A few years ago, the variety show "Where Did Daddy Go" exploded, and many stars took their own "star second generation" to show their faces and get attention.
The discussion points about the second generation of stars are also different, but the controversy about Huang Lei's daughter Huang Duoduo is really unique in the entertainment industry.
When participating in "Where Daddy Goes", Huang Duoduo has always shown the appearance of a big sister. As the oldest perfect big sister among all the children, Duoduo has always taken care of other children in the show, and she is also on the front line when doing tasks. This made the audience watching the show give Huang Duoduo an image of a well-behaved woman in their hearts.
But as Duoduo gradually grew up and had his own ideas, he became more and more bold in dressing, piercing his ears and dyeing his hair, which made the image of everyone's boudoir created since childhood collapse in the hearts of the audience.
Mother Sun Li said about this matter in an interview, she said that these are all self-initiative to put forward by Duoduo, parents also expressed support for these ideas, Sun Li believes that loving beauty is the nature of girls, there is nothing to oppose.
Therefore, many people have advised Huang Lei and his wife to restrain their daughters more and not to let the children be so young that they should put their minds on dressing up.
But Huang Lei and Sun Li's ideas are completely opposite to everyone's, and even on the topic of their daughter's early love, Huang Lei and Sun Li also expressed support.
For early love, as long as the correct guidance is given, it is normal for teenagers to fall in love, and Huang Lei's avant-garde Western-style education has been criticized by the public, who believes that this will ruin the child.
But is Toto really ruined? I don't think so.
On the contrary, Huang Lei's education has been very successful in Duoduo. Now duoduo shines everywhere he goes, and he is even more proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. This kind of education also allows Huang Lei and Duoduo to establish an equal and mutually respectful relationship, just like friends.
Huang Lei said in the interview that he would never look at his daughter's mobile phone. It can be seen that Huang Lei and his wife do not have a desire to control Duoduo and respect the privacy of their children. On this point alone, many parents can not do, under the pretext of "this is all for your own good" for the child to arrange, let the child take their own preset path, whether the child is willing or not.
Huang Lei also attaches great importance to the comprehensive development of Duoduo, in the previous piano competition, Duoduo, together with the son of violinist Lu Siqing, won five first prizes, which shows how excellent Huang Duoduo is.
In October last year, the drama "The Book of Water" starring Huang Duoduo and He Jiong also made its stage debut, and in the interview after the performance, He Jiong praised Duoduo. Not only do the lines be memorized quickly, the performance state is good, and in terms of treating people, Duoduo also knows how to score inches. There can be such a lot, Huang Lei and Sun Li's education is indispensable.
Truly enlightened parents will not use their children as a tool to realize their ideals, will not require their children to live according to their own wishes, but know how to fully respect their children and let them choose for themselves.
This is also why so many netizens envy Huang Duoduo, because there are too few truly enlightened parents in real life.
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