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01 Maureen and Harold
In "A Man's Pilgrimage", whenever Maureen recalls the first meeting with Harold, the two of them just said something and then laughed and leaned forward, always touched.
She always felt that Harold at that time must have told some joke to make them laugh so much.
Over the decades of marriage, this scenario became increasingly blurred in their memories, and the troubles of life brought their marriage and feelings to a state of numbness, so much so that it eventually led to Harold's "running away from home."
Fortunately, in the end, because of Harold's "exodus", the two sides once again remembered the bits and pieces of the past years, so that they suddenly woke up, and the original love and passion for each other were lost by the numbness of life.
02 Happiness is short-lived and pain is eternal
As the saying goes, "Happiness is short-lived, pain is eternal." In our daily lives, many beautiful things happen, but these beautiful things are always as short as a flash in the pan, and when we want to grasp it, these happiness always seems to disappear like a bubble in eternal time.
And those painful things are always like a "bad guy" who will bribe our brains to remember, and always let some pain occupy our poor memory for a long time.
03 Love collects beautiful me
Fortunately, the precipitation of time and past experience have allowed me to find the magic weapon to overcome these "bad elements".
I have been in love with my lover for more than three years, and at first, we often had conflicts between us because of many different views, and then I thought of a way. It is a good habit to develop by collecting our happy and beautiful moments.
Sometimes it may be just a common moment, sometimes it may be a movie together, or a joke, etc. I would use my camera to capture the scene and occasionally add it with text.
When we are free at home, we spend some time reminiscing about the places we have traveled together, the meals we have eaten, and the words we have spoken.
In this way, all the good memories scare some of the pains and troubles in our lives into the wilderness, even if sometimes we still think of some unhappy noises, but because of the blessing of good happiness, when we recall those noisy and unhappy moments, we will laugh and think how childish we were at that time.
04 Happiness is short-lived, memory is eternal
Although "happiness is short-lived, pain is eternal," don't forget that there is also a sentence that "happiness is short-lived, memory is eternal." It depends on which sentence we like to choose?
Life is like this, you smile at the world, the world treats you with joy.
May you find your own philosophy of life. [Heart]
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