Man-made collapse? In the big S show, "bullying" Aya caused controversy, generously admitted that it was the "female devil head" More entertainment gossip, are on fire

Recently, big S, little S, Fan Xiaoxuan, Aya four people together on a girlfriend travel show, as the name suggests, to explore the topic of empathy, how real friends are.

But the more the show goes on, the more the audience feels that something is wrong, and even feels that the size S is a little "bullying" Aya.

In the penultimate program, Big S saw a video recorded for himself by idol Takuya Kimura and was moved to tears.

Aya, who was also happy for Big S, added: "Takuya Kimura is really talking to you and talking to us. "

However, when chasing stars, they are more naïve, and Big S is a bit unreasonable and replied: "Why does he still have to face you?" "

Aya mingming is happy for big S, big S said so, many people feel embarrassed to write.

Aya added, "Because he wishes our friendship a long life." "

In fact, this paragraph is independent, you will feel that this is the daily life of star-chasing girls to see idols, which is beyond reproach. However, if you compare it, when Aya mentions her idol, the attitude of the big and small S seems to be a little different.

In the previous episode, Aya wanted to give up her idol Andy Lau when she was eating, and simply wanted to share a story, so she said to big and small S: "Do you know? Andy Lau told me a story, I just ...."

Before he could finish speaking, Big S immediately interrupted: "shut up."

Aya looked embarrassed before continuing, "I was..."

However, he was interrupted by Little S again: "I don't want to hear it." "

Aya asked helplessly, "Why?" "

After a moment of silence, Little S said, "Raise your hand to listen."

Size S two did not answer, only one staff member raised his hand.

Aya is still relatively happy, after all, an audience is also an audience.

As a result, Little S pointed in the direction of the staff member: "You go over there and talk to him, I don't want to hear it." "

Big S also came to say: "Is it okay for you to walk away?" "

Aya also got up and walked away, ready to speak to the camera.

As a result, Little S also got up and dragged Aya to the staff member and said.

At the critical moment, Big S also said: "Please keep your volume down, I don't want to hear any of your voices." "

After Aya finished speaking, Big S continued to mend the knife: "Hua Tsai is really unlucky, he really doesn't need it, you kind of people come to help him publicize." "

Aya's face darkened, but she still gently shot back: "Please, I still have a wedding photo with him at home." "

I don't know if Big S came with a repressive response: "I have his own script in my hand, and I kissed him." "

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In the program, there is more than one case of such a poisonous tongue clip as Big S.

For example, Aya exaggerated S senior times.

Big S, on the other hand, said that Aya was the least senior of the sisters.

Aya was speechless for a moment, and found a step for herself: "You can't say that, I belong to Xianshu." "

Choosing a costume for the concert, Little S suddenly said that he would let Aya turn off the microphone and not let her sing.

Aya, who didn't react, thought she was going to turn off Mai now, because changing clothes might affect the sound.

But then, Little S said bluntly, "I mean when it's time to perform," apparently hitting Aya.

Aya asked why she didn't let me sing.

Big S: "Do you really want to sing?" "

Aya was very aggrieved and said, "Why are you squeezing me out?" "

Big S thought he was right to explain that it was from a professional point of view, or that he could make the sound a little smaller.

However, for the suppression of the big S, Aya was not angry, but said with grievance: "You don't want this, I'm going to cry." "

Another time, Big S was in the car to praise Aya's pants looking good.

As a result, the conversation turned sharply, saying that it was suitable for people with short legs.

It is also said that Aya's figure is five or five.

Aya had to explain gently, "But my figure should be six-four ratio, not five-five ratio." "

Big S didn't give the slightest step: "You think too much, Aya..."

In addition, Big S also "spit" on Aya to black people.

Big S said: "Really teach Aya a good lesson, the drama she is playing a strong woman now has gone too deep into the play, our four sisters together, have been looking at the mobile phone over there, as if not to put us in the eyes." "

Some netizens said that the meaning of big S can not be understood as, Aya, you should pay attention to your position among sisters? Can't be a little disrespectful to our behavior?

Even Little S realized that it was not good and urgently dissuaded him.

Netizens' attitude towards this is: uncomfortable, naked jealousy, being a queen is used to it.

These program clips also directly led to the comments of Big S completely overturned when sending the closing dynamics.

Later, Big S liked a critique of his own dynamics.

He also responded below: "Because of the old lady, I am the female demon head!" How! "

And in the message to the director, he once again emphasized that she was a female demon.

It was also reiterated in the fan base that incidentally arranged a personal setting for fans - dead children.

In short, netizens are unhappy with the big S there are three points, one is that they feel that the big S double standard, they can be sneering, others can not.

Wu Peici has said before that Big S has dark skin, and Big S's attitude is: "Push to the middle of the road to hit the car." But now he was all kinds of cold words to Aya.

Some netizens believe that no matter how close friends they are, such three times of bad words are actually hurt.

Second, the self-confidence of big S is almost based on degrading, brainwashing, and suppressing the people around it, which is harmful self-confidence, which will invisibly increase the sense of oppression to the people around them.

As we all know, in recent years, the people of Big S have gradually moved closer to the direction of righteousness and honesty, including the recent frequent hot searches related to fashion, and Big S is considered to be high-level and textured in its bones.

But when these superficial personalities and labels become tools to suppress friends, everything becomes sour, such as complaining about Aya's five-five-open, not high-level, and so on.

Third, Aya's "bearing the burden of humiliation" has aroused everyone's sense of online justice.

Compared with big S, we look at Aya, who has always been tolerant and enlightened, because of her good personality, but she has put herself at the bottom of the social food chain.

For example, if Aya has a place she wants to play, she will repeatedly ask everyone to go together.

And big S, because he got up early, broke the original plan to go out at eleven o'clock, repeatedly urged the others, and retorted to Aya: "So it's us (big S)? "

In public perception, friends should be comfortable with each other and encourage each other.

Coupled with Aya's understanding and generous attitude towards the two sisters of big and small S from elementary school, netizens were "indignant" about the clips in the program.

In summary, the state in which Aya and Big S stay together is very much like being in emotional blackmail, Aya is kind to people, treats people sincerely, even if it is the best friend, she also has a good measure and pays attention to good emotional intelligence, but she is repeatedly hurt by the other party's counterattack, feels oppression, and even has a sense of guilt.

Unfortunately, the party that takes the initiative in emotional blackmail is generally indifferent to the sacrifice of the passive party.

This kind of blackmail without feedback will also make many people in it without knowing it.

Countless "Aya" in life are doing, but they do not want to cause a cold field between friends, so they try to take care of the emotions of others, so they are unusually lively and enthusiastic, and they try their best to ignite others, they understand, but do not pierce, preferring to fall into the desolation after the overdraft afterwards.

The party who enjoys being ignited will use the sacrifice of others as material for stealing emotions, and consume the relationship in the long run.

Emotions are infinite, and its torments are boundless. The friendship of others may not be qualified to say anything, but as Fan Xiaoxuan said: "Although it is the temper and personality of a dead child, the words spoken are adults and will hurt deeply." "

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