"The husband has tears and does not flick, but he is not sad!" This verse comes from the famous Ming Dynasty writer and opera composer Li Kaixian, which truly tells whether men can easily shed tears when they are not at the saddest.
Usually in the family, boys are also educated: manly husband, blood and sweat do not shed tears. Especially in front of everyone's eyes, it is rare to see men crying.
On December 2, a man in Hui'an, Fujian Province, was in front of the police station to cancel the hukou of his deceased wife, and he was uncontrollably left in tears.
On the morning of the same day, accompanied by his family, the man went to the police station where the hukou was located to cancel the hukou for his deceased wife.
When the household registration police confiscated the identity card of the deceased wife in accordance with the regulations, the man reluctantly took out his mobile phone to take a picture of the deceased wife's ID card.
Tears kept accumulating in the man's eye sockets. The man raised his face, trying to control his emotions and not let the tears flow down.
But he really couldn't hold on, and instantly looked down and wept, took off his glasses, and kept wiping the tears with the back of his hand.
After that, the man asked to leave the ID card as a memorial, and the police registered the ID card according to the regulations, cut the corners, and left it for the man as a souvenir to solve the lovesickness.
A netizen left a message: he is the husband of a colleague, and the husband and wife have a very good relationship.
Some people divide crying into five types: crying quietly, crying loudly, crying with tears in the heart, crying silently, laughing and crying.
The first and second kinds of crying belong to the sadness at that time, and after crying, it will be fine;
The third kind of crying belongs to the time when it was very sad, and it was still very sad after crying;
The fourth and fifth kinds of crying, maybe it's not crying, it's heartbreaking sounds.
This silent crying of this man belongs to the fourth kind, and if his wife has a spirit in heaven, she will probably hear the voice of her lover's heartbreak.
In life, people will experience the pain of life and death with the person closest to them, regardless of whether the person is rich or poor and who they are.
Because of excessive thoughts, some people can't afford to be sick; some people have lost their motivation in life and have negative thoughts; and some people even choose to follow the dead.
In fact, people who really love you most hope that your next life will be good. Because there are still parents to support, children to take care of, and unfinished business.
There are still so many people who need you, your life tasks are not yet complete, and your life experience is not yet complete.
The best thing to do is to take on the responsibility of a deceased loved one and continue to live for her, really the real end of her life. In doing so, the deceased will also smile at the Nine Springs.
Carl in the movie "Flying House" is an eccentric old man who was a balloon salesman when he was young.
Carl and his wife Ellie share a common wish to explore the lost "Paradise Falls" in South America, but Carl has not been able to fulfill this wish until the death of his wife Ellie.
Until one day, when the government intended to send him to a nursing home, he decided to fulfill his and his wife's lifelong wishes. However, he did not intend to go alone, but with his house, and Karl tied thousands of colorful hydrogen balloons on the roof.
Although he experienced many dangers and tribulations along the way, Carl finally took the house where he and his wife had lived all his life to the "Paradise Waterfall" and fulfilled the unfulfilled wishes for his wife.
Although this movie is a story, although it is a cartoon, Carl's behavior may be the best memorial to his dead wife.