#如何追求到内向文静的女生 #
What society lacks, the media publicizes. In the 1970s and 1980s, what was lacking was a spirit of struggle and unity, so there were a large number of anti-Japanese war dramas and inspirational encouragement dramas. The 90s and 00s were an era of better material conditions, and the only fly in the ointment was that people in this era seemed to have a very weak concept of love.
In the past, when talking about marriage, I was looking for a dependency. Today's girls can not only support themselves by their own skills, but also live a prosperous life, and boys no longer become their dependence, so the concept of love is also faded. However, for boys, they still hope that they can give the girls they like to rely on, like girls to sell cute to themselves, lie and spoil, and the first thing that comes to mind when they encounter problems is themselves.
Girls with cheerful personalities are born with a natural maturity, can quickly integrate into other people's circles, and can quickly get recognition from others. However, there are some girls who are more introverted and quiet, they are not very good at communicating with people, most of them encounter problems are selectively avoided, they can always quickly feel the emotions of everyone around them, silently help others when they need it, and be quiet when others do not need it.
When they meet someone who understands themselves, they will say a few more words, and if they can't meet, they won't care too much. However, this kind of girl is a headache for boys, they basically have no way to define what this girl likes, how can they successfully pursue her?
In fact, as long as you find the right way, this kind of girl is not particularly difficult to pursue. Introverted and quiet girls, most of them are slow heat, if you want to pursue such a girl, you must have endurance and cultivate comfort.
In the face of this type of girl, we can't show too much enthusiasm, if too enthusiastic, usually make them feel uncomfortable, once they form this feeling, your pursuit will only make them bored with you, in short, you are out of play.
Introverted girls are easy to be ignored, in fact, their hearts also hope that they can be discovered, and they also hope that they can get the love and care of others. If the girl you like is more introverted, you may wish to show your unique concern for her more, which can enhance her good feelings for you, and your relationship will go further.
Introverted girls are quieter most of the time, not because they like to be quiet, but because they don't know how to enliven the atmosphere. Try to coax her more, give her some small surprises from time to time, make her happy, he will know more about you, and it will be much easier to get along later, at least you have a common topic.
Respect them, Wenjing girls are more shy, appropriate to maintain her on some occasions, so that she will not fall into an embarrassing state, over time, her good feelings for you will increase a lot, and also began to slowly learn to pay attention to you.
In pursuit of the girls we like, we must respect their ideas, understand them, and love them, so that they can truly feel your true heart, and they will try to give back to your own heart.