Text/An Dongyue
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There are thousands of roads in the world, but there are very limited options for you.
Sometimes you want to go east, but reality only allows you to go west. No matter how you resist, how you struggle, it will not help.
Sometimes, you want to do something, and before you start, all kinds of difficulties will come one after another, and there will be many obstacles, and you will not be able to get past it.
Sometimes, you want to be with someone forever, and you give everything for this relationship, but in the end it still falls apart.
Everyone wants to take the road they want to take and live the life they want to live, but there are many helplessness in reality, and many times it backfires.
Therefore, envy others to walk on the road they want to go, to see the scenery they want to see but can't see. I also envy others for living the life they want, enjoying the happiness they want but can't get.
There is a saying that says, "Every man has a destiny." ”
This means that different people have different personalities, and different personalities create different destinies.
Therefore, instead of envying others, it is better to be down-to-earth, walk your own path, and live your own life.
There are not many options for the road of life.
Those who want to go may not be able to go, even if they insist hard, they will only touch their heads and bleed, and in the end they will have nothing but scars and exhaustion.
There is a very classic passage:
"There are two paths in life, one is to walk with the heart, called dreams, and the other is to walk with your feet, called reality. The mind goes too fast and gets lost; the feet go too fast and falls. The heart will go too slowly and will pale reality; the feet will go too slowly, and the dream will not fly high. ”
Dreams and reality often run counter to each other, and finally due to various helplessness, they have to compromise with reality.
Compromise is not cowardice, but maturity.
Giving up unrealistic dreams, pursuing, striving, and adhering to a realistic life is the most rational choice.
Once, I just walked too fast in my heart, my feet went too slowly, I wanted to do a lot of things, but there were very few things I could really do well, so I was confused, miserable, self-abandoned, and depressed all day.
Later, I slowly understood that he struggled with himself and did things that he was not good at at all.
People still have to choose a path that is really suitable for themselves, and then unswervingly go on.
There is no best way to walk the road in the world, only the most suitable for oneself. Don't be too big in your heart, don't look too high in your eyes, examine yourself seriously, find the path that really suits you, and do what is really suitable for you. Only in this way can we gain something and gain something.
Life, varied, charming eyes, it is easy to make people pessimistic and negative emotions.
For example, some friends around them, their careers are big, their incomes are high, they drive luxury cars, they live in mansions, they travel here, then they vacation, and they usually share all the wonderful things they can hope for. In this case, you will inevitably compare.
No more than not feeling, one than feeling that their life is bleak, a chicken feather, the heart is not willing, and powerless to change, so doubt life, tired of life, see nothing good, how can not be happy.
Once people are wrapped in negative energy, they can't calm down and do anything, and their temper will become very big, easy to get angry, angry, like a hedgehog, who leans closest, who is hurt the most by you.
Contrast is a double-edged sword. Life inevitably compares, than work, than income, than the house, than the car, than the children. Seeing others as good and strong as they are, it is certainly false to say that they are not envious at all, but envy must be measured, and envy cannot be turned into jealousy or hatred.
The differences in life are everywhere, and if you want to live comfortably, you must let go of the comparison mind and shift your attention from other places to yourself.
Look more at what you have, think more about your own advantages, slowly find the missing part of your heart, achieve psychological balance, no longer impetuous, no longer unwilling.
What other people's lives look like has nothing to do with themselves. Envy and jealousy will only make you angry and worried. People, or to seriously live their own life, is the most real, the most worthwhile.
A person's best state is this sentence: take your own path and live your own life.
No matter how the world changes, the heart is as firm as ever, do not look east and west, do not complain about the world, only single-mindedly move forward in their own established direction.
This road will not be a smooth road, or even thorny, but as long as the heart is warm to the sun and has a firm will, it will certainly reach the far side of the soul and the other side of the dream.
If a person has a clear goal in mind, life will not be boring. Those who complain that life is dull and boring, and their hearts are empty and lonely, most of them are because they have no goal, no direction, and they are muddy all day long, and they don't know what to call it.
May you firmly follow your own path in this life, live your life seriously, and always maintain the best state. Live up to the time, live up to yourself.
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