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With her plain appearance, why did she capture the male god?
Many women feel that only beauty is a woman's capital.
In fact, for men, the charm of a woman is not how beautiful she is.
32 years ago, in the movie "The True Colors of Heroes", The Little Ma Ge, played by Zhou Runfa, hit the hearts of thousands of young girls with a famous scene of "lighting cigarettes with banknotes".
Who would have thought that the male god in the minds of countless women, the handsome and handsome man, actually married a girl with a plain appearance and even some ugliness! She is Chen Huilian:
△ The most beautiful one in the wedding photo.... But it's still not quite right
You know, before Zhou Runfa got married, the actresses he cooperated with were all the top beauties in the show business circle:
Zhao Yazhi, the enthusiastic and persistent "Feng Chengcheng" in "Shanghai Beach", Zhong Chuhong, the "red bean" with a variety of styles in "Indulgence in the Four Seas", Wang Zuxian and Zhang Min in "God of Gamblers"...
Everyone sang about the marriage, but the truth is that the two have been married for more than 30 years, and although they have no children, they are still very loving. For Chen Huilian, Fa Ge is absolutely spoiled:
You're in charge of the finances! Buy vegetables to cook I come!
How did such a handsome and considerate male god look at Chen Huilian, who was not very outstanding?
When I really responded to that sentence, "I don't know what to do, but I go deeper."
So, what exactly is the emotion inspired by, and what is hidden behind this unconsciousness?
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What fatal attraction is hidden in you?
From a psychological point of view, emotions arise from the attraction of a person.
We always think that attraction comes from appearance, and there is no attraction if you don't look good, but in fact, it is not, attraction is everyone has and is born with.
Just as in the animal world, the sexes express the desire for mating by emitting smells, making sounds, or revealing their bodies; in evolution, this attraction still did not deviate from the original instincts.
This means that as long as you are a person with emotional needs for the opposite sex, you will be able to release attraction in front of the other person.
However, in life, you and I often feel that we are not attracted to the opposite sex?
Obviously he is very good and still single, but he is not as good as his own person but has a boyfriend;
Obviously, he is very careful about love, and the other half is still picky about himself;
Even if you know you're mediocre, you don't know where to start changing...
In fact, this is because your attraction has not been "awakened" yet!
Rimi Ishihara, who has become a national goddess from "Ugly Duckling", illustrates this very well.
How popular is Rimi Ishihara?
In the "list of female artists most wanted to be associated", she ranked at the top for many years.
Her iconic lips have been chosen by male fans as "one of the most desirable lips in Japan to kiss."
She has also been selected as one of the top 10 actresses for many times, and is "the most desired appearance of Japanese women".
The charm of the little goblin not only makes men feel good, but also women yearn for and are keen to imitate.
Who would have thought that such a woman, at the beginning, was also obscure and transparent, frustrated at work, unconfident in life, and often hid to wash her face with tears.
At the low point of her career, she took a long vacation and traveled to New York alone.
When she went, it was Christmas, and she went with her friends to pick out holiday dresses. That time, she chose a red coat from more than a thousand pieces of clothing.
Unexpectedly, when I put on that dress, I got warm praise from everyone, saying that the clothes were very suitable for her, and it looked particularly good to wear.
This coat opened the door to her new world, and she found that she could also be beautiful and attractive.
For her, the "red coat" is like the "switch" of her attraction, when the "switch" is touched, her "attraction" is awakened for the first time, her confidence will naturally radiate, even if she takes off the dress, she can still become the person who attracts the attention.
In the end, she successfully lived the way we see her, realized her original ideals, and lived a life that everyone envied.
In life, those girls who are more attractive than you, they are not necessarily more beautiful than you, better than you, but they know how to "switch" attraction, project from the outside to the inside, and then "transform themselves" from the inside out.
If you want to make yourself an attractive person, the only thing you have to do is to discover the attraction in yourself and cultivate it to the extreme.
So, what are the characteristics of your body that attract the most to the opposite sex? How to give full play to their charm and strengths and harvest love