That summer, I really can't forget it

In 2018, it is really impossible to forget, because in this year, I can't tell if what happened is a conspiracy or not.

My husband and I met in July 2015, and soon became pregnant before marriage, because we were young at the time, we couldn't get a license, so we waited until August 2017 to get a license, and we only held a wedding in December, from 15 to 17 years, I always knew that my husband had a situation outside, but I was always for the sake of my children. 17 to 18 years of New Year's period, the husband's grandfather died of illness, after dealing with a series of things such as burial, my husband proposed to go to Zhejiang to work alone, I do not agree, why do not agree, because I know that my husband will go with the person outside, and it is to our mutual friend, so there is a fight. Later, after being persuaded by my father, I came to Jiaxing City, Zhejiang Province with my husband.

When we got there, we met up with our friends, and just got off the plane, I saw that the friend was not happy at all, and I always felt uncomfortable, but for the sake of life, I still put up with it. My husband said at the time that he wanted to rent a house, but he didn't expect to share a house with friends, and he thought that there should be no problem in sharing a house, so he agreed. But in the days that followed, I now think that I really have the heart to kill. Since sharing a house together, my husband has begun to be indifferent to me and ignore me in all kinds, so that later I can't stand the temptation and cheat.

The object of the cheating is the friend, the friend is also married and has children, but the two of them often quarrel, why quarrel, do not know, once even fought, I and my husband often fought, but even so, the husband is still very indifferent to me, after that often I and the friend at home, I often listen to him talk about his wife's problems, gradually, I no longer have a defensive heart for the friend, and then the friend told me about the husband had a woman, and said that we were newly married on the night, My husband was holding the woman on the street watching the woman crying, and the woman even begged her husband not to marry me on the night of our new marriage, and so on, and when I heard these words, I was really angry and sad, and slowly I had a relationship with my friends. Later, I didn't expect to be pregnant with the friend's child, and forced by that relationship, the child could not stay. Later, the matter was revealed, my husband gave me the reason for divorce when I returned to my hometown, I was really in a trance at that time, and I really couldn't think of my husband's decision, and after calming down, I thought that I deserved it, so that my depression worsened.

After returning to my hometown in mid-May, my parents knew about such a scandal and tried to prevent us from divorcing, but my brain was really chaotic at the time, I didn't know how to deal with such a problem, and I almost broke off relations with my parents for the so-called marriage, and then although there was no divorce, the relationship between the two people was really bad to the bottom, in June, I was introduced by someone to work in a small company, and my husband and I lived under the same roof at that time, but there was no word at all. Even do not care about each other at all, in August, the husband took the woman he was outside home, was bumped into by me after work, a big fight, alarmed one of his aunts, his aunt came in the door and accused me of not divorcing my husband, and even said that it is normal for men to have women outside, and said that the woman she and her mother-in-law already knew, I suddenly understood that in those years their family collectively cheated on me, and I also knew that most of the problems with my husband and I in those years were instigated by this aunt, but still did not divorce, Because his marriage license could not be found, and my marriage certificate was always in the hands of my parents. After that, I wouldn't go into his aunt's house at all, and then in September, I attended a training that the company held, which really opened my mind, and as soon as the training was over, I apologized to my parents and his mother, because that training made me see a lot of things I shouldn't have done. Even in November, when I followed my parents to Hong Kong and Macao, I was still thinking about my mother-in-law's body, buying health tea for my mother-in-law, since I apologized to my parents, my father told me what happened in Zhejiang, suspecting that my husband and the friend had teamed up to design it, just to let me leave my husband, my father because he had worked in the public security criminal police team, so he could quickly see what was going on. When I learned of such a thing, my father said that I should not divorce anyway, because the child still needs a complete family, so I put up with it in order not to let the child go the way I did when I was a child.

Since the last august quarrel, I also know that my husband did not believe, turned to believe his aunt, the last quarrel was in December, and during this period my parents and my husband's parents did not have any contact at all, and my husband was at the end of December one day, maybe because of the work was not going well, maybe because I really heard something, that night after drinking and came home and began to ask me if I was talking to his mother again or if my father said anything to his mother, I said no, nothing, Don't believe the phone to ask my father, the phone just connected, and my father just said a word, the husband slapped me, the phone was dropped on the ground at that time, because the mobile phone turned on hands-free, my side of the movement, my father heard it clearly, and then he quickly informed my brother and his mother, in the face of the husband's appearance, I was really scared, but the first to our house was his aunt and cousin-in-law, those two people I am very clear, his aunt would like me to be killed, But fortunately, my brother arrived in time to prevent the tragedy from happening, my brother and his aunt pulled me into the room to ask what happened, I told the story of the incident, only my brother believed me, his aunt did not believe me at all, then my father arrived, his parents also arrived, after learning all the things happened, he ran away, leaving only the rest of us at home, my father immediately decided to separate, the two people separated and calmed down.

In the separation of about two months, the husband took the initiative to find me on WeChat, let me return to him, I did not agree, and then often looked for me, I did not agree, until may 19, this day, my mother was sick, the hospital found out that it was the late stage of uremia, my father because he wanted to find a way to earn money to pay medical expenses and maintain the wages of the company workers at home, so he could not often go to the hospital to take care of his mother, my brother was because he could not go to the hospital during the day because of his work, I took the child to take care of my mother in the hospital for about half a month or so, My father asked me very seriously about my husband and me, asked me if I had contact with my husband recently, I said yes, let me reconcile with him, but I did not agree, my father asked me for advice, I said peace, and I was afraid that he would treat me like before, not reconciled, and the poor child did not have a complete family, my father said to go to their house first to see the situation, that night went, under a series of inquiries, reconciled, and he promised that there would be no more problems before, just like this, the child stayed with his parents, And I concentrated on taking care of my mother, soon my mother was discharged, as long as according to the treatment plan given by the doctor, discharge is no problem, although discharged, but I did not rush to move back to the marriage room, but on the grounds that my mother's condition is not stable as a reason to continue to live in her mother's house. In August, my husband asked me to take my children to his aunt's restaurant for dinner, and that night, my husband told me about his help at his aunt's house and told me how his aunt's family treated him, and I asked him, do you remember, I once told you that I would not go to your aunt's house again, because I saw a lot of problems, so I will not go again, but you don't believe me at all, think I am lying to you.

After one thing made my husband firmly believe in me, in the double eleven, my husband helped me find a job as a courier in the community, at that time I had not moved back to the new house, during the double eleven, I was very busy, opened at eight o'clock in the morning, and went home at ten o'clock in the evening, because there were many goods, I was a novice, and the store was newly opened, I had to sort out the goods alone, but also to help people pick up the goods, but also to answer the phone non-stop, so it would be busy to a day without even eating, even the noodle shop owner next to the store would often help me, Even if you help me, it will still be very slow. Just during the double eleven, the husband's aunt brought her daughter and granddaughter to the door of the store to stand, I was busy tallying, even if I saw them did not say hello, but the noodle shop owner next to me noticed, asked me if those people want to pick up the goods, or I know, I still shouted out of courtesy, the husband's aunt came to the door of the store and asked me if her second daughter was going to elope with someone, I said your second daughter has a boyfriend, congratulations, and as a result she kept asking me there, I said I was double eleven to return to the community, and every day here busy, busy to even eat, your daughter has no boyfriend I don't know, how to say, the result is that I told my boss about her daughter, I said impossible, I don't believe you asked this aunt, the boss came every day to unload the goods and left, there is no chance to even say live, how can I say, besides, your daughter has no boyfriend I don't know at all, it is not my business, the result is, My husband's aunt actually said that it was not what you said, it was you who said that I let your family eat and walk around, I was very angry at the time, but on second thought, it is not worth getting angry about this kind of person.

In the evening, I told my husband about this matter, and my husband said that he was going to deal with it, and a few days later, at dinner one night, I heard him say such a sentence to the boss who worked for me, what sister, I did not have such a sister, although I said it very quietly, but I still heard, this moment, I knew, my husband was really toward me, and since this incident, their relatives have never provoked dissension between me and my husband.

My husband and I have also passed a few years, maybe in my husband's heart has forgotten those things, but I will never forget, now my husband is getting better and better for me and my children, although occasionally I will quarrel, but my husband apologizes to me in various ways, although it is not so romantic, but compared to those years, it is really good, many people around and even my husband are advising me to have a second child, I have always disagreed, maybe I am scared by that pain, maybe I am still deep in my heart about what happened in those years.