People who are not firm enough, like stranded boats, cannot wander in the long river of life, because they always plunge themselves into a whirlpool and then go with the flow. They never thought about sailing themselves, nor did they want to break free from the whirlpool. Keep going according to your own plan.
They are easily attracted by the various temptations in reality, driven in the waterways of others under the domination of public pressure and public opinion.
They don't have the ability to say things, and they don't have the courage to say no. After mozart's opera Figaro's wedding appearance, King Fernand IV frankly expressed his impressions: Mozart, your work is too noisy, and the notes are used too much.
But Mozart was not affected. Everyone, whether a pawn or a hero, always has a moment of criticism. In fact, the more successful people tend to receive more criticism, and only those who are good at everything can avoid criticism from others.
Make sure you're right, and then move forward. True self-confidence is about holding on to your beliefs, no matter what others say.
Mary was practicing singing one day in the open space in front of his room, and a neighbor heard it and said with a sneer, Well, even if you break your throat, no one will cheer for you. Because your voice is so hard to hear.
Mary replied: "You have said this to me many times, but I don't care. I live for myself, I just know that I'm happy when I sing.
We don't need to live in the approval of others and live happily for ourselves. Even if others think of themselves as psychopaths, we must be a happy patient.
It is difficult to have a unified conclusion on everything, and anyone's opinion can be referred to, but it can never replace their own opinion. Don't be bound by the judgments of others.
People who have no opinion, like the grass on both sides, do not have their own principles and positions, do not know what they can do, what they will do, and naturally have no connection with success.
Many people in life are controlled by outside public opinion. Or the truth of the matter is not the same, but there are more people who say it, and he thinks that it is the truth.
There was a girl who was one of the unfortunate people who, when she was young, was told by many people that her mother had tuberculosis, and that the disease had been passed on to him, so she was very careful with her body.
Since then, in the girl's heart, she has always felt that she is a patient, and the thoughts instilled in the girl by others have made the girl lose her inner strength.
Maybe she could have grown up happily and healthily, but now she has lost her inner resistance. When making judgments in the face of external things, people have a herd mentality, although they have their own position at the beginning, but once there are more people who maintain an opposing position, or even one-sided, she will suspect that her choice is wrong. The embankment in his heart collapsed and he changed his position.
Break the blind obedience, stick to your own position, and the truth will take care of you.
Don't care what others think we should do, but what we think we should do. Everyone wants to feel the value of self, which is the center of gravity of life. But changing ourselves by other people's standards is wrong, and that doesn't help us realize our self-worth.