Recently, Qiu Cecera Xuan shared his social life on his social platform, inadvertently revealing the emotional state between him and her husband Yu Xiaoguang:
Now the two are far away, and they will call and talk to their husbands every day, and they will be as good as ever.
Looking at the comments at the bottom of the video, the one with the highest number of likes is: the beginning of Pinru's road to revenge.
Pin ru is the name of the role played by Qiu Cixuan in "The Temptation to Go Home", and the pin in the play is a woman who is split by her girlfriend and eventually turns over to take revenge on the scumbag. In reality, Qiu Porcelain Is even more miserable than Pinru's experience...
As we all know, Yu Xiaoguang and Qiu Porcelain Xuan married in 2017, their love and marriage are in the envy of the whole network, and even in Han Zong's "Same Bed and Different Dreams", Qiu Porcelain Xuan also hypothetically asked "If you have an affair with another woman", Yu Xiaoguang immediately answered "I si you also si, rest assured, right?" ”
However, on July 15 of this year, Yu Xiaoguang was exposed to intimate cuddling with beautiful women late at night, and the video captured Yu Xiaoguang playing in a bar late at night, after which a mysterious woman got on the car with him and sat on Yu Xiaoguang's lap, and Yu Xiaoguang naturally picked up the beautiful woman.
The sweet spoiled wife set up collapsed. Now that the storm has just passed 4 months, Qiu Cixuan has forgiven her husband.
Is it really difficult to define us, but what I want to discuss with you more is: Is it true that women with unfortunate families are doomed to escape the vortex of feelings?
Compared with the new stars in the showbiz circle who mostly come out to chase their dreams now, Qiu Cixuan originally chose to be an artist just to make himself have food to eat.
Born in 1979 in Daegu, South Korea, Qiu Porcelain Xuan's birth did not bring a trace of joy to her family, and her grandmother called Qiu Porcelain Xuan the family's doom. Because grandma's seven children, except for Qiu Cexuan's father, each of the children in the family was born with a son.
Seeing that Qiu Porcelain Xuan is a daughter, this makes the patriarchal grandmother unable to accept it, and can only be angry with Qiu Porcelain Xuan's mother and young Qiu Porcelain Xuan. And the mother who is always angry with her grandmother, let Qiu Cixuan experience a spicy maternal love.
When Qiu Porcelain recalled that childhood experience after becoming famous, he said: "My mother was a little bit very powerful, because when I was young, my sister drowned and died, and after that I didn't do well, my mother has been scolding me, you should die for her, so I want to leave Korea."
When she finished talking about the experience, she had a smile on her face and tears in her eyes, and perhaps only she knew how difficult it was during that time.
Living in this family environment, Qiu Cixuan did not get muddy all day, but desperately wanted to seize every opportunity to jump out. At the age of 16, Qiu Porcelain took over her first commercial through a scout, and she knew that her chance to escape had arrived.
After that, she decided the direction she wanted to go to, and finally received an acceptance letter from the Drama Department of Dankook University in South Korea. At the same time, her parents divorced, but no one wanted to continue to be with Qiu Cexuan, and even the tuition fee for college was not willing to pay, and she could only start a life of half-work and half-study.
After graduation, Qiu Porcelain, who thought that there was plenty of time and more pieces, did not expect that graduation was comparable to unemployment. And Song Huiqiao, who was at the same time as her, has already made a name for herself, but she is still tepid. In order to make money, Qiu Porcelain Xuan was forced to take large-scale photo photos, but in this way, her career was even worse.
At this time, Qiu Celer learned that the agency was going to co-produce an idol drama with Hong Kong and Taiwan in China, and the company's female artists did not dare to take risks easily. Qiu Porcelain Xuan did not think so much and asked the company to star.
This idol drama starring her and Peng Yuyan also became a stepping stone for her to enter the Chinese entertainment industry, laying the foundation for her to participate in many costume dramas and become popular with "The Temptation to Go Home".
After becoming popular with "The Temptation to Go Home", Qiu Cixuan did not stop to enjoy life, and the next year he took over three dramas non-stop. Busy with her career, she did not expect that she would meet the man who cured her- Yu Xiaoguang.
Yu Xiaoguang and Qiu Porcelain Xuan met because of the filming of "The Happy Time of spicy girlfriend", and after getting along during filming, Yu Xiaoguang melted Qiu Porcelain Xuan's heart little by little.
Completely different from Qiu Porcelain Xuan, Yu Xiaoguang grew up in a very loving family, which allowed him to have an optimistic and gentle personality, and he could immediately perceive the feelings of others.
During filming, the crew members were praising Qiu Cixuan's strong language ability and adapting well when she came to a strange place, but only Yu Xiaoguang saw her difficulty.
Yu Xiaoguang, who drank too much at a party, lost his mouth and said to Qiu Cixuan that he was very distressed about her. This made Qiu Porcelain, who was rarely cared for, very moved, but the pain brought to her by her original family made her uncertain whether she could entrust her life to Yu Xiaoguang.
Qiu Cixuan spent two years to observe, but found that this man was good to her for two years, and she finally decided to marry Yu Xiaoguang.
At the wedding, she confided in a letter: "Remember when we first met? I don't know how to express my liking. In retrospect, you don't know how much I thank you. Without family and friends, alone in a foreign country, for me who is lonely and can only be busy with work, it is you who have created me now..."
"Yu Xiaoguang, thank you for coming to my side; thank you for being my dearest; thank you for always supporting me; thank you for always keeping me from being lonely and making me laugh." I think this life to go down with you is really short, if I can, I will definitely meet you in the next life. ”
After reading this letter, Yu Xiaoguang's eyes were tearful, because he knew that under his unremitting efforts, Qiu Cixuan had finally opened the door of his heart...
Although in July this year, Yu Xiaoguang denied cheating, compared with the wedding video and the "sitting on the thigh" video, their past love seems to be particularly ironic.
Whether yu Xiaoguang is in the show or at the wedding, his intentions for Qiu Porcelain Xuan can never be faked, and even their marriage was once called "a good marriage heals the original family".
Therefore, whether it is us or Korean netizens, all of them feel that Yu Xiaoguang is a good man. Perhaps it is precisely because of this that Yu Xiaoguang's goodness and today's large-scale video form a strong contrast, which is really unacceptable.
Before we received fan submissions backstage, she was pursued by her husband for 8 years, married for 12 years, at home her husband took good care of her, the two people were always as happy and sweet as love, but she still accidentally found that her husband cheated on the company's subordinates, so depression became a disease.
She said that what she couldn't accept most seemed to be not her husband cheating, but that her husband cheated when he loved her so much.
Yes, Qiu Porcelain Xuan is not so, she is spoiled and loved to care for, but suddenly one day, the whole network is reporting that her husband is hugging other women, whether it is cheating or not, the sense of boundary between this man and woman is no longer there. Such a gap netizens can not accept, why not me?
Qiu Cixuan grew up in a patriarchal environment since she was a child, and her mother and grandmother were constantly putting pressure on her, so she was already in a very repulsive state of feelings for men, and it was Yu Xiaoguang who pulled her, touched her with every move, and opened the door of her heart.
Gradually, Qiu Cixuan gave his dependence to Yu Xiaoguang and pinned his happiness on the small family. Whether Yu Xiaoguang really cheated on him, or whether he never had a sense of boundaries, but this matter was exposed, Qiu Cixuan must have been seriously injured.
So I still want to say that it is naturally true that a good marriage heals the original family, but it is even more terrible to put everything on a good marriage, and to lose oneself and be dominated by others will become more terrible.
I don't know if everyone knows Dai Liangchun, she married 3 husbands in her life, and married her first husband Liu Yongshan, but the other party is a controlling and violent man, because she suspects that Dai Liangchun is cheating and takes a knife to disfigure him.
After escaping, the second marriage married the crazy man Yan Sanyuan, the other party's domestic violence was frequent, Dai Liangchun had an abortion for him, but the man still cheated on N people, helpless dai Liangchun hid in Japan to remarry, but the Japanese husband was tragically killed by the second marriage ex-husband.
Dai Liangchun has been escaping and hiding all his life. In order to escape the man, dodge to the arm of another man, and so on. She is afraid of men, but instinctively trusts men, and almost loses her ego's general dependence on men, resulting in 3 husbands, 1 death, and 2 imprisonment.
Some people may want to ask, is there a mistake in believing in love? Isn't it right to long to be loved? Isn't it okay to rely on your husband? Of course, they're all right.
You can pursue love, you should also believe in love, you can let go of love, but know that only by learning how to love yourself, others can cherish you and respect you more. Only by learning to protect yourself properly can others dare not hurt you casually.
Whether it is the wound of the original family or the pain of feelings, sometimes strengthening yourself is the last word.