Men and women live together, is it the man who suffers, or the woman who suffers? Some people say that this is not easy to say, mainly depending on the age of the two people. In fact, as long as the two are truly in love, it doesn't matter whether they suffer losses or not. And what about men and women after divorce? When they are looking for friends, they will inevitably mix with the element of money.
Zhou Wei (pseudonym) complained to the mediator: "She didn't go a day without drinking, got a "car club", and mixed with these people all day, I once read her chat records, which recorded very clearly, sleep with this today, sleep with that tomorrow. ”
Guo Mei (pseudonym), a native of Changsha, Hunan Province, has been divorced for many years and likes to chat on the Internet. In August 2020, Ms. Guo met Zhou Wei from the Internet, and the two were very speculative and decided to meet. For a month, Zhou Wei asked for warmth every day, the car was picked up and delivered, Ms. Guo felt very warm, and the two established a relationship. Then, Zhou Wei gradually exposed his own nature and constantly carried out domestic violence against Guo Mei, and many bruises on Guo Mei's body have not disappeared.
What makes Guo Mei even more uncomfortable is that Zhou Wei's machismo and possessiveness are particularly strong, such as he installed positioning software in Guo Mei's mobile phone, installed two cameras at home, and also had monitoring equipment in the car. Working during the day, as soon as they returned home at night, the two had not yet eaten, and Zhou Wei began to inquire about Guo Mei's chat history. Zhou Wei also often warned Guo Mei not to speak or contact with any of the opposite sex, otherwise she would look good. At the same time, Zhou Wei said that he once consulted a lawyer: male and female friends fight, as long as they do not die, they will be fine!
Guo Mei felt that she had fallen into the magic cave, which was intolerable. After she proposed to break up, to her surprise, Zhou Wei broke the ground and proposed that she had to pay a breakup fee of 200,000 yuan. Guo Mei told the mediator: The two were together for 1 year, all the expenses were paid by her, and it was really nonsense that he wanted to break up the fee.
Zhou Wei did not agree with Guo Mei's statement at all, saying that the reason why he would do something to her was entirely caused by Guo Mei. "Guo Mei once took me to her 50-year-old lover's house and told me that this person was very good to her." Zhou Wei said that Guo Mei's approach has touched his most basic bottom line as a man.
The mediator called the two together, and after Guo Mei saw Zhou Wei, her emotions immediately began to stir, and she shouted: "Do you have a relationship with Mao?" Zhou Wei raised his fist angrily and was stopped by the mediator. The two had to separate themselves, arguing and fighting as soon as they met. Zhou Wei said: "Since the matter has reached this point, I don't expect her to change her mind, but she must pay me 20,000 yuan in labor fees."
What exactly is labor cost? Zhou Wei said: "After I was with Guo Mei, I worked in Guo Mei's company, and I have not received a penny of salary for more than half a year, according to the salary of 300 yuan per day, it is almost tens of thousands of yuan." Guo Meiyi heard: "This is really a joke, you were a person when you came, you didn't bring anything, when you gave me a job, you didn't say you wanted a salary, now you want to be extortion." ”
The mediator repeatedly persuaded Guo Mei, and eventually Guo Mei agreed to pay Zhou Wei 30,000 yuan in "labor fees" and some other expenses, but she asked Zhou Wei to write a letter of guarantee that she would not harass her in the future, otherwise the money would be returned immediately.
The property of men and women in a romantic relationship belongs to each other, unlike the joint property of husband and wife after marriage. Legally speaking, in the process of love between a man and a woman, the expenses of expenses should not be refunded. Of course, if it is a loan, it is a different matter. Some netizens commented: Online love must not run to the present, scum men and scumbags are difficult to get around, scumbags eat soft rice at home, and scum women step on two boats. Whether married or not, stepping on two boats in the process of falling in love is also a serious violation of morality.