Recently, in Dongguan City, Guangdong Province, a young tramp girl was found near sugar culture square. She sat on the steps by the side of the road in black stockings and blew the cold wind, which made people look at her with pity.
Hearing black stockings, many friends may think of some women who will dress themselves up beautifully, and how can they not think of a homeless woman sleeping on the street wearing black stockings.
At first, nearby residents didn't pay much attention to her life. Later, she set up a tent and lived near sugar culture square for many days, and nearby residents took the initiative to communicate with her and ask her if she had difficulties and whether she needed help.
She said that her family lives in Wenshan City, Yunnan Province, she followed her boyfriend to Dongguan, the tent was also given to her by her boyfriend to live, she especially cherished the tent given to her by her boyfriend, but others always want to take the tent away.
A middle-aged elder sister said to her: "Everyone sees you sleeping on the street in black stockings, worried that you are cold before coming to communicate with you, to see if you need help or let you live in another place, no one will take your tent." ”
She didn't believe it, she always thought someone was going to take the tent that her boyfriend had given her, so she didn't dare to go far or let too many people get near her tent.
Later, she sat on the steps on the side of the road with her mobile phone and a charging treasure and came out to charge. Passers-by thought she was pitiful and bought a lot of drinking water and fruit for her.
One of the men gave her ten dollars to keep to buy food. Embarrassed to take the money handed to her by the man, she asked the man to put it next to her.
The man put the money aside at her request and told her to take it well and not let the wind blow the money away. As soon as the man's voice fell, she picked up the money next to her and returned it to the man.
The man saw that her hair was dirty and messy, and he couldn't bear to see her pitiful look, so he said to her, "Shall I take you to wash your hair?" ”
She quickly replied, "No, no, I'm not going." ”
After saying that, she also dropped the bottle, signaling not to let the man come near her again.
The man thought she had lost contact with her family, so he posted a video of her communication online, hoping that friends who knew her or knew her family would come to Dongguan to take her home.
Some netizens believe that the reason why she is sleeping on the street is that she has mental problems. Because she has sound limbs, she can earn money through her own labor to make a living.
I have a different view, I think she once did something wrong, so there was no face to go home, or she had no relatives anymore. Therefore, she had no worries and lost confidence in life before she came out to wander.
Because she has a mobile phone and a charging treasure, if she wants to go home, she can call her family to send her money, or take the mobile phone and the charging treasure to exchange money for money to go home, but she did not do so.
At the same time, she does not have much of a mental problem, and people with mental problems should not use mobile phones and charging treasures, nor should they set up tents, and they should not be able to answer when communicating with others.
Therefore, if you want to help her, you should not give her too much money and food, after all, this kind of help can only help her for a while, not for a lifetime, but it will make her form a dependence.
I really want to help her, and I should encourage her to face life bravely, actively participate in labor, and learn to earn money through her own labor to make a living.
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