Big S and Wang Xiaofei divorced, and they were not too surprised, because from the day they got married, people had already guessed that there would be this result. There are only two things about their marriage that people really didn't expect. The first is that I did not expect big S to last for ten years. The second is that I did not expect Wang Xiaofei to persist for ten years.
When the two were first married, Wang Sicong once complained about Wang Xiaofei, he commented that Wang Xiaofei was "carrying two steel hammers in his pocket to dress up as a rich second generation", and said that Wang Xiaofei entered high society by relying on big S. Although Wang Sicong's words are a bit cruel, wang Xiaofei does not have a big S and has no big S to have money, which is true. This is why so many people are not optimistic about the marriage between the two.
In 2000, Wang Xiaofei's mother, Zhang Lan, single-handedly founded "Pretty Jiangnan", and Wang Xiaofei was still studying abroad. In 2001, a "Meteor Garden" was popular all over Asia, and the lead actor Big S has since embarked on the road to the top star. That is to say, when Big S became famous, Wang Xiaofei was still an unknown student, and his mother Zhang Lan also began to create a career.
But the world is unpredictable, who can think that ten years later, such two people will actually know and fall in love. What is even more unexpected is that two people get married 20 days after just confirming the relationship? This is another reason why so many people are not optimistic about the marriage between the two.
Married for ten years, Wang Xiaofei flew more than 700 times back and forth between Taiwan and Beijing, only because Big S could not adapt to the climate of Beijing and did not want to live in Beijing. Some people say that Wang Xiaofei is too fond of Big S, and some people say that Big S is too willful. No matter what outsiders say, this has not affected their husband and wife, and the married life of the two people is much sweeter than people think.
Apart from the separation of the two places, the two people never had any conflicts. But this is also the most fatal, as big S said, because in a different place, two people get together less and leave more, and the feelings gradually fade. However, in the eyes of outsiders, the real reason for their divorce is not this, but because women are strong and men are weak.
Wang Xiaofei and Big S once starred in a variety show called "Happiness Trio", in the program, Wang Xiaofei obeyed big S's orders, and if there was dissatisfaction, he would not show it, and everything could be endured. Strong women and weak men can be seen at a glance.
Coincidentally, the other couple who starred in this show with them, Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie, are also strong women and weak men, and they are also divorced. Many people know Ai Fukuhara, but almost no one knows Jiang Hongjie. Because he and Fukuhara Ai are married, people know Jiang Hongjie. This is very similar to big S Wang Xiaofei.
Perhaps it is precisely because women are strong and men are weak, so in the show, they are always respectful to each other, so that people can't feel the sweetness that couples should have, but they are a little more cautious. Looking at Wang Xiaofei and Jiang Hongjie, people feel that they are afraid of making a mistake. How can such a conjugal relationship last?
Seeing their divorce, some people will ask if the marriage of strong women and weak men really cannot be maintained, and cannot go long? In fact, no, look at another couple who also starred in "Happiness Trio", Qin Hailu and Wang Xinjun.
If you talk about Qin Hailu, people's first reaction is that this woman is very powerful and strong. And Wang Xinjun, many people do not know. In terms of fame, Qin Hailu was much older than Wang Xinjun. The couple is also strong and weak, but the family lives a very warm and sweet life. Why? Just look at Qin Hailu's performance in front of Wang Xinjun.
Don't look at Qin Hailu so powerful in her works, but in front of Wang Xinjun, she is like a changed person, gentle as water. Qin Hailu said that she would not do anything except filming. In life, she really doesn't have to do anything, Wang Xinjun will make a meal in the morning and then call her to get up, a mouthful of "baby". After eating, Qin Hailu stayed aside and watched Wang Xinjun pack up his things.
Qin Hailu showed people the other side of her in the show, the side that only belongs to Wang Xinjun, the gentle side. They all said that a woman who can be spoiled has the best life, this is really not wrong at all, Qin Hailu used her gentleness to convince Wang Xinjun to be with her. This is also the best way for Qin Hailu to maintain a strong woman and a weak marriage, that is, not to bring you who are strong outside to your home. At home, it would be better to be softer.
In fact, on the topic of spoiling, Taiwanese girls are better at it, and the tone of their speech has its own childish tone. But Big S used this gentle tone to ask terrible questions, such as whether Wang Xiaofei regretted marrying her and so on. Ai Fukuhara also has the same problem as Big S.
There is also a point that is easy to overlook, that is, the big S is bigger than Wang Xiaofei, Fukuhara ai is bigger than Jiang Hongjie, and the sister-brother love also makes it difficult for the woman to put down her face. Coupled with the fact that women are strong and men are weak, so that the two people in this marriage are getting more and more distant. After a long time, it is naturally strange.
Therefore, in marriage, no one is higher or lower, two people should be equal, and they must learn to tolerate each other and understand each other, so as to maintain a good marriage. Whether women are strong and men are weak, men are strong and women are weak, it is most appropriate to put the strong side outside and show the other side of themselves at home.