Hey, what have you been like these two days?
Originally, I thought that my public account should be mainly paid more attention to by female readers. As a result, after a few recent articles, the ratio of men and women has changed from 40% of male readers in the early days and 60% of female readers to 50% of the current 50% of female readers.
The proportion of boys has risen by 10%, and many boys have added me to weChat private chat after reading the article, and the content is to give praise and blessings.
This had to catch my attention to the boys, hahaha. (Usually there is not a lot of contact with boys, and there is rarely in-depth chat)
So today let's talk about boys haha!
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@Dapeng
In the process of getting along with my wife, what do you want to say to her? "I asked my friend Brother Roc.
Dapeng: "Listen to you." ”
Me: "Is that what you want to say?" ”
Dapeng: "Yes. ”
"Women are happy and their lives are better. All feelings take precedence, and that's it. She will understand you. ”
——Dapeng Brother this is very in place ha, hahaha! What do you think?
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@CH: Getting along with girls is a set of formulas
Me: "Is there any little story between you and your wife that you can share?" ”
Friend CH: "What is the specific story that our boys don't remember." ”
"IT men like us treat the problems encountered when getting along as solution equations, how to solve such problems, and directly apply the formula."
"Gradually, the more the formula is used, the more the theorems can be formed, it is simpler, directly according to the theorems to judge right and wrong, and the results are produced in seconds."
——This statement from friend Chen is very interesting, did you get it?
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@ Old Farmer: Boys are actually more vulnerable inside
I haven't seen a media friend in a year or two, he is doing brand promotion, personal IP, yesterday after seeing it, he talked:
Me: "Didn't expect how I added so many male fans hahaha." ”
Old farmer: "We boys are actually more fragile inside, you write some emotional content, so what you write may touch them at some point." Boys need to be appeased..."
——May we girls be a little more gentle with boys, hahaha~
I continued: "I feel that boys are still quite simple and simple, and recently a lot of male readers have sent me messages, which is simply praise and blessings." ”
Old Farmer: "Yes, boys are very simple. Sometimes it's like a child. ”
"For example, sometimes when watching TV, we can hold the remote control and change the station all the time, and the girl will not understand why she keeps pressing? We're not going to do anything, we just don't think about anything. If we were given something to suck in our mouths, we could suck there all the time. ”
The 45-year-old farmer really looked like a little boy when he said it, with an innocent expression on his face, hahaha!
Knock on the blackboard!!!
——From the perspective of brain science, the structure of the boy's brain is like a small independent box, do not touch together, pull out one and put it back, they correspond to different content themes, and they are not related to each other. (One with work, one with children, one with partners, etc.) So it's one-way thinking.
(And the girl's brain is constructed like a sphere of intricate wires, work and children intertwined, children and partners intertwined, work and money intertwined with children, etc., and finally all are connected together, so one thing can be infinitely related...) ）
thereinto! The boy had two boxes with nothing inside! It's called "Empty Box"! (Girls don't know)
is their favorite!!!
If possible, the boys would choose "empty box" every time!!!
So, as the old farmer described, they can maintain a "brain dead" empty state for hours.
As a girl, the next time you meet a boy in this state, you know why?
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Come and feel the directness of the boys
Look at the picture yourself, feel the painting style, hahahahahaha!
Praise is also very direct, haha, no stinginess ~
—— Aren't these two kinds of "direct" also cute? Hahaha!
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At this time, it is not direct again...
Don't say anything directly first, wait half a day without saying it, until you reply...
Meet a lot of boys are like this, hahaha!
Once in the café met a boy in his fifties, he said that some girls added WeChat, every time they sent greetings to the past, the other party did not reply, so he deleted these girls later.
I asked him, "Why don't you just say the subject and tell him what you have to say?" ”
He said, "Nothing, just talk, she came back to me and I'll come back." Add and don't talk, what is added? ”
If you were reading a girl, what would you do?
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Boys are more results-oriented
This is a conversation with ex
——Boys pay more attention to the results, girls pay more attention to the process, combined, very perfect ha ~
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@ZM: Boys only have beautiful women in their eyes
Some time ago, I had dinner with my friend ZM and accidentally talked about beautiful women.
I said, "Girls will look at beautiful women twice, so will you boys see handsome guys like this?" ”
ZM: "When we see a handsome guy, we look around him and see if there's a beautiful woman next to him?" ”
Me: "Hahaha, sure enough, the boy's focus is only on beautiful women!" ”
——The next time the boy goes out, protect the beautiful girl next to you! Hahaha!
At last
There are significant differences between boys and girls due to various reasons such as innate structure and acquired evolution, may we understand each other more and care more!
Do you have anything else to say about boys?
Welcome to exchange Ha ~
Well, it's time to say goodbye again.
Influence life with life.
See you next time~
Best wishes,
Annabel Wang