What is the most lacking child and what is the worst homeschooling?

"You know what? I recently read an article about what children are most lacking and what the worst homeschooling looks like. Xiaoyu said to me excitedly.

I was immediately attracted by her topic, "Oh? Tell me, what is the most lacking child?"

Xiaoyu thought about it seriously, "The author said that what children lack most is not material things, nor skills, but companionship. ”

I raised my eyebrows slightly, "Companionship?"

"Yes!" Xiaoyu said excitedly, "What children need is the company and attention of their parents, not those expensive toys and extracurricular classes." ”

I nodded, resonating, "Yes, I also think that what children need most in the process of growing up is the companionship and love of their parents." ”

Xiaoyu continued: "And the worst kind of home education, the author thinks, is over-doting and overprotective of children. ”

I mused, "Over-spoiling and over-protective?"

"Yes!" Xiaoyu nodded affirmatively, "Over-doting will make children weak and dependent, while over-protection will deprive children of independence and opportunities to grow." ”

I nodded with deep feeling, "Yes, parents should provide their children with the right amount of freedom and challenges to learn to be independent and self-reliant." ”

Xiaoyu continued: "Moreover, over-spoiling and over-protection can also make children lose awareness of the consequences of their actions, affecting their values and personality development. ”

I nodded approvingly, "Yes, parents should guide their children to correctly understand the consequences of their actions, and cultivate their sense of responsibility and independent thinking ability." ”

We both looked at each other and smiled, and we both understood in our hearts that a good family education should not only give children enough love and companionship, but also avoid over-spoiling and over-protection, so that they can grow up healthy and independent.