1. Huang Lei's family status
51-year-old Huang Lei, a film and television star who was once portrayed as a perfect man like a god, has now ended up with a family out of control. In the one-season reality show "Sister is Hungry 2", his wife Sun Li could not hide her anger and expressed her dissatisfaction to her husband for many years in public.
"Huang Lei, I beg you, stop instilling those thoughts in me!" Sun Li's resolute tone revealed a long-hidden resentment and dissatisfaction.
What's even more surprising is that even Huang Lei's eldest daughter Duoduo, who is now 13 years old, also has an uneasy fear of her father. According to the staff of the program team, whenever Huang Lei solemnly called her "Duoduo", this lively and cute little girl would tremble, trembling as if she was in prison.
As a young child, she was already deeply distorted by her father's hard-lined, authoritarian and repressive majesty.
We can't help but wonder, where does this power that makes the family tremble come from? Is it because of Huang Lei's meticulous "care" for his wife and daughter? Or does it have a deeper meaning? In order to solve the mystery, we have to trace back to Huang Lei's experience when he was young.
At that time, Huang Lei was in his prime, handsome and extraordinary, and he was the focus of the scandal. According to media disclosures, he not only had an affair with popular actress Liu Ruoying, but also received a call from a mysterious boy at the last moment when he was about to enter the marriage hall, informing him that if he did not agree to him, he would not get married.
In the end, Huang Lei chose to marry his current wife Sun Li, and his relationship with Liu Ruoying came to an end.
However, this relationship entanglement did not end with marriage, Huang Lei has a grudge against Liu Ruoying, and the relationship between the two has always been a mystery. Some media speculated that there is a fourth unique emotional relationship between Huang Lei and Liu Ruoying that is difficult to define as friends, lovers or relatives.
And Huang Lei appeared in Wuzhen with his wife and daughter after many years of marriage, which made the outside world doubt whether he still missed his relationship with Liu Ruoying.
2. Huang Lei's influence on his family
After marriage, Huang Lei's influence on his wife Sun Li is increasing day by day. At first, Sun Li was originally an energetic and independent dancer, but under the influence of her husband Huang Lei, she gradually lost herself and became an obedient vassal.
Sun Li said helplessly: "He often comments that I am a gentle and virtuous woman, although I stab him, I will also make people feel endless thoughtfulness." From these words, it is not difficult to see how Huang Lei firmly controlled his wife after marriage.
In the face of Huang Lei's sweet words, Sun Li often chooses to blindly tolerate it, and has to force a smile in public. This has led to the criticism of her dancing skills on variety shows, but the root cause behind it is difficult to trace.
Poor Sun Li is just a "prop" on the "stage" of Huang Lei's life, and she can be at his mercy at any time. What's even more distressing is that even Huang Lei's biological daughter Duoduo has not been spared.
From childhood to adulthood, Duoduo was closely monitored by his father Huang Lei, and was severely reprimanded for the slightest excess. According to the staff, especially when Sun Li went out, Huang Lei would use the tone of "clairvoyance" to lure Duoduo to reveal her whereabouts, and once she found that she was concealing, he would reprimand her fiercely, making the little girl frightened, for fear of saying the wrong word.
Under Huang Lei's high-pressure discipline, Duoduo gradually lost his natural innocence and happy childhood, and had to suffer mental devastation from time to time. Her words and deeds are all under the strict control of her father Huang Lei.
Even on New Year's Day, Duoduo is taught to pray for his mother to have another brother in order to continue the family incense.
As a 13-year-old girl, Duoduo has always been under the high-pressure rule of her father Huang Lei, and she lives so fearful and trembling, which is really regrettable and distressing.
3. Multiple identities in variety shows
At home, Huang Lei is a tyrannical and authoritarian parent. But on the variety show stage, he packaged himself as another image: a good father, a good husband, a confidant brother, a wise mentor, and an omnipotent "Mr. Almighty".
As a core member of the variety show "Extreme Challenge", Huang Lei always behaves easily and know-it-all in the show. He not only sweated and accepted physical challenges, but also won the admiration of his teammates by relying on his super IQ and decision-making ability.
His teammates all looked at him differently and regarded him as an indispensable think tank.
At the same time, Huang Lei also tried his best to create a friendly and loving family image in the show. He used his wife and daughter as a "weapon" to show the world a happy side. Although his discipline attitude towards his eldest daughter Duoduo is a little too strict inside and outside the camera, in his eyes, this is just an "education" for his daughter.
According to the staff, at a certain recording site, Duoduo annoyed Huang Lei with an unintentional small action, so he stared at his daughter tightly with sharp eyes, and the atmosphere of the audience was very solemn for a while.
The daughter bowed her head uneasily under her father's stern gaze.
In front of the relatively unfamiliar young people, Huang Lei is also willing to play the role of a senior senior, sharing his "wisdom" endlessly.
Undoubtedly, Huang Lei is a master of making a living, and his carefully constructed identities make people have infinite yearning and admiration for him. Who would have thought that this superficial "all-round mentor" is actually just an opportunist, who only has a thin desire for profit in the performing arts.
Fourth, the twists and turns of the actor's career
When it comes to Huang Lei's experience as an actor, it is really quite bumpy and tortuous. Although he came from a family of operas, he lacked enthusiasm for acting as a profession from an early age. Like many children of the family, he was forced by his parents to apply for a drama school and barely make a living.
However, fate also took Huang Lei just right, and when he was most unexpected, he actually got the opportunity that others longed for all their lives. At a young age, with a handsome face, Huang Lei was photographed to star in a movie, and appeared on an international first-line stage like Cannes, performing on the same stage with Leslie Cheung, Wu Qianlian and other big names.
At that time, Huang Lei was full of literary quality and bookishness, and the roles he played in literary films were all eye-catching, and he could be called the idol of a new generation of literary films. But Huang Lei has never been able to really devote himself to this industry, and his love for acting has disappeared, but he has just climbed into the identity of an actor.
Later, Huang Lei simply changed careers and became a teacher, teaching in schools, which can be regarded as realizing his ideal career. But obviously the light of an actor is more tempting than a teacher, in 2013, Huang Lei decided to regain his identity as an actor, and began to get involved in a lot of variety shows to profit as much as possible.
Huang Lei, who was once pinned on high hopes, has lost his former demeanor as he gets older. In recent years, the film and television works he starred in have repeatedly failed, from the much-watched "Little Farewell" to the latest "Zhang Weiguo", whether it is character creation or acting skills, they have failed to reach the height they should have.
Especially in "Zhang Weiguo", his image of a frowning and contemplative, broken little man is deeply imprinted in the hearts of the audience, which makes people unable to resonate.
In people's expectations, Huang Lei may be unique and get rid of the decline of the film and television industry. But obviously, his love for the performing arts is running out, and as for the quality of film and television works, it is just a matter of livelihood for him.
Anyway, as long as there is a variety show, Huang Lei will never care about those negative comments.