1. When you are full of faith, others see you; when you are depressed and lost, others see you that are not worthy of trust; when you are positive, others see you that you are trustworthy; when you are full of hope, others see you bright and brilliant. Your life stems from your choices.
2, honey, you don't have to change for whom, if you want to become a better person, please do it for yourself.
3, not all stories can be stated, not all emotions can be poured out. So we learn to talk to ourselves, to examine and torture our souls. Many times, we all walk alone, not because there is no one around, but because they are all walking outside the door of the heart.
4) Complaining is the most meaningless thing. If you really can't stand the surrounding environment, then secretly try to practice your skills and then jump out of that circle.
5, if the heart is calculated, there are complaints everywhere; if the heart is relaxed, it is always spring. Nine times out of ten things are not satisfactory in the world, and there are very few people who can be obedient to you and can make you get what you want. If you have to be calculating, no one person or one thing can satisfy you. If a person lives for a lifetime and seeks the stability of his heart, why should he not live with himself?
6, no matter what you have experienced, you must strive to make yourself like a cup of boiled water, to precipitate, to be clear. Boiled water is not tasteless, it is the root of all flavors that you want to change. Brilliant or low, always want to return to the plain, make a cup of clear boiled water, gentle just right.
7. Practice is to maintain an enlightened mind in daily life, to live in the present moment, to live with peace of mind.
8, when you are particularly irritable, first stay calm, or watch a happy movie, or drink a big cup of tea, or put on running shoes to go out for ten kilometers. Don't try to talk to a friend, a friend is someone who shares your happiness with you, not someone who shares your pain; don't be a nagging complainer, from now on, learn to dissolve it on your own, to bear it.
9. To let go, but not to give up, not to give up on a sentient being, this is called compassion, to let go of all sentient beings, this is called wisdom.
10, don't try to make everyone happy in order to cater to everyone, try so hard to make everyone happy, you will forget how to laugh.
11 People who are prejudiced against you are not so bad, but your lives are different from each other. No more waste of tongue-in-cheek arguments, because there are too many things to explain.
12, do not calculate too much, to go with nature, life, choose complex, is to choose pain; choose simple, is to choose happiness. The lost scenery, the scattered crowds, the longing that can't wait, all stop at the end of fate. Why be too attached, the nature that should come, the one who wants to go can't stay, let go of the obsession, and following the fate is the best life.
13, everyone in their lives, will experience many single-handed battles, some roads can only be walked alone, but when you look back, there will always be someone standing not far away, not speaking, but there.
14, life, the harder you work, the luckier you are. Others can drive for you, but they can't walk for you; they can do things for you, but they can't feel for you. The road of life depends on oneself, and success depends on oneself to strive for. Heaven helps the self-helpers, and the successful help themselves.
15, what kind of circle you are in, what kind of people you will meet; you make those friends, your temper will slowly approach such people; what position you are in, what height you stand at, determines what kind of vision you are; how big the pattern of the heart, how big the sky you can see. You don't meet the person you expect because you're not ready for yourself.
16, give yourself time, do not be anxious, step by step, day by day, please believe that the resilience of life is amazing, cooperate with your own upward heart, do not give up the love for yourself.
17, the years are very long, the sea of people is vast, don't look back and don't settle, naturally there will be good people to love you.
18, be practical, don't worry, what you want, the years will give you.
19, first turn yourself into what you want, and then meet a person who does not need to please, friendship, love or life are the same, and the sense of security must be given to yourself.
20, the first condition of self-love is to eat a good meal, sleep well, and strengthen your body without asking for reasons. Whatever happens, be kind to yourself.