The student who was full of school storms took his study textbooks and daily necessities with him, or left the campus and was taken home by his guardian! A student who has just turned 13 has officially withdrawn voluntarily!
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Time to step back to the week after the National Day holiday!
A student in the next class protested that his grandmother had confiscated his cell phone by not entering the classroom.
His homeroom teacher persuaded him into the classroom. As a result, in the second class, he could not enter the classroom, and he did not even want to stay in the hallway. He preferred to sit on the steps by the playground and listen to all kinds of pointing and whispering from passing students than enter the classroom. Whether it was the persuasion of classmates, the lobbying of teachers, or even the appearance of the principal, there was no intention of returning to the classroom.
In this way, he sat on the edge of the playground for a whole morning, motionless, not even moving at noon. He paid no attention to the strange eyes of the students who came and went around him
Finally, at noon, his parents took him home.
From this time on, his parents compromised: from then on, as long as they arrived at school on Sunday afternoon, they would either be picked up by their parents that night or picked up by their parents early the next morning. Sometimes you don't come to school at all!
Whenever his parents wanted to send him to school, he either protested, or chose to flee, or chose to threaten, and refused to go to school by all means. Because in his request, he wanted to bring his mobile phone into the campus, which has been rejected by the school.
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People's Daily once said: Educating children well is the most important cause of parents' lives. On the road of education, parents' unprincipled protection, bottomless pampering, and unwarranted connivance are all pushing children into the abyss of crime!
Later, I heard from the class teacher that the student's parents were divorced. Although the child was sentenced to the father, the father was sentenced for gathering a crowd to make trouble, and the mother had to take the child to her side. But in order to make a living, my mother had to go out to work. So the child was placed in foster care at Grandma's house. And grandma and grandpa are reorganized families, and it is inconvenient for grandpa to intervene in the issue of educating children. Therefore, the child has been spoiled by his grandmother since he was a child, and he almost wants to give something, and he does not consider whether his request is reasonable or not. When you don't give it, you cry, and when you cry, it works immediately.
Coincidentally, a student in our class has a particularly large addiction to mobile phones. Always take leave of absence to go home for medical reasons. To this end, his parents also took him to a large hospital for various examinations. But I didn't find a problem.
After a long period of observation, we finally understood his real intention of taking leave of absence to go home: playing mobile games!
So, in front of the child, his father smashed a half-new mobile phone to pieces.
Since then, this student has really never taken any leave to go home to "see a doctor".
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The educational role of parents is far greater than the education of children in schools. However, many parents have completely abandoned their children's education to schools and teachers, ignoring the role of parents in their own growth process.
In the process of children's growth, we parents should cultivate children's various abilities: anti-stress ability, anti-frustration ability, communication ability, problem-solving ability, independent ability, pay attention to children's psychological problems, pay attention to small details in children's growth, and establish rules and rules awareness.
Some time ago, the news that Song Haoran, the son of economist Song Qinghui, jumped off the building was on the hot search.
Afterwards, netizens unanimously believed that parents did not pay attention to their children's psychological education, ignored the various psychological problems that the child usually exposed, and did not give him enough love and security. When a child encounters stress and setbacks, he is at a loss. This sense of stress and frustration is not channeled in time, and psychological problems will accumulate into more. When he can't bear the weight, he will choose to commit suicide!
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Parents: Loose is not equal to connivance, convenience is not equal to casual, ignoring is not equal to ignoring.
please:
Give your child a little "inconvenience" to cultivate his problem-solving skills
Give your child a little "bad luck" in order to cultivate his ability to resist adversity
Give your child a little "no concern" to cultivate his ability to be independent
Give your child a little "not easy" in order to cultivate his ability to carry the weight forward
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