"Tanaka reads Mu Yao Shun and sits and waits for the world to rise to the new year."
Everyone is like a pure white paper when they fall to the ground, and education is the most important graffiti on this paper. Education plays a vital role in a person's growth, allowing the educated to summarize the experience of previous generations, learn a variety of knowledge, promote the all-round development of the individual, and lay the way to the future. As a means of imparting knowledge and experience, the most important thing in education is family education.
▲ Bronze statue of "Zengzi Killing Pigs"
As the first stop of learning for the educated, the family not only plays a role in enlightenment, but also plays a major role in shaping the future. As an educated person, from an early age, the ear and eye will be more profound than school education and social education; as a parent, for the child not only has the responsibility of parenting, but also the responsibility of education, it is very important to help children establish a good ideological concept, in ancient times, there was a story of "once the son killed pigs" and taught children to keep their promises. In contemporary society, good family education has a very positive effect on children's physical and mental development, and attaching importance to family education is also of great significance to children's growth. The backwardness of homeschooling can hurt not only one's own children, but sometimes others.
▲Li Qiming driving a vehicle (old photo)
Ten years ago, a young man in his early twenties drunkenly drove a motor vehicle around the school, knocking two normally walking girls on campus into the air, eventually resulting in a tragedy of one death and one injury. After the accident, the man escaped wantonly and was intercepted by the security guards who rushed to the school and the students, and the perpetrators not only did not reflect on this tragedy, but even openly shouted that their father was Li Gang, believing that even after causing such a tragedy, he would still have nothing to do. The rampant remarks made the surrounding crowd very angry, and the surrounding crowd could not bear such a person who caused great harm to others and tried to use his father's official power to exonerate the guilt.
▲Li Gang recently took a photo
In this way, because of the perpetrator's "My father is Li Gang", the accident was rapidly expanded, and soon spread to the Internet, people blamed the lawless perpetrator and were very curious about his father, who was an official. The perpetrator is named Li Qiming, his father is Li Gang, and now "my father is Li Gang" has become a popular phrase that mocks some people. In an interview with the media, Li Gang said that he would not use any power to protect his child and let him escape the punishment of the law, and he would also let the child bear the consequences he should bear and compensate the victim for consolation money. Soon after, Li Qiming was formally indicted by the court, sentenced to six years in prison, and compensated the victims for a total of more than 10,000 yuan.
▲ Li Qiming was imprisoned
Ten years have passed since Li Qiming was imprisoned, and it has been four years since he was released from prison to start a new life. His life now is very different from the scenery before he was imprisoned, which can be described as a heaven and an underground. Before going to prison, Li Qiming also had his own official father, and his life was comfortable and secure. After the "Li Gang Incident" broke out, his father was dismissed from public office, lost his financial resources, and even when Li Qiming was released from prison, his father did not pick him up. After he was released from prison, he was always rejected by many interview units because of his past experience, and now he is still saddled with more than 100,000 compensation. He should have a good life, but because of his ignorance, he was pushed into the abyss of destruction. In fact, as Li Qiming's father, Li Gang also has a profound responsibility for his children's words and deeds, and Li Qiming's unscrupulousness comes from the weakness of family education.
▲ Li Qiming was released from prison
In the process of children's growth, in the love of licking, many parents always tolerate the children's actions, regardless of whether the behavior is good or bad, they are obligated to spoil the child. Under the protection of their parents all day long, children have become never thinking twice about doing things, believing that even if they make mistakes, there will be elders to help them bear the consequences. In this way, the children became indulgent because of the doting of their parents, and their words and deeds became very beautiful. Regardless of the age of the child, at any stage of educating the child, as an elder, you should not always accommodate the child, you must clearly tell the child what things are not correct, and you have to bear the consequences if you make a mistake. Parents also need to lead by example, regulate their behavior, and set a good example for their children.
Parents are the mirror of the child, the child is the shadow of the parent, the parent as the child's earliest educator, all words and deeds will have a huge impact on the child's future character. Improving the level of family education and attaching importance to the level of family education is the concentrated embodiment of loving children.
Resources:
"My Dad Is Li Gang: Li Qiming"