Liu Yue
Capital, in the economic sense, refers to the basic factors of production, that is, capital and material resources such as plants, equipment, and materials. Value attachments that create and bring added value are called capital. It is usually used to represent financial wealth, especially financial assets used for doing business and setting up businesses.
Broadly speaking, capital can be used as a general term for the various socio-economic resources that human beings create material, spiritual and credit wealth.
With the progress of society, people's way of thinking can be changed. It is not difficult to find in life, proud people, so where does capital come from?
In the "JingxingLu" of the Yuan Dynasty minister Shi Bi, it is said, "Those who do not respect themselves are humiliated, and those who are not afraid of themselves invite misfortune; those who are not complacent benefit, and those who are not self-respecting are well-informed." ”
The beauty of handsome men and beautiful women is capital. Why people are proud is because everyone's attitude and concept of life are different. There are often such things, a beautiful woman she looks good, which has the basic conditions for attracting attention, pure pride and give people an inaccessible feeling, so that boys feel that it is not easy to get.
Men are like this, the more difficult things are to be admired.
Of course, a handsome man looks good is a prerequisite, if he is not good and arrogant, it will only annoy people, as for her (his) heart is bright or dark, it will be discovered after a long time.
Extreme pride. Many times excessive pride is to cover up the inferiority of the heart. Most of this ambivalence stems from growing up experiences. However, the two sides of pride and self-confidence will not coexist, and no one wants to be truly inferior and withdrawn.
Whether it's inferiority, pride, or both, these are not good things!
If you want to be more sunny and confident in life, often hint at yourself, seize the view, to discover something positive. You must also start from the root cause, there must be a reason for this situation, maybe you find the reason to change yourself more easily, or maybe one day you suddenly opened up.
Think of wealth as proud capital. This kind of person is related to his family background and his own conditions, he feels that his own conditions are more noble than ordinary people, he feels that no one is as good as him, he will produce loneliness and pride, his own conditions are superior, he is beautiful or handsome than ordinary people, and he has a certain talent, and his education is also high, so he does not put others in his eyes, lonely and proud.
In fact, people who really have backgrounds and abilities are not necessarily arrogant and arrogant, calm and calm about many things, but also very approachable, making people respect and admiring.
"Where misfortunes and blessings depend, blessings and misfortunes lie down." Whether it is a curse or a blessing is only the difference between our thoughts.
Wang Yangming quelled the rebellion of King Ning, and the favored minister Jiang Bin, jealous of his talents, relied on his favor and made rumors in front of the emperor. But Wang Yangming was a decent person, and even the faint-hearted Wuzong believed that he was a good person, and Jiang Bin was not interested in himself.
People with good character, even if they are in adversity, will gain trust and become evil.
The more incompetent people are, the more ostentatious they are, and they are afraid that others will underestimate their abilities. All day long, arrogant, arrogant, all day long to hang on the face, but do not know, such behavior, in the eyes of others like a clown. Disdain for others is a sign of immaturity.
"People are self-aware.". Self-respect is a kind of self-knowledge, a correct understanding of one's own value, and not humility. Face yourself.
"Provincial inspection is to save when there is a problem, and to save is to save when there is nothing to do." Finding self-knowledge is itself a form of self-improvement. Whether we are busy or idle, self-examination is important. Only by recognizing their own abilities and values will they not get carried away and laugh generously.
People who are overwhelmed and overwhelmed, who are not high in the sky, can only be momentarily angry, and when they really encounter difficulties, they will only lose miserably because of excessive conceit.
In reality, complacency and self-righteous people are not much better, and even the closest parents, siblings, and couples will be estranged.
An excellent and humble person must be a person who has seen the big world, they have experienced the tribulations of life, they have encountered the failure of Vanity Fair, they have been in various interpersonal relationships, they have been to many places, they have read many books, they have seen many powerful people, they know that there is a sky outside the sky, there are people outside the world, they fear the heavens and the earth, and they understand their own smallness. Even if it is talented, it will not be conceited and ostentatious, but more cautious and angry, silently accumulating its own ability.
Only in this way can it be possible to maintain a peaceful state of mind, to be in a good situation without pride, and to be in adversity without despair.
As the old saying goes, "Full of losses, humble benefits", pride without capital is a joke.