This is a book written by a dedicated mother to record her child's growth. The language is simple and sincere, and it is worth learning from every mother. The parenting experience shared by Peking University mothers tells us that the bully is not born, does not need to be excellent all the time, just needs to maintain a curiosity. I see that every child has the potential to become a "school bully".
The author mentions that "people should continue to make mistakes, learn lessons, accumulate experience, and grow up slowly in learning." Everyone grows up in trial and error, and if they don't make mistakes, they don't know what is right. Parents are eager to protect their calves, afraid of their children's suffering, but use anxiety to limit their children's progress.
Not afraid of children making mistakes, afraid of hurting children's curiosity. Why? From the time children are born to the time they grow up, it can be said that their thirst for knowledge is based on curiosity. Curiosity is one of the intrinsic motivations of individual learning, the motivation of individuals to seek knowledge, and an important feature of creative talents.
It can be seen that curiosity is the driving force for us to learn. The author also uses the example of his daughter to illustrate that the cultivation of learning interest is first of all to satisfy children's curiosity, and reading is an important means to satisfy curiosity.
Here the author has created a reading atmosphere for his daughter since he was a child, which is worthy of our reference. Independent reading has no doubt about the child's language learning, which is of great help to writing, and it satisfies the child's strong desire for knowledge and expands the scope of knowledge.
However, many of us parents know the importance of reading, but we do not read it ourselves, or rarely read it. When children see parents holding their phones every day to brush videos or play games, it is difficult to devote themselves to reading. Therefore, the "chicken" baby is not as good as the "chicken" itself, and if you want to make the child fall in love with reading, it is better to start with yourself and influence the child with actions.
The growth of children is natural and inevitable, and becoming a qualified parent also requires continuous learning. The authors mention that "the child's progress seems to be a natural and unstoppable process. It is enough for parents to accompany them with all their hearts and quietly wait and appreciate." #陪孩子走过小学六年 #
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