Source l Reverse Liu (id: yuanyuankaoshi)
Live today, with a down jacket.
In the middle, my mother hit a bullet screen and said, I like other colors, but I bought black.
Why?
She said, I'm going home to do housework.
I read this barrage, and the little girl next to me laughed.
She probably thought I was talking a little funny.
But I really wanted to cry.
It hurts so much.
After becoming a mother, buy clothes and don't buy the color you like, buy suitable for housework?
Do you understand my sad point, this thing it does not say:
I bought a very safe and reliable small cream lip balm for my child, myself, do not buy any skin care cosmetics;
Or, the husband goes out to socialize, to dress a little better, I myself at home, wear dozens of dollars in the mall, on the line;
Or, buy learning aids for children, take children out to travel to see the world, not at all painful, buy a necklace you like, watch a movie or drama, and feel that if you forget it, this is not very just needed.
Now it is:
I took out all this money.
I'm clearly going to spend it on myself.
I prioritized everyone else and it was finally my turn to spend money on myself.
I still have to grievance myself and pick a color that I don't like so much.
How ridiculous and realistic the reasons are.
Because, do housework.
Of course, I know that when a mother has a child, she will give up a lot.
For example, Sun Li wrote a passage of feelings about being a mother:
I used to buy clothes, how to look good and how to come.
Now when buying clothes, all I think about is whether I can open my legs and open my hands at any time, in case the child runs away, I can rush up with an arrow step;
The texture of the clothes has become particularly important, can not shed hair, children will be allergic;
The fabric cannot be too fragile, otherwise it is not resistant to manufacturing;
High heels are even more unthinkable, even sneakers I have to put my foot in with one foot, never waste half a second in the dress.
All the small bags are taken out when they are in a good mood, because when they go out with their children, they always have a backpack, which is used to fill water toys and equip clothes...
Another example is Xie Na, who cut her hair short after she became pregnant.
Because it's easy to take care of.
You don't always have a big belly, and you bend down to wash your hair for a long time.
And when the baby is born, what if you like to scratch your hair or drink the hair to choke?
Cut it, cut it neatly.
And Ma Yili.
For a while, it was talked about, sagging breasts, not wearing underwear to shoot scenes, body shape...
Is it that female celebrities are not dedicated?
Just because she's a nursing mom.
In order to have good milk, you have to eat a lot of nutritious things every day, you can't wear any sculpting underwear, you can only wear a very comfortable and loose nursing vest.
When she first fed the eldest of the family, she dressed slightly tighter for the wedding, and that night she had acute mastitis and a high fever.
I've more or less heard of these, but I don't think they're the hardest.
One of the points I feel most depressed about is:
Once a woman becomes a mother, she seems to be tied to housework.
Prepare three meals a day, clean the house, take care of children, husbands and even the elderly, the day is over.
Are these things important? It's incredibly important. You spend money in the market to hire people, and none of your mothers do it with all your heart.
But these are often not seen.
The value of moms doing housework is always overlooked.
Women are held back in a title called "mother who has to do housework."
Many people also attacked them on this ground.
My colleague's mother, every winter, the left hand will hurt.
Wash clothes washed.
At that time, there was no fully automatic washing machine, and the style of "washing clothes on the left and drying on the right" was used at home.
Every time I washed my clothes, in order to save water, my mother did not let go of the water.
Roll up the cuffs directly, take the clothes from the left to the right, and dry them yourself.
Because the washing machine is relatively deep, even if it is rolled up, the sleeves will be much wet.
Maybe it's because you're young and don't care, or maybe you have too much chores on your body, and every time you put your wet sleeves down, squeeze in the water, and go directly to cook.
This was repeated for many years, even if the family life was better later, and a new washing machine was replaced, the root of the disease was still left.
It hurts to rain on cloudy days.
Did you know that less than 10% of China's female "smokers", but the incidence of female lung cancer is second only to breast cancer, ranking second for a long time, and the mortality rate is no different from that of men, ranking first.
Because mom cooked, there was fumes.
Why don't you turn on the range hood?
Because the hood is too loud, while the mother is cooking, she should pay attention to the sound of the child playing in the living room, afraid of a bump.
So a lot of moms choose, don't open.
Today on TikTok brushed to a video:
The child is in a stage of beating people, always beating the mother.
Mom controlled the force and fought with him.
I also spat very cutely there: I am also a mother for the first time, why let you?
Loved it.
Mom is not just a bitter and bitter character.
Mom also has a temper, but also has preferences, can also be lazy, but also willful.
I especially enjoy watching my mom spoiled as a little girl.
Like when Deshan's mother was in menopause, her daughter Deshan painted her mother with beautiful nail polish.
Like I have a sister who did two things when she paid her first salary.
One is to take my mother to perm a good hairstyle, tide.
The second is to buy a tube of bright lipstick for my mother, which is beautiful.
Mom said on her lips, she is old, blindly tossing and turning, but in her eyes, she is full of smiles.
Like me, now buy my mother a coat down jacket or something.
I don't like black, I like bright colors.
I hope she walks down the street, an eye-catching old lady who doesn't seem to have suffered.
Moms are either born or moms.
Mom was also once a flower girl and could also have her own likes.
It's okay.
Source of this article: public number @ against Liu, author Liu Yuanyuan.
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