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In a classic and elegant villa on New York's bustling and charming Upper West Side, 60-year-old Wei Wei methodically prepares a sumptuous breakfast for his elderly mother. Her every movement seemed so natural and smooth, as if taking care of her family had long become indispensable in her life.
Her gaze was as soft as water, and her face was full of happiness, and although the years had carved a faint mark on her delicate face, her spirit was still full.
Outside the window, the lush trees dance, the birds sing happily, and the flowers exude a charming fragrance, and the whole environment creates a quiet and peaceful atmosphere of life, which forms a strong contrast with Wei Wei's face that has been baptized by wind and rain.
To decipher the mystery of Wei Wei's life journey, we have to trace back from her birth background and the starting point of her music career. In 1963, Wei Wei was born in an ordinary and warm Zhuang family in Inner Mongolia.
Her father was a passionate soldier, and her mother was a gentle and virtuous Zhuang woman, perhaps because she grew up in the vast steppes and bathed in the unique cultural atmosphere of the Mongolian nation, Wei Wei developed a strong interest in those passionate and emotional Mongolian folk songs since she was a child, and her voice was as sweet and moving as the sound of heaven.
By the time she was seven or eight years old, she had already made her mark in a local singing competition, winning applause and cheers from the audience. In 1986, at the age of 23, Wei Wei embarked on a journey to Beijing with a keen yearning for a music career and participated in the Young Singer Competition hosted by CCTV.
With her unique ethnic style and soulful interpretation of Mongolian folk songs, she stood out from many contestants and won the second place.
The judges unanimously agreed that she was fully qualified for the championship, but due to some complicating factors, she only managed to finish second. Although this result is a little regrettable, it has not stopped Wei Wei's persistent pursuit of his music dream.
The following year, she was successfully selected for the national team, represented China in Poland to participate in the international music festival, and won the special award for singing, winning the supreme glory for the Chinese music scene.
In 1988, she was invited to Yugoslavia again and won the international gold medal at the prestigious Mame International Music Festival with her song "Love Search". Who would have expected that this once high-profile music superstar would have such a bumpy and tortuous emotional road in private, almost putting her into a situation where her family was ruined? .
The first is her young and beautiful first love with Fu Disheng. At the age of twenty-two, Wei Wei, who was poor but innocent and kind, met this light music talent from a famous family, and they appreciated and understood each other in the world of music, and finally came together.
It can be said that Fu Disheng did his best to assist Wei Wei's music career, and even temporarily shelved his musical ideals and wholeheartedly supported her growth. It is precisely because of the noble man's best help that Wei Wei was fortunate to stand out in the National Young Singer Competition, won the favor of the famous musician Li Guyi, and became famous in one fell swoop!
However, just as Fu Disheng pinned all his hopes on Wei Wei, the newly popular rising star suddenly stood up and announced their breakup with righteous words! The reason she gave was that there was an "irreparable rift" between the two.
As soon as this news was announced, it immediately attracted widespread attention from all walks of life, and Fu Disheng's heart must have been extremely painful. However, the person who should have received the most sympathy showed extraordinary tenacity and perseverance after the breakup, and finally became an instant hit in 1993 with the song "Everyone Paddles the Big Boat", and joined hands with his wife Ren Jing to create a better future and live a happy life.
On the other hand, Wei Wei is obviously more enthusiastic about pursuing higher career achievements, and even does not hesitate to meddle in other people's marriages. In 1990, when she was only 26 years old, she had an affair with Hou Yaowen, a famous cross talk master who was 15 years older than herself and had already been married once, and she did not shy away from publicly admitting this relationship!
As expected, just two years later, Hou Yaowen's first marriage broke down, and he decisively left his original partner and tied the knot with the young and beautiful model Yuan Yin instead.
This result undoubtedly brought great pain and blow to Wei Wei, she not only fell into a predicament in the field of public opinion, but also became a third party who was criticized.
However, even in this situation, Wei Wei still did not stop chasing love.
A well-known musician from Sweden, Michael, who is 25 years older than her and already has a wife and children, suddenly launched a fierce attack on her. And this time, Wei Wei, who seemed to have lost faith in true love, quickly threw himself into his arms, and even gave birth to three children with this married man when she was pregnant before marriage!
Just a few months later, she decided to sail alone to the United States, where she became the third wife of musical greats Michael Burton. This major decision undoubtedly had a profound impact on her personal destiny, and at the same time profoundly changed the life paths of her three husbands.
First of all, let's talk about Fu Disheng, who bore the brunt of the blow and was ruthlessly abandoned by her. Although he suffered a heavy blow in the first sad moment of separation, the budding musical genius was not discouraged.
On the contrary, he re-emerged with perseverance and rose to the pinnacle of his career at the 1993 CCTV Spring Festival Gala with the touching song "Everyone Paddles a Big Boat".
After the brilliant achievements in his music career, Fu Disheng's love life has also entered a stable track. He and his wife Ren Jing experienced a good time of love, knowing and loving each other, and finally gave birth to a pair of lovely twin sons and lived a happy family life.
However, in stark contrast to Fu Disheng's happy ending, Hou Yaowen's life path seems quite bumpy. , a master who enjoyed a high reputation in the cross talk industry in the past, in order to marry the young and beautiful model Yuan Yin, he did not hesitate to turn his back on his wife and chose to divorce.
However, what is surprising is that his honeymoon period with Yuan Yin lasted only a few years before it broke down, and Hou Yaowen was alone, surrounded by endless regret and loneliness in his later years.
And the most tragic is Wei Wei's third husband - Michael Burton. Once a musical giant with international fame, he was supposed to be a mentor and friend who guided others and imparted knowledge, but after falling into an extramarital affair with Wei Wei, he quickly fell into a shameless villain.
He not only regarded Wei Wei as a prisoner in a cage, but even subjected her to mental and physical violence Finally, one day, Wei Wei could not bear this painful torture, and fled the United States alone with his three children, and with the help of several friends, he finally got rid of that nightmare marriage.
Looking back, the reason why Wei Wei was captured by Michael's "romantic offensive" was that she was at a low point in her life at the time and longed for warm comfort, but the more critical factor was that she had lost confidence in sincere love.
Time flies, and once upon a time, she was also the young girl full of enthusiasm and idealism, pouring all her emotions into those melodious and moving flutes. However, as her career flourished, her fame soared, and her wealth poured in, she gradually lost herself, became greedy, and even betrayed her sincere love vow without hesitation.
Immediately afterwards, she launched a series of horrific actions - stepping into the field of other people's marriages, stepping into the ranks of the juniors, and finally giving birth to three children before they got married, two of which were born to a strange foreign old man.
Li Guyi, the mentor who had taught her, had repeatedly warned her to stop, but Wei Wei was completely unable to accept the good advice of others, so she went further and further down the wrong path. Finally, she embarked on a dead end from which there was no turning back.
Married life with Michael is shrouded in the shadow of power oppression and violence. The husband, who is 25 years older than her, not only cheats frequently, but also brutally physically abuses his wife.
Wei Wei faced Michael's frequent domestic violence, and once had the idea of escaping, but after all, because of the arrival of the newborn baby and mental pain, it could not be implemented until one day, when Michael hurt him unscrupulously again, Wei Wei decided to make all preparations, for the sake of the children, she decided to leave the marriage that was as terrible as purgatory.
The escape became increasingly difficult, but luckily, several of her best friends helped her make it back to her homeland. After returning to China, Wei Wei underwent a comprehensive health check-up, which showed that her heart was already facing a serious threat due to the long-term experience of domestic violence and mental trauma.
In the face of such a severe physical condition, Wei Wei did not choose to give up, but strengthened his love and pursuit of music. Yes, music has always been the most important support and sustenance in her life, no matter how many twists and turns she encounters in her life journey, as long as the stage of her motherland still exists, her dream of music will never be extinguished.
As a result, Wei Wei began to go all out to create a new self-image, devote himself to the development of the music industry, and achieved remarkable results. Of course, during this period, she also began a long and difficult treatment process, and she was always accompanied by three children, which made her feel the warmth and happiness of family again.