Mango Station's "Brother With Thorns" was popular, bringing fire to the marriage of Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei, and the two co-starred in "Flying in the Sky" in the show, cool and sassy, hormone explosion, high-sweet interaction made melon-eating netizens envious.
Lee Seung-hyun did not leave Qi Wei in three sentences in the show.
Netizens jokingly said: "Qi Wei doesn't seem to be coming, and it seems to be coming again." "Qi Wei — a woman living on Lee Seung-hyun's phone." "I finally understand Qi Wei's happiness."
Lee Seung-hyun talked about Qi Wei when chatting with his teammates, and said this: She is not only my wife, but also like my good friend, good buddy, what difficulties, we are all discussing to solve, the longest time we talked for 74 minutes. After listening to it, Ouyang Jing suddenly realized: It turns out that Qi Wei is our captain.
In the follow-up interview of the show, Lee Seung-hyun even revealed the secret of marriage between them, which can be called textbook love, if you want to keep your marriage fresh, just take a look!
Although the two currently have their own jobs, none of them are more than 24 hours old and have no video calls. No matter how busy and tired, Lee Seung-hyun calls Qi Wei at least once a day and says goodnight, which is a habit.
For Lee Seung-hyun, Qi Wei is the best friend in the world. Whether it is difficult or happy, you can share it with Qi Wei.
Although sometimes there will be emotional conflicts, but to overcome, lovers can not have self-esteem and face, to know how to admit mistakes.
Don't be afraid to quarrel, two people from different countries, different families, different cultural backgrounds, living habits, is what needs to be run-in. If each quarrel can solve a problem, it is a good way to communicate. Just don't make a fuss for no reason.
Once daughter Lucky asked Lee Seung-hyun: Daddy, what are you most afraid of?
Qi Wei pounced on the powder while not hesitated to grab the words: Mom.
Some people say that Qi Wei is too strong, and Lee Seung-hyun has no dignity at all in front of Qi Wei, that is because Lee Seung-hyun's love and tolerance have given Qi Wei a strong confidence.
Men are afraid of women, just afraid of her being hurt, afraid that she will not be happy. For her sake, he put down his face for the time being.
Lee Seung-hyun sometimes gets jealous of love. He once asked Qi Wei what places you and your ex had been, and I wanted to go with you to cover up your previous memories. In the future, no matter where you go, the only thing that comes to mind is me, such as taking a balloon and eating a popsicle. Qi Wei replied that some memories could not be covered. Lee Seung-hyun was disappointed.
If you love someone, you will want to go to every place she has been, walk all the roads she has traveled, and have common memories with her.
Once, Lee Seung-hyun was sad and wept in the show, because he saw the photo of Qi Wei's deceased grandfather, very similar to Qi Wei's mother, and suddenly felt sorry for his mother-in-law, because he had promised to exist like grandpa and treat Qi Wei well. But there are still many places where it has not been done.
If you love someone, you will want to take care of her for the rest of your life, pamper her like a child, and give her a commitment to love.
Happy marriages are all similar. In a happy family, two people must be in love with each other. So, it's important to find someone who loves to marry.
How can you tell if a man really loves you?
Willing to give you what you think is valuable
The book says that there are three things that cannot be hidden—cough, poverty, and love.
When a man loves you and sees that your eyes are full of pampering, he will want to give you what he thinks is most precious.
For a person who is not rich, the most precious thing is money. For a person who is busy with work, the most precious thing is time.
Before marriage, men loved you and would often want to buy you gifts to make you happy.
After marriage, the man loves you and will give you the financial power of the family to reassure you.
No matter how busy he is at work, he will often call and text you. If you don't hear back from him in a long time, he'll be fidgeting and worried about whether something is wrong with you. If men often say busy and don't contact you for two or three days, that's most of the time a pretext.
The shortest time to send a WeChat message is 7 seconds, not that he can't draw these 7 seconds, but he doesn't have you in his heart.
Identify, praise and appreciate you
A psychologist once said that the deepest need of human beings is to be appreciated by others.
Loving someone first comes from identifying and appreciating the person, and a certain trait of the other party is attractive to you. If you don't look at each other well, often suppress each other, and criticize each other, that kind of feeling is repressed and cannot last long.
When a woman wears a dress that she thinks is beautiful, showing it to her boyfriend or husband, in exchange for a sentence, how can your taste be so poor. You can imagine how much her self-esteem has been hit.
When a man often praises his own woman and looks at his own woman with an appreciative eye, the woman will also be more confident and live a better life.
Judging whether you meet the right person depends on whether you're getting better or worse after you're with him.
Treat you like a child
Good marriages turn women into children, and bad marriages turn women into lunatics.
Every woman has a little princess living in her heart, and she hopes to be loved like a little princess, but with the passage of time and the blow of life, the little princess in some women's hearts disappears and is replaced by a roaring child.
Why do some women become good wives and mothers after marriage, quiet and gentle; some women become depressed wives or vulgar shrews after marriage?
In addition to their own cognition and cultivation, men's attitude is also crucial.
You spoil a woman as a princess, she is a princess. You use a woman as a servant, she is a servant.
The man who loves you will treat you as a child, give you a warm embrace, a spoiled smile, shield you from the wind and rain, and let the little princess in your heart always exist.
In marriage, we continue to shape ourselves with words and deeds, and we also shape each other.
Plan for the future and keep your promises
I love you, love you the whole time, from youth to maturity, from impulse to silence, thank you, give me an empty joy.
Some women have given their whole youth to men. How long can a woman's youth be? Five years, ten years, year after year, I didn't expect to find someone who didn't want to give you a home at all.
Just like Zhou Yangqing and Luo Zhixiang, Zhou Yangqing paid 9 years of youth in exchange for knowing a scumbag.
Just like Chen Lu, who was recently sued in court because of the breakup fee, and Huo Zun have been in love for 9 years, the other party does not want to marry her at all, and if they break up, they will have to eat a lawsuit.
A man who doesn't want a future with you and doesn't want to give you any commitments is not worthy of a woman's trust and doesn't really love you.
Chen Xiaochun signed a deed of sale at the wedding with Ying Cai'er, promising that Ying Cai'er would love her for the rest of her life, and no matter what happened in this life, she would not choose to divorce. On "The Brother Who Cut through thorns", Chen Xiaochun also repeated this sentence. It's simple, but powerful. That's the best commitment to a woman.
Have the same attitude before and after falling in love or getting married
Some men, when chasing you sweet words, chased to the hand within a few days of WeChat does not return or bad words to each other.
Or be courteous and flattering before marriage, and throw away the treasurer after marriage.
Such a man, who said he loved you, with a strong sense of purpose, did not really love you. The purpose is achieved, the possessiveness of oneself is satisfied, and there is no interest in you.
Men who truly love you, whether before or after love, or before and after marriage, are as good as ever for you. Know how to cherish, but also know how to be grateful.
Just like Zhang Zhilin and Yuan Yongyi, the two fell in love until they were married for nearly 30 years, and Zhang Zhilin still respected Yuan Yongyi as much. Zhang Zhilin said in the program: Our romance is life, including sweet and sour, bitter and spicy, sad and happy, all of which are enriching our romance.
Bad marriages, denigrating each other. Good marriage, praise each other;
Bad marriages, pulling on each other. Good marriages, mutual achievements;
Bad marriages are shorter than love. A good marriage lasts longer than a lifetime;