#女心理师征文 #
In 2008, in the movie "Li Chun", Zhang Yao received his first role in the film and television circle.
The character needs to shave his head directly, without special effects, but he actually shaved his hair.
This is really courage for girls.
And now, the popular "Female Psychologist" we see her figure again.
"Don't get married, have no companions in your old age, get married, you don't necessarily live to get old age; you don't work hard, you don't have money for the elderly, you work too hard, you may not need to retire."
Can't help but sigh, how can this word be so heartfelt!
And Zhang Yao played Zhan Lu in "Female Psychologist". It is the existence of a more heartfelt existence!
Zhan Lu, who had a second child, was wearing a bath towel to feed the child, but was suddenly interrupted by her mother-in-law with a group of onlookers.
Whether the mother wants to rest quietly or not, and whether the child is full or not, a group of people just care about the lively and extraordinary crowd.
The mother-in-law was still there shouting, "This is my big fat grandson." ”
She endured the psychological discomfort and hurriedly wrapped her arms around the bath towel, trying to hold her son away.
But the mother-in-law snatched her son in front of everyone and left her alone in the same place.
He also sneered at her that she was a person who had a second child, and even the baby would not hold it.
Once in childbirth, although there is no new mother to take care of the child's strangeness and anxiety.
But with a body that is no longer young, on the one hand, he takes care of the second treasure of the big treasure, and on the other hand, he also has to deal with the various pickiness of the mother-in-law.
You have to bring your baby again, you have to cook quickly, and you have to do housework.
In the eyes of the mother-in-law, it is hard for the son to make money outside, and the daughter-in-law is too easy to take a child at home. The mother-in-law only cares about her grandson and does not care about herself at all.
Mother-in-law gave her in addition to educating her anytime and anywhere, is to count down she will not take children ! ! ! !
I thought that the husband who shared the same bed would be a safe haven for women, bringing women love and warmth.
However, this husband completely ignored his wife's helpless pain and only cared about playing games.
After returning home, I look very eager to help take care of the child, but in fact, I just take the child as a pet, tease when I am in a good mood, and I am not willing to take a handle when I am not good.
Zhan Lu found that she had psychological problems and told her husband that she wanted to go for a psychological consultation, but her husband directly threw a sentence: temperament!
Days are spent by two people, and raising children is not just a matter for women alone.
A woman's misfortune is directly related to her husband's attitude.
If Zhan Lu's husband finds that she is depressed, he will help her take care of the children, and will stand up to her when her mother-in-law accuses her;
Will share the hard work of taking care of the child, will patiently listen to her complaining, maybe everything is different.
Zhan Lu will not want to kill her son because of the torture of postpartum depression! ! !
The first sentence of the interview is "How do you ensure that when you return to the workplace, your work and family will not conflict?" ”。
At this point, she was tempted to say that there would be no conflict, but even if she didn't believe the answer, how could the interviewer believe it.
So she chose to tell the truth: "The question you just said, in fact, I have also considered, to be honest, I can't guarantee it." ”
Then she briefly said the difficulties she would face with the trivialities of life. "I know that the difficulties I just talked about are not the only ones that bother me."
If I could get this job, I would definitely try very hard. ”
She was a full-time housewife for eight years, had two children, and was a housewife for eight years, almost completely out of touch with society, and it was so difficult to get back into the workplace.
On this day, Zhan Lu sent her daughter to school as usual, but the difference was that today she deliberately dressed up.
She and her daughter came to the school gate with a smile, and her daughter said goodbye to her happily.
At this time, Zhan Lu saw her daughter's homeroom teacher, so she went to inquire about the child's situation at school.
The teacher said: The child has not turned in homework for several days, let me go back and ask the child.
Zhan Lu, who was originally in a good mood, immediately froze down when he heard the teacher say this, and then shrugged his face and walked back.
But as she walked, she suddenly couldn't hold back, her pants were wet, and there was a pool of water on the ground. Zhan Lu panicked and quickly took the bag to cover his pants.
At this time, she wished that she was a transparent person or that she had a seam to drill into.
But in the crowd, a boy shouted, "Mom, you see she's peeing her pants." ”
Everyone brushed their brushes together and looked at the young mother with wet pants.
Then the boy's voice sounded again: "It's so big that you pee your pants!" ”
I couldn't hide my embarrassment, so I had to cover my wet pants with my bag.
At this time, the daughter who was not far away saw it and shouted back: "Mom, Mom! Running quickly toward her, she hurriedly said, "You go back, I tell you to go back." ”
The young daughter saw her mother's embarrassment, ignored the eyes of others, ran over to hug her mother, and cried out in pain: "Mother, mother! ”
The young mother hugged her daughter and choked up and said, "Mommy's all right!" At this time, the mother and daughter burst into tears.
When I saw this paragraph, I could feel Zhan Lu's helplessness and embarrassment across the screen.
Maybe only a woman who has given birth to a child can experience it, feel empathy, and clamp her legs when she sneezes, but it will still leak a little...
However, as a mother, there is no one in the picture to help this mother break the siege, some are just different eyes, human nature! !
In the face of many unsatisfactory, fortunately there is the only little sun: the daughter coconut is always with her mother.
Only the daughter of the whole family pays attention to the change in her mother's mood, and only the daughter will timidly ask her: Mother, are you sick!
Mom is superhuman, so Mom has to do everything, but she can't be vulnerable, can't cry, can't get sick.
When the mother has an embarrassing thing in front of people, she probably thinks of letting the child stay away from herself and not see her disgraceful side.
But this little girl bravely ran to her mother and protected her mother.
In fact, the mother is also the first time to be a mother, the mother before becoming a mother, is also the daughter of someone else's family, but also a protected little princess.
There are no angels in this world, so there is a mother, and the daughter is her weakness and her armor, and the driving force and pillar of her life.
My mother was once a little girl, and after experiencing all the trials of life, she became a strong and indomitable woman who shielded her children from the wind and rain.
I believe that this warm daughter will definitely be able to heal her mother.
In fact, why don't such examples exist in life? Make a silent wish only in your heart.
May the men of the world hurt the woman who bore you a child.
May the mother-in-law of the world be more tolerant of the woman who gives birth to your son, the same woman, and why should a woman be embarrassed by a woman.
May all mothers in the world be treated with gentleness and kindness, and hope that there will be more tolerance and understanding, rather than ridicule.
#产后妈妈感谢女心理师为自己发声 #
#张瑶 #