With the increase of experience, we will find that beauty does not necessarily lead to happiness, but people who lack love will always be hurt by love. This has to mention the aunt in the entertainment industry, her eyes, always floating with a melancholy; her love, always full of many regrets.
Among all of Ah Jiao's predecessors, Chen Guanxi had a place. At that time, the two people were just starting out, and the sincerity of not being deeply involved in the world was indeed worthy of affection. However, Gillian's lack of love will bring invisible pressure to her partner, because she does not know how to express emotions in the right way.
In order to anger Chen Guanxi, Ah Jiao deliberately talked and laughed with Yu Wenle, which did stimulate Chen Guanxi's possessiveness, but left a wound of distrust for her feelings. Jiao's stubbornness will only make the other party tired, and if there is a lack of conscious change, it will only disappear the residual temperature of the feeling.
Unexpectedly, this relationship also buried the mine later. The 2008 "nude photos gate" pushed Gillian to the forefront of public opinion. The slander in all directions made the later Ajiao have a little more fear in her eyes. Many of the parties have forgotten, and she still cringes and wants an "explanation and comfort."
Gillian once felt that she was very stupid and naïve, which showed that her heart was very fragile and sensitive, and she lacked the courage and ability to be confident and self-reliant. Such a person is easily hurt in the relationship, in order to keep the other party, she will easily lower her posture and do not know how to protect herself.
It is better to ask others than to seek oneself, and this sentence also applies to feelings. Both men and women must learn the ability to refuse. It's not that you're afraid of rejecting others, it's that you're afraid of others rejecting you and lack the courage to be rejected, which is one of the reasons for being frustrated in your relationship.
In 2018, Ajiao and Lai Hongguo flashed marriage, the authorities are obsessed with bystanders Qing, this Lai Hongguo simply can not withstand the pickpocketing of netizens, all kinds of black history in front of Ajiao, but she is blinded by the other party's good leaf.
Perhaps, this is related to what she said before, "I don't want love, I just want to get married". For better or worse, it's right to marry out. Subconsciously, she still feels that she does not deserve to have a high-quality intimate relationship, and the consequence of lowering her requirements is the trusted non-person.
People who lack love have low judgment, always use a magnifying glass to see the behavior of others, it is easy to "suck slag", find objects in the garbage heap, be stubborn and do not listen to advice, and live in their own world.
Sure enough, their marriage lasted only 14 months. The breakup sees the character, but also can see the difference in the party's vision of picking the object. Lai Hongguo is unfair to himself on the Internet, but Ah Jiao chooses to be silent and uses evasion to prevaricate all the media.
Therefore, a good marriage must be premised on love, otherwise it is self-deception. When Ajiao participates in the variety show with Lai Hongguo, she always embraces her arms, which is a gesture of resistance.
She rejected the man, but longed for marriage and for children of her own. Perhaps for those who have been repeatedly hurt by love, she has long closed her heart and only believes that family affection can heal her.
Gillian took part in a test to write down her most important people, and after a series of cuts and reductions, she left her cousin behind because they grew up together.
This question shows that people who lack love rely on familiarity. However, if you want to have a high-quality marriage relationship, you must learn to break your inherent habits, do not break or stand, in order to break the cocoon and be reborn.
At the age of 39, when Gillian responded to the marriage problem, she made it clear that she would not remarry and believed that she was not suitable for marriage. The same is true for many girls, who have experienced failed relationships and easily denied their own value, which undoubtedly missed many cupids of love.
As Sanmao said: "Except for self-crossing, others cannot help." Later, Gillian responded that she still longed for love, hoping that she could be consistent in her heart and truly embrace happiness!
The more love is lacking, the less love is missing. Lack of love is a state of taking, and understanding love requires sincere giving. If you are also like Gillian, repeatedly frustrated by love, it is better to seriously review your psychology and thoughts, learning to love is a lifelong lesson, do not give up easily.