Hello everyone, I am a double Chu classmate who loves to chase dramas, I heard that Yang Zi's new drama is online, and I am still looking forward to it, after all, "The Rest of My Life" that has been waiting for a long time has not been followed, and recently it has been absurd.
Yesterday brushed up 6 episodes of "Female Psychologist" in one go, this new drama starring Yang Zi and Jing Bairan actually made me have a bright foot, it seems that I was really maimed by the ancient vomit drama, and urgently need some "less love and more work", but also have to be handsome men and beautiful women TV series to wash their eyes.
Horton, a female psychologist played by Yang Zi, encountered a typical psychological case in the first episode, depression caused by the breakdown of family intimate relationships.
A high school girl was subjected to campus violence and wanted to take her life one after another, first jumping off a building and then diving into the water, but was saved by Horton.
I thought that this encounter would at least get the attention of the parents, but the mother who was late in coming only said lightly: "Really let her jump she does not dare." "Dad is even in front of the child, directly to the school to ask not to blame another classmate, the reason is that the college entrance examination is about to be taken, can not affect everyone."
Across the screen, you can feel how desperate the girl's heart is, her own spirit is on the verge of collapse, but her parents are like an outsider, they can't detect anything, not only can't help themselves, but also invisibly push themselves to the cliff.
The closer the person, the deeper the hurt tends to be.
That night, she lost control again and slapped herself a dozen times in a row.
Self-abuse is an extreme behavior taken by every depressed person in order to vent his heart, and find relief through self-masochism and self-harm.
Someone once posted asking: Does it not hurt to hit yourself?
For normal people, it hurts to take a needle and prick yourself. But for depressed patients, the pain nerves seem to be paralyzed, and every time they hit them, it seems that they are not hitting themselves, but a shell without a soul. In addition to the mechanical repetitive jerking action, more extreme methods are sought because the pain is not strong enough.
I know so well because I was also a depressed person, and I have experienced what the little girl in the play has experienced.
Horton's appearance was like a ray of light shooting into the darkness, as if sending a floating board to a drowning man.
With her help, the girl's problems finally attracted the attention of her parents. After a series of consultations, their original problems gradually came to light, and it turned out that the girl's parents had divorced long ago because of emotional discord, and they discussed hiding from their daughter until she graduated from high school.
But under the eaves of the same house, the girl had long been aware. The parents looked at each other, the atmosphere was cold day and night, and the occasional quarrel came from the crack in the door, and finally the girl took the knife and cut herself.
From that time on, as long as the child had an accident, the parents would work together to take care of themselves and care for themselves, just as happy as ever. The girl seems to have found the key to Pandora's box, and she constantly draws the attention of her parents through self-harm, occasionally in other ways, such as theft.
Knowing this hidden affair, Horton used a matchstick game to guide the confused couple.
When Horton asked, who had caused the recent disputes. As a result, most of the matches representing "daughters".
However, they are only venting their dissatisfaction with each other in the name of their daughters, and the real contradiction is still the other party, not the daughter.
The clueless teenage girl, from the dispute between her parents, attributed all the faults to herself, thinking that it was because she was not good, so her parents quarreled.
She can only attract the attention of her parents through her extreme behavior, because only in this way will her parents appear at the same time, care for her and take care of her together.
Due to the breakdown of family relations, the girl has caused a lot of harm, she is suspicious, jealous, not confident, and therefore not social in school. Under all kinds of contradictions, psychological pressure cannot be effectively eliminated, so the emotions are sick and out of control.
Look, how much like the life we've ever lived.
This drama is wonderful, it is very close to life, or it is fundamentally derived from life. The original author, Bi Shumin, herself a senior counselor, wrote in her preface:
I didn't go out of my way to experience the character for the sake of writing a novel, but I actually saved lives.
Compared with the original book, the heroine's experience in the book is more tragic, dark, and suffocating. The TV series presents a beautiful vision of guiding people to chase the light after processing and beautification. Human nature is infinitely complex, and behind every mental illness, there is a set of cumbersome logical relationships. No act is as simple as it appears.
Most of the mental illness is related to intimate relationships, just like the girl who committed suicide on TV, her mode of getting along with her classmates, and her pessimism about things, in fact, because her parents broke down, but they failed to deal with it.
I love the story that Horton told the girl about the transplanted seedlings.
Saying goodbye to the soil that gives birth to oneself and living in another piece of soil is actually not as difficult as imagined. Farewell is a compulsory course in our adult life, it doesn't matter if we say goodbye earlier or later, but rather than hiding our children because we are afraid of saying goodbye, we should communicate with her frankly and tell our children that even if the parents are separated, this love will not be less.
Perhaps after taking the first farewell class in life, the child will be more open-minded on the road in the future.
Fortunately, the family met Horton, they are lucky, this is the gap between TV dramas and real life.
In real life, not everyone can meet Horton, and more people are still in a stage of contempt for mental illness, and they think that depression is actually thinking too much. On this point, I don't want to refute it, and I can't resist it.
But thankfully we're all waking up. Fortunately, after surviving that period of time, grateful to see such a suitable play, life is wonderful, the world is infinite, we all have to strive to become our own Horton.
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