On November 12, 18 years after the death of Mei Yanfang, the movie "Mei Yanfang" was released, which told the tortuous life of Amei's legend. Mui Yanfang, born in Hong Kong in 1963, died in 2003 at the age of 40.
That year, she wore a white wedding dress and married herself to the stage and fans with the regret of not marrying in her life. And she has 5 most important men in her life, her favorite person is a scumbag, which is also a relationship that Mei Yanfang can't let go of until she dies, after singing the last song with all her strength, she fell into Andy Lau's arms, and Jacky Cheung helped her pay off the medical expenses.
At noon on January 12, 2003, Mui Yanfang's funeral ceremony was solemnly held in Hong Kong, and her former friends Jackie Chan, Tsang Chi Wai, Liang Chaowei, Liu Jialing, Zhao Wenzhuo, Jacky Cheung and others all dressed in plain clothes to send Ah Mei on her last journey. Nicholas Tse and Mei Yanfang's nephew walked out of the funeral home holding her photos, and Andy Lau, Liu Peiji, Liang Chaowei, Tao Zhe, Lian Yanhui, Su Xiaoliang, Zhang Minyi, and Yang Ziqiong personally supported her.
Fans and movie fans on both sides of the road cried out Mei Yanfang's name in grief and cried. Many reporters also spontaneously dressed in black to send Off Mei Yanfang, and some were sad and wept at one point.
In the countless flower baskets outside the funeral home, the flower basket sent by Zhao Wenzhuo reads "The love of this life, all the way to go" just 8 words, but the words are thousands of words, especially attracting people's attention, after Zhao Wenzhuo has married and had children, he can also write such words, which shows that he had a piece of true love for Mei Yanfang in that year.
Zhao Wenzhuo affectionately believes that Mei Yanfang is the most loved person in his life, but does Mei Yanfang also think so? Once, Mei Yanfang publicly stated that if she wanted to, she would have become Mrs. Zhao a long time ago. However, there is no if, and there is no regret medicine.
Although Mei Yanfang has regrets about Zhao Wenzhuo, the person she loves most in her heart is not Zhao Wenzhuo, but the Japanese artist Makoto Kondo. Many people may not be familiar with this Japanese name, Makoto Kondo, born on July 19, 1964, a Singer and actress in Japan, nicknamed Matchy Matches. He was one of japan's most active idol actors in the 80s, and many of his songs have been covered into Chinese many times, including Mui Yanfang's "Sunset Song" and Chen Huixian's "Thousand and One Thousand Que Songs".
In 1985, Makoto Kondo came to Hong Kong twice, the first time, Mui Yanfang met Kondo at a cocktail party, the second time, Kondo couldn't help but kiss Ame, the two kissed and made love, secretly developing a long-distance relationship. At that time, many people around her were not optimistic about this relationship, but the obsessive Ame fell in love with her heart, a man who made her unable to let go until her death.
Later, for various reasons, Mei Yanfang and Kondo broke up, she said in an interview: "I treated him so well, I paid so much, he may not have appreciated, if you want to re-establish a relationship, the most worthy of re-enactment is this exotic love." The feeling of Kondo still exists to this day,"
Many years later, Mei Yanfang was terminally ill, in the last half of her life, she still could not let go of the favorite in her heart, she disregarded her body, went to Japan to meet her former lover, but Kondo Makoto had already split her legs several times during her relationship with her girlfriend Nakamori Akira before she interacted with Mei Yanfang.
After Kondo broke up with Mei Yanfang, he was exposed by the Japanese media that he was dating Seiko Matsuda in New York. In the end, Mei Yanfang's trip to Japan did not get a happy ending, and Makoto Kondo never planned to marry her.
On January 8, 2009, on the sixth anniversary of Mei Yanfang's death, Makoto Kondo came to her spirit to remember Mei Yanfang. In an interview with Hong Kong media, he said that he had avoided the day of his death for 2 consecutive years and came to worship Mui Yanfang, saying that "I still miss Anita (Mei Yanfang)". I don't know if Mei Yanfang, who is in heaven, would be relieved if she heard these words spoken by Makoto Kondo.
However, Makoto Kondo was originally a seed of affection, and in 2020, Makoto Kondo exposed the scandal again and had an extramarital affair with the 31-year-old female president for five years. From November 17, Makoto Kondo stopped acting indefinitely. In an interview with the media, he only had one sentence, "Can't answer, can't answer, can't answer", and slipped away.
It turns out that when he is old, Makoto Kondo does not change the nature of the wanderer. It turned out that he was a man who liked to mess with flowers and grass, but did not want to be responsible for any woman. It's just a pity that Mei Yanfang met people in the most beautiful years, and regrets for life.
At Mei Yanfang's last farewell concert, she said emotionally: "I am a singer and actor, I am not wearing a wedding dress for the first time, but none of them belong to me, which may be the regret of my life." Life is like this, sometimes you expect things, you think you have, but you don't have. Nothing, nothing, nothing. The last song, "Sunset Song", I want to say to you, the sunset is beautiful, just near dusk. ”
And the last song she sang, "Sunset Song", was a cover of Kondo Masahiko's song, it turned out that until the last moment of her life, the man in her heart who was most reluctant to let go was Kondo Masahiko. Unfortunately, her affection was ultimately wrongly paid.
After Mei Yanfang's death, the "he" who loved Mei Yanfang the most did not enter the water for seven consecutive days, silently guarding in front of Mei Yanfang's spirit and following Mei Yanfang in the form of hunger strike. Once, someone took him away, but he would drag his tired body back to her side, refusing to leave until the end of his life, and in such a decisive way, he would live and die, never abandoning.
And he is Mei Yanfang's pet dog Ah Lak, although he is not a human, but he is more loyal and affectionate to Mei Yanfang than some men. Perhaps, all things have a spirit, he does not want his favorite master to die alone with regrets, he wants to be by her side forever, to soothe her wounded heart.
Mei Yanfang, treating career and feelings the same, goes all out and does not seek returns. In Mei Yanfang's short 40 years of life, she has loved and been loved, she is lucky, met so many fans and fans who love her, she is successful, countless awards, loved and sought after by thousands of people. She is a lovely Hong Kong daughter, she is a beautiful tianhou philanthropist, the descendants who were promoted by her, and now she has long been famous, such as Aaron Kwok, Su Yongkang, Chen Xiaochun, Eason Chan, Nicholas Tse and others, who have received her care and help.
She is also unfortunate, born in a patriarchal family since childhood, forced to make a living on stage at the age of 4, groping in the complicated entertainment industry, and after becoming famous, she still has not been able to escape the various demands of her mother and brother in the original family. Before her death, she made a will to devote part of her estate to charitable causes.
She waited all her life, and finally did not wait for the man who loved her the most to marry her, but the man who loved her the most was already a husband and a father.
At the right time, meeting the right person is a kind of happiness; at the wrong time, meeting the right person is a kind of regret; at the wrong time, meeting the wrong person is a kind of disaster.
Mei Yanfang is a clear stream in the entertainment industry, she is bold, righteous, helpful, she is a beloved "big sister" in the show business. Maggie Cheung once said bluntly that Mui Yanfang is her favorite actress to work with, and she is an influential woman without jealousy. Zeng Zhiwei said that Mei Yanfang was popular and moralistic.
In the final stage of her life, Mei Yanfang said in celebration of the 20 years of entering the industry: I have been wandering in the entertainment industry for twenty years, and four words can be summarized: "Friendship years!" Although Mei Yanfang lost love, she won friendship.
Today, Mei Yanfang has left us for 18 years, but her dedication, her righteousness, and her kindness, like a monument, will live forever in our hearts.