Several of the stories in the movie "No Questions Asked" are very impressive, especially in one of the stories, the sad story between Wang Minjia, a student played by Zhang Ziyi, and Xu Bochang, a teacher, and Liu Shufen, Xu Bochang's wife.
Xu Bochang and Liu Shufen have been together for many years, Liu Shufen alone supports the family and life, so that Xu Bo can often complete his studies and career, but with the passage of time, Liu Shufen, who has been burdening the pressure of life, has gone, and has been carved by life into an uncivilized "yellow-faced woman".
But Xu Bochang is diametrically opposed, his culture and cultivation are not bad, he has become a polite and personable teacher, or because of the huge gap between reality and the past, or because of the widening of the difference in values between the two, the marriage between the two has become extremely disharmonious.
There is only a name left between the two, and the inner part of the emotion has long since collapsed and destroyed, in such a situation, it is an inexplicable sadness and sorrow...
Realistic portrayal of the film's situation
The phrase "art comes from life" is really not deceptive, and the sad and compelling story in "No Questions Asked" can be found in real life.
And the male protagonist in the case, I believe that everyone will not be unfamiliar with it, because he is a highly acclaimed literati in the mainland - Yu Qiuyu.
If we search through the Internet to find information about Yu Qiuyu's character and his life story, it is not difficult for us to find such a very brief declarative statement in the introduction of his personal life.
"Yu Qiuyu's wife, Huangmei opera performance artist Ma Lan"
"Yu Qiuyu and his ex-wife Li Hong once had a daughter"
Through these few words, we can know that Yu Qiuyu has two marriage experiences, one is the current Ma Lan, and then the woman named "Li Hong", so we will compare the plot of the movie, and the opposite of the movie character Liu Shufen is Li Hong.
Unexpected acquaintance and tragic beginning
In addition to the above brief content, it is difficult for us to find any more stories related to Li Hong and Yu Qiuyu, as well as Li Hong's personal information, but according to the anecdotal stories and only some network news, we can still summarize some relevant information.
Li Hong was born in 1954, Shanghai, father and mother are not farmers, and have a certain degree of education, in the society also have a relatively decent job, in such a family environment, Li Hong thrived.
In the early years, Li Hong showed great interest in art majors, performances, etc., although her father did not support Li Hong's hobby, but did not directly interfere with her daughter's choice, so Li Hong also conducted systematic learning training in the acting profession.
Until 1978, Li Hong, who had achieved success in her studies, finally waited for a golden opportunity, a Shanghai drama troupe opened an enrollment, and in the admission examination, Li Hong performed well, and she herself also had great confidence in her personal performance.
But in the end, the examiner turned Li Hong away on the absurd reason that "the father had no acting experience and history", and how did Li Hong, who has a straightforward personality, accept such an argument, so he went to the door of the troupe and vowed to ask for an explanation.
It was in this process that Li Hong met Yu Qiuyu, who was working in the troupe's enrollment location at the time, and Yu Qiuyu comforted the girl who was rejected for no reason and felt aggrieved, and when Lu Hong left, Yu Qiuyu realized that she liked the girl.
As a result, Yu Qiuyu began to pursue Li Hong, and in the end, Li Hong was also impressed by Yu Qiuyu, and the two quickly married and entered a married life.
Don't suffer with you, don't share the same happiness with me
At that time, Yu Qiuyu did not have the status of today's literary circle, did not have the literary works that could be handed, and did not have any influence and popularity in the literary world and society, but Yu Qiuyu's yearning and pursuit of literature in her heart was very fierce.
And Li Hong also proved the ideal in her husband's heart, so she stood up and took the initiative to shoulder the burden of the family, since then, the burden of life on Yu Qiuyu's shoulders has disappeared and she began to concentrate on literary creation.
Li Hong began to run for life, gave up the dream of being an actor, and worked as a laborer in a textile factory, and the life of the two was stable for a period of time, but with the birth of the daughter of the two, the economic pressure on life also increased suddenly.
Moreover, due to the changes in the domestic environment, Yu Qiuyu, whose career has just improved, has once again fallen silent because of the sensitivity of the nature of his identity.
But Li Hong did not lose confidence in the family and her husband, and finally Li Hong also ushered in the sunny days after the storm, the ten years of turmoil were calmed, the family's economic situation finally stabilized, and most importantly, Yu Qiuyu's work "Cultural Journey" was also a hit in the industry and social environment.
However, after this, Li Hong did not enjoy the so-called bitterness, and Yu Qiuyu's current wife, Ma Lan, appeared in Yu Qiuyu's world during this period.
In terms of age, the age gap between Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan at 14 years did not become an obstacle to the growth of love between them, and all the previous efforts and sacrifices of Li Hong were the same.
In the end, Yu Qiuyu chose a new relationship and partner, and Li Hong received a cold divorce agreement, Li Hong was difficult to face such a reality, she wanted to "find the door" again, but at this moment, Li Hong, who is already a mother, did not make things bigger in order not to hurt her daughter.
I believe it is precisely because of this that Li Hong will make an evaluation of Yu Qiuyu as written in the title of the article - "There is always a kind of beast wearing a crown, and there is always a kind of rogue called a master."
Yu Qiuyu's achievements in the literary world are beyond doubt, and his proficiency in using it to connect landscapes with traditional Chinese culture and quoting the appropriate style of writing style is as if he can endow the boring ancient culture to people through the passage of words.
As a writer, Yu Qiuyu is successful, but as a man who should shoulder responsibilities and responsibilities, Yu Qiuyu is undoubtedly ashamed of Li Hong, and even his moral concepts and personality should be criticized by the public.
epilogue
"Behind a successful man there will always be a woman who pays silently and loves him" has been popular for many days.
In fact, although one person's assistance and aftermath cannot directly promote the success of another person, even so, the dedication and hard work that does exist cannot be ignored or should not be disappointed.
Love can be a bond between partners in various ways of expression, but do not use love as a unified answer to all needs positive, real problems.