Only men who do it have drama. ”
For this so-called very popular TV series, I only watched a few shots, and they were all jumping to watch, specifically, it was the one who was watching, I glanced at the side a few times, impartial, and saw Su Daqiang - for this actor, I like it more, especially "Peking No Past" left a deep impression on me.
The girl wants to learn, the second brother is playing a game, so he comes out with the theory, the mother does not care, the eldest brother comes forward, and this calms down. Typical patriarchal families, this kind of plot can be figured out without a head, and finally the girl has the ability and is very filial piety, while the boy is a loser.
I don't think Su Daqiang, there are thousands of families like him in China, everyone is laughing at him, satirizing him, and even liking him at the same time, look at ourselves, look around, maybe not exactly like, but many people will find that men are either the lords of the sky or a nest.
Ugly men and highlight the superior side of women is a trick and part of real life.
I am in the family, and I may not even be as strong as Su Daqiang.
First of all, on status, I still don't know what status I have, the only thing that is clear is to make money, I can't make money, the family can't live, where to get the expenses of a family, close to a little, I am a slave, what is the status, what is what you say, but what I say, everyone listens sideways and scatters.
Secondly, on power, my right at home, that is, to be a driver, is to be a servant, I dare not give orders, for fear that everyone will take revenge, afraid that everyone will be angry, so I will do something myself, such as wanting to drink a cup of water, sitting on the side of a circle of people, calling several times no one to pay attention, it is better to fall by myself. I have no power in front of my parents; I have no power in front of my children; I have even less power in front of my family.
However, on the ideal, what my ideal is, no one knows, no one asks, everyone asks, when I pay, when I go to the supermarket, when to buy clothes, when to pay what money, as for my ideal, my works, has never been just my idea.
Is it still interesting for a man to live like this?
I can't always die, so I have to do it, keep doing, make style to make a level, occasionally reflect my own existence, occasionally show my talent, and occasionally remind everyone that I still have a life. Isn't it, Su Daqiang sold a house, bought a house, for his son and daughter, he may have thought about doing something of his own, but he can only do everything possible to let people know his difficulties, let people see where his problems are, maybe he can't solve anything, but he is solving the problem.
How can someone who has not done so reflect the problems of this family?
The bitterness of the man's world is not all heroic, he must be a pillar, maintain the family, so that it will not collapse, maybe this role is dark and bright, like Su Daqiang; it is possible that this role is very strong, leading the members of the whole family. However, back in life, whether it is a man or a woman, you have to deal with countless problems every day, but in a different way.
Hard work to make money, give money to women, and women do nothing, send pocket money every month, such a family is many, can it be regarded as a work? Is it to do some strange things for the growth of children? The way of life of each family is different, the personality of each person is different, as long as the family is not broken, as long as these members are still alive, it is not counted as a work.
To do is to die.
For the definition of the work, the audience may be too nervous, there are too many people than Su Daqiang, but the role of Su Daqiang is too similar to many men, which has resonated and triggered discussion.
What is it called? Let me give you a small example, a man found another woman after divorce, gave the money to this woman to take care of, this woman after getting the money, not only did not manage the family, but beat the man and the ex-wife's children, this is called. Those complete families, the preference for sons over daughters, are no longer individual cases, the whole society is like this, if you want to do it, the whole society is doing it.
In fact, through the role of Su Daqiang, women should also look at the men around them, whether they are Su Daqiang.