearts are separated from their stomachs", and knowing people may not be able to know the heart, and knowing the face may not be able to know the heart, and the knowledge of the heart is the most important. If an individual is stabbed by a stranger, it is called a flesh wound, and if he is stabbed by his closest friend, it is like a thousand arrows piercing the heart, which is called sadness.

People are all kinds, there are upright people, there are despicable people, there are brave people, there are cowardly people, there are heroic people, there are people with careful eyes, there are wooden people, there are decisive people, there are people who are simple, there are vulgar people, there are people who are heavy,there are honest people, there are cunning people in the face of all kinds of people, you can only use him with "heart" to examine him, examine him carefully, discern him, and then use him carefully, so that you can always stand in an invincible position in interpersonal communication.

If we are associated with a person of high moral character, courageous deeds, and helpful people, then even if his appearance is not handsome and handsome, we will live in harmony with him. But if we see a hypocritical and selfish man, despite his good looks and elegant demeanor, we will only think that he is morally upright, hypocritical and cunning.