#The most basic integrity between people # #人与人交往 #
Sincerity is the foundation of communication, and trust is the link that continues. Sincerity, trust is mutual, so that long-term interaction, and if the interaction based on deception, it will eventually lead to extinction.
My friend Xiaomei is a girl with a delicate life, every day will dress herself beautifully, a lot of a month's salary is used for beauty, buy cosmetics, such a girl, the pursuit of people is too much, but Xiaomei did not look at one, until one day, the appearance of this boy.
One day the rain was particularly heavy, Xiaomei worked overtime because of the work relationship to very late, it was difficult to complete the work, tired and hungry and sleepy, out of the company door and saw such a heavy rain, Xiaomei felt very irritable, and was ready to take a taxi home.
"Beauty, do you want me to take you a section?" Xiaomei, who was about to call a car, suddenly heard a boy's words, a very clean voice.
"No, thank you" Xiaomei did not remember knowing this person, and felt that she might have come to talk again, after all, there are too many such people usually.
But the other party did not leave because of this, but parked the car, and then walked to Xiaomei with an umbrella and said, "Xiaomei, don't you remember me?" I am Wang Yu, your junior high school classmate"!
Xiaomei only carefully looked at the boy years ago at this time, missing some familiarity, well, junior high school classmates basically did not contact, some do not remember each other, embarrassing.
Wang Yu saw the hesitation in Xiaomei's eyes and said, "Look, I still have our junior high school classmates?" Oh, and this, our graduation photos. ”
Xiaomei looked down, indeed, the group itself had it, but didn't talk much inside.
In this way, Xiaomei got into the car, the old classmates met, and Xiaomei was still very happy. After all, in this strange big city, it is very fortunate to meet an acquaintance.
The two of them ate together, and Wang Yu sent Xiaomei home.
At this time, Xiaomei also knew that Wang Yu had been in this city for many years, and was now an executive of a company, and today she also happened to come here and have something.
Before leaving, Wang Yu asked for Xiaomei's contact information.
After returning home, Xiaomei recalled that tonight she suddenly had a feeling of providence in the dark, the sunshine was handsome, rich and capable, and such a boy was simply his own Prince Charming.
After the two go to dinner together, watch movies, go shopping, Wang Yu will be very intimate to Buy all the things that Xiaomei likes, has been reluctant to buy clothes, bags, cosmetics, go to high-end restaurants to eat together, naturally the two are together.
Xiaomei feels that she has fallen into the love network, and our friends are also envious of her having such a home.
But one day, Xiaomei came to me crying, saying that she had broken up with Wang Yu, and I was very strange, how did the two people who were so loving and sprinkling dog food everywhere suddenly break up?
It turned out that Xiaomei suddenly found that Wang Yu was not a big company executive at all, dropped out of school after junior high school, and then has been muddy, basically there is no serious job, just because she likes Xiaomei from junior high school, and knows that Xiaomei likes high-quality life, so she said so, even the car is borrowed by a buddy.
Today Xiaomei and her friends were having dinner, just happened to meet Wang Yu to the place where Wang Yu worked, met him, Xiaomei felt that she had been deceived, a relationship that began with deception, Xiaomei chose to end.
The beginning of a lie must need countless lies to cover up, deception is intolerable to us, and the emotional end that begins with deception can be imagined.
People-to-people interaction is valuable in sincerity, sincerity can make us more trusting, more willing to communicate!