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preface
"Please spare me, I'm 40 years old and I don't have any children!" In a hotel in Zhengzhou, a man fell to his knees and wept bitterly, begging his wife to agree to a divorce.
This once enviable doctor couple is now performing a tragic drama. They are top students of Shanghai Jiao Tong University, who should have worked together to create a better future, but because of a sudden serious illness, their love was pushed to the edge of the cliff.
Bright stars on campus
In the spring of 2012, cherry blossoms bloomed on the campus of Shanghai Jiao Tong University. Yang Nan is immersed in hard work in the library to prepare for the upcoming doctoral qualification exam.
At this moment, a tall and handsome senior came over and asked softly, "Is there anyone sitting here?" Yang Nan looked up and couldn't help but be stunned.
It was Zhang Hai, a man of the year in the Department of Optical Engineering, who not only had outstanding academic results, but was also enthusiastic about helping others, and was very prestigious among students.
From that day on, the two began frequent exchanges. Zhang Hai is two terms higher than Yang Nan and has given her a lot of guidance academically. Yang Nan was attracted by Zhang Hai's talent and gentleness.
They all come from rural families in Henan Province and have similar upbringing and fighting spirit. Slowly, academic communication became spiritual communication, and in this way, it was sublimated into love.
In the fall of 2013, Zhang Hai is about to graduate. On a moonlit night, he proposed to Yang Nan. "Although we are not rich, I believe that as long as we work together, we will be able to create a better future."
Yang Nan was moved to tears and agreed without hesitation.
Although the married life is poor, it is sweet and happy. Zhang Hai is considerate and takes care of almost all the housework. Yang Nan often sighed: "Marrying Zhang Hai is the most correct decision I have ever made in my life." "
However, they do not know that fate is secretly laying a big net, waiting to shatter their happy life completely.
The haze of illness hangs over a happy life
One day in 2015, Yang Nan, who was busy in the laboratory, suddenly felt a wave of dizziness, and then vomited uncontrollably. At first, she thought she was pregnant, and she was secretly happy in her heart.
However, when she got the test results in the hospital, her whole body was like falling into an ice cave - advanced cirrhosis.
When the news came, Zhang Hai, who was working far away in Japan, immediately asked for leave and returned to China. Looking at his wife's haggard face, his heart was like a knife.
"Don't be afraid, I'm here. Together, we can overcome this adversity. Zhang Hai held Yang Nan's hand tightly, his eyes full of determination.
In the days that followed, Zhang Hai traveled around looking for the best doctors and the most advanced treatments. He spent countless sleepless nights in the hospital's companion bed, just to take care of Yang Nan's needs at any time.
Under his careful care, Yang Nan's condition was temporarily controlled.
However, fate doesn't seem cruel enough to the young couple. At the end of 2015, Yang Nan was diagnosed with liver cancer. This bad news was like a thunderbolt from the blue, ruthlessly extinguishing the flame of hope that had just been ignited by the two.
Struggling
Faced with high medical costs, Zhang Hai began a crazy "money-making war". During the day, he attends classes and does research at school; At night, he drives a taxi to earn extra money.
Even so, the family's savings are decreasing at a rate that is visible to the naked eye.
Yang Nan saw it in his eyes and felt pain in his heart. She began to blame herself, feeling that she had become a burden to her husband. Sometimes, she would lose her temper with Zhang Hai for no reason and say something hurtful.
Although Zhang Hai understands his wife's pain, the long-term pressure has gradually worn out his patience. The quarrels between the two became more and more frequent.
In 2018, Yang Nan's condition deteriorated further. The doctor told them that if they wanted to be cured, they would have to have a liver transplant, which would cost at least 800,000 yuan. This figure is nothing less than an astronomical amount for them, who are already in debt.
When Zhang Hai's parents learned the news, they began to persuade their son to give up.
"Son, you don't have any children, and if you continue like this, your life will be ruined." Faced with the persuasion of his parents, Zhang Hai fell into a deep contradiction.
The collapse of the marriage
In the Spring Festival of 2020, a fierce quarrel completely shattered this marriage. On the first day of the Lunar New Year, according to local custom, the whole family should get up early to welcome the new year. But Yang Nan, who was weak, had been lying on the bed.
Zhang Hai's mother couldn't help but say a few words, and Yang Nan suddenly had a seizure and quarreled with her mother-in-law.
Zhang Hai was caught in the middle and was in a dilemma, and finally broke out. "Enough! I've had enough! He yelled at Yang Nan, "Do you know how hard I've worked all these years? I don't want to go on like this anymore! With that, he slammed the door and left.
From that day on, Zhang Hai seemed to have evaporated from the world. He didn't answer Yang Nan's calls, didn't reply to her messages, and even stopped all financial support. Yang Nan was desperate, she had to stop some medications, leaving only the most basic drugs to sustain her life.
Just when Yang Nan was about to give up hope, she thought of asking for help from the media. With the help of Jiangxi Radio and Television, she finally found Zhang Hai in 2023.
The ultimate choice between love and responsibility
In a hotel in Zhengzhou, the husband and wife who have been separated for many years are finally reunited. However, this meeting did not have the warmth and affection that I imagined. As soon as Zhang Hai saw Yang Nan, he knelt on the ground and cried bitterly, begging her to agree to the divorce.
"I'm 40 years old and don't have children yet. Please spare me! Zhang Hai choked up and said, "As long as you agree to the divorce, I will definitely find a way to help you, and I will guarantee it with my life!" "
Faced with her husband's pleading, Yang Nan's heart was like a knife. She understands that she can no longer give her husband a complete family and cannot promise a future.
However, she still couldn't let go easily. "I just want to live! I don't want to drag you down! Yang Nan shed tears in pain.
After difficult negotiations, Yang Nan finally agreed to the divorce, but asked Zhang Hai to repay the 600,000 yuan debt she owed for medical treatment over the years. However, Zhang Hai said that he could only bear a maximum of 300,000. The parties could not reach an agreement and could only resolve it through judicial proceedings.
epilogue
The story of Yang Nan and Zhang Hai is like a demon mirror, reflecting the complex relationship between love and responsibility in real life.
It makes us ask ourselves: in the face of the test of life and death, can love withstand the test? How do we choose between personal happiness and moral responsibility?
There are no winners in this story, just two poor people who are defeated by reality. It reminds us to be thoughtful when making the vow of "never leaving," because true trials often come when we don't expect.
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