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Dear Dad, today is your 86th birthday and I am here to wish you a happy birthday! Fu is wider than the East Sea, and Shou is higher than the South Mountain.
Dad, I haven't spoken to you in a long time. It's not that I don't want to say it, it's just that I really don't dare to say anything to you, how much my daughter hopes to be able to be in front of you as before, unrestrained, say what you want, and don't have to think too much about how to express it, so that you can be happy and not sad. Think about it before, how enviable our family was at that time, although it was not a rich and noble family, but you had a happy family with a wife and children. My two younger brothers and I are the pride in the eyes of the neighbors, the filial children in the eyes of our parents, and the three brothers and sisters are very ambitious from childhood to adulthood, and they have not let you worry about anything.
However, the weather is unpredictable, the younger brother was injured in an accident at work, and unfortunately left all the people who loved him in the case of ineffective medical treatment. Since then, the family has lost the joy and laughter of the past. Each of us is in pain because of the departure of the little brother, and the daughter does not dare to show anything in front of you and your mother during the day, but at night, when thinking of the little brother, a person tears wet the pillow towel until dawn, so that the headache that was better controlled before has recurred. I'm afraid that you and your mother will worry about me, especially if my mother herself is not in good health, where dare I tell you.
Did you know? Last year when you were hospitalized, your daughter even rushed to the fire, the headache was almost worse than death, but I still insisted on accompanying you there, once went to fetch water for you, the eyes were black, the head hit the wall hard, then I picked up a bag, the water was sprinkled on the hand, the hand was hot and painful, afraid of blistering, I hurriedly flushed my hands with cold water, fortunately handled it properly without blistering, and then I gave you another cup, knowing that you were in a hurry to drink, and then took it back to the cold water to be warm, because of the delay for a while, when I went back, You were angry with me for a day because I was late, and I had a headache that day that I couldn't hold on. At night, I had to take that powerful painkiller, and it hurt a little after most of the time I touched the bag on my head. I'm afraid my family didn't tell anyone about it because I was worried about it, but I just told my friends here.
Dad, I say this today just because I want you to open it. People can't come back from the dead, no matter how much your heartache is, it won't help, the little brother will not come back, the pain is only yourself. Little brother, if he knows that you do this every day, he will be uneasy. The little brother is most afraid of his family being unhappy, you are not unaware. Especially if he knows that you do this to us every day, he will be even more uncomfortable. Dad for his own health, from now on can you think about opening something? Don't be so sad to face it again, okay? Not only can you not solve any problems like this, but it also affects the emotions of everyone in the family, and I feel inexplicably depressed every day.
I can understand the pain of your white-haired people sending black-haired people, but Dad you have to take care of your body, since the little brother is gone, you have to be strong. You see the aunt downstairs of our house, she only has one daughter, her daughter died a year earlier than her little brother, at first she couldn't stand crying all day and crying, but after her daughter's enlightenment, she wanted to open, isn't she happy to live now? You have to know that she is only one person left, do you think how hard she works, can a person's life be better? And you still have your mother, there is our family, and a son, although the eldest brother is far away, he misses you very much, and we all hope that you will have a happy life every day.
Father at this moment to listen to his daughter a word of advice, from today onwards, you should forget all the unpleasant things in the past, don't think about those unhappy things, no matter how you think about it, you can't go back to the way it was before, there is a saying that says well, you are happy for a day, unhappy is also a day, why can't you be happy to live every day? Dad, you should learn more from your mother. Don't you see Mom she's very good now? When my mother lost her beloved son, the pain was even sadder than you, but my mother listened to my advice and could adjust her mentality in time to think about us. Although sometimes it is inevitable to be sad when you touch the scene, but the mother can control her emotions, always give us a small good example, bring us hope and strength.
Father, daughter told you that this is to look forward to the day, you can think of opening, no longer go on like this, you are so old, you really should enjoy a good life, live happily, should be content, because perfect people or things are not.
Dad, daughter finally wish you and mom, health, longevity, happiness and health! We all love Mom, Dad.
Thanks to friends for their attention, forwarding, good wishes, Mead, hard work. I wish you all happiness and good health, and good luck! Originally published in: November 8, 2021, morning