If you bloom and butterflies come – (my life of divorce after marriage)

Now that the mood is very calm, and I am rarely wrapped in hatred and hurt and unhappy, I can write a lot of gentle and quiet words calmly. So I plan to re-open a post to record my idyllic life out of marriage and with children.

Since taking the children out to live by themselves, I have also been depressed for a while. Every day, I only go to work, don't like to talk, and take my children out to play after work; look at the flowers and plants, look at the children who play games, look at the people exercising, look at the blue sky, and the days will pass quickly like water.

The passage of time not only took away my years, but also took away a lot of potential harm in my heart, and I gradually felt that I took my children and lived every day without wind and waves, which was so peaceful and beautiful.

With the selfless help and guidance of some friends, I bought a lot of psychology books, such as "Man from Mars, Woman from Venus", "Reconstruction of Life", "Meet the Unknown Self", "Forgiveness is Love" and Dr. Huang Weiren's "There Is Still a Blue Sky Outside the Window". In particular, the last book had the biggest impact on me, and I am still reading it. The biggest gain is that the soul is no longer surrounded by hatred, but accepts the status quo of its divorce, calmly takes the children, and lives her own day. At the same time, we also strive to stabilize our emotions and let our children grow up healthy and happy.

Bookcases, goldfish and fish tanks, seeds, two morning glory plants on the balcony pots. In the evening, I went back to spray water for the morning glory, took the child to feed the goldfish, and then read the book, the child drew, and the day passed quickly.

Away from everything that was before, including the environment and people, it seems to be like rebirth.

The first half of my life has already passed; the second half of my life has only just begun.

Watching "The First Half of My Life" starring Ma Yili and Jin Dong, I basically have no feeling for many plots.

Instead, I bought the paper "The First Half of My Life" and "The Old Garden", and I was more in agreement with the content of the book.

When I have time, I write about the feelings of reading books. When I went to school, my writing was still good, and it shouldn't have changed much so far.

Nowadays, there are fewer chores in the housework, but there is more time to think about problems, read and write than before; the hobbies left during the two children are now picked up again, as if they are back to their single self.

Time has passed quietly for 11 years, and I feel as if I have returned to the past. It's just that it has grown up more than it was, and it is stronger than it was at the beginning.