Experienced mothers know that when the baby is just born, their mouths will "babble" and talk non-stop, and many parents think that the baby does not understand anything at this time, does not care too much, and does not need to talk too much with the baby.
Scientific research has shown that babies' perception of the world begins the day they are born, and while they are willing to communicate with the people they love, it's just a bit "overwhelmed" Although they can't understand what adults are saying, they can feel the love of their families and read the emotions of their parents, so you shouldn't underestimate your child's "IQ".
Mothers often complain that their children are "ugly," which impairs their children's self-confidence and brain development.
It is often said that newborns are the same and "hard to look at" ugly, but when children grow up and get better, it means that not all parents think so. An Hui is such a mother, the daughter was born soon, the skin is dark, there are many "wrinkles", whenever she sees the baby, she will reject the baby's ugly appearance, and even gave the child a nickname, called "ugly Nell".
An Hui felt that the name sounded very good, and it was in line with the baby's situation, so she simply barked until the child was one year old. Slowly she discovered a phenomenon in which whenever her mother called "Ugly Nell," the child would run away with disgust.
But if you just teach the child "baby", the child will respond happily with a smile, and in the face of this phenomenon, An Hui is very curious, so she went to see a pediatrician.
After hearing this news, experts criticized An Hui, saying that she affected the child's brain development, because the baby's language ability and brain development are closely related, and the baby mother often says that the child is "ugly", which will not only frustrate the child's self-confidence, but also affect the child's IQ.
When will the baby understand adults? Before what age, a child may be a "smart kid"
Studies have shown that if a baby can understand what an adult is saying and can understand what the parents are saying at about the age of one, then the child's brain is well developed and meets the normal standards of brain development. If your baby understands adulthood before the age of one, congratulations. He may be a "smart kid" which means the child's brain is well developed.
However, parents cannot judge whether children can understand adults through emotions, and they must also respect the laws of baby's language development and find countermeasures in time to make the baby's brain develop faster and better.
How do children understand adults? Every month there are different ideas
It is well known that very few babies are "born smart" and are able to understand the words of adults from birth. For the average child, they get to know adults little by little. This progress is measured in months.
At one to three months of age, your baby can feel the world with his senses.
At this time, although he cannot understand the information as much as a big child, he is accumulating new knowledge every day, and many experts believe that the child knows more than the parents think. His favorite thing to do is look around and delight you with his innocent smile when his parents play with him.
Babies between the ages of 2 and 4 and 7 months know their names.
Every time mom and dad say the child's name, he or she will turn his head to you. He or she will also know your emotions and expressions, and will "go with the flow" gradually, and he or she will be able to distinguish between strangers and family.
Third, when 8-12 months old, simple instructions are "out of the question"
Babies at this stage can accept simple instructions, so the baby mother at this time should be gentle and let the child feel the instructions of love, not "commands".
At 13-18 months, 50 words can be a piece of cake.
Although a child can understand 50 words, he still needs time to master them, so it is beneficial for parents to talk to their children more.
At 19-24 months, children begin to understand that there are differences between people.
This time, the child's cognition has also changed. He found that he was different from his mother and had differences in understanding and thinking about each other. Therefore, he will have his own "plan" and start "joking" with his parents.
Summary: Adults always feel that children do not understand, but in fact, children do not understand just that he / she will not express it, parents say what children are understandable, so whether it is parents or the elderly must communicate with children more praise children, so that children know that it is a good situation will be more expressed in their hearts, children do not do the right thing also need to tell him correctly.
【Transferred from: Sohu original - Capricorn love baby treasure 】