Look at a person's appearance to know the pattern, look at a person's value, to see his opponents and peers; to see a person's character, to see his friends and circle of friends. To see whether a person has a good life, we must see who is compared with; to see whether a person is a talent, we must see where it is placed, and the position is different and the price is not the same. To see how high a person can climb, it depends on how deep and strong his foundation is; to see how much a person can fit in, to see how much he can bear. To see whether a person has self-confidence, it depends on whether he really believes in himself; to see if a person can get through the difficulties, it depends on his outlook on life.
To see whether a person can achieve his wishes, it is necessary to see whether he can overcome his desires and refuse; to see whether a person can achieve great things, it is necessary to see whether he pays attention to small things and details. To see whether a person is successful, it is not to see how many people he has won, but to see how many people he has achieved and how many people have succeeded; to see how many people have ended, it is necessary to see how big a pattern he has.
If you're a cup, how much water can you hold, great for just such a small cup, right? But you take a liter of container, although it is loaded with one liter of water. What determines how much you receive is the size of your container, and it doesn't matter what you receive.
Whether it is insulting, hitting, accusing, hating, criticizing, attacking, wronged, or gaining and losing, success or failure, for a person who is "open-minded" and has "measurements", his heart is like an ocean, you throw a torch in it, it will soon be extinguished; you throw a bag of salt, it will soon be diluted. Conversely, if you pour a large packet of salt into a glass of water, can the glass of water still be drunk? Some people encounter a little problem, small difficulty, setback, it is so easy to get angry, frustrated, dissipated, bald, difficult to accept. Yes, it's because the pattern is too small.