Since the beginning of China's own ethical concepts, it has been known that filial piety comes first, which is the commanding height of Chinese morality, and no one has dared to break it for thousands of years. However, Peking University has a doctoral student who has been missing for nearly 20 years because he does not want to support his parents. What happened between him and his parents?
Social News, Ph.D. Missing
Recently, a very interesting news broke out on the Internet, that is, Wang Yongqiang, a doctor at Peking University, has been missing for 20 years, does not support his parents, and refuses to visit his parents. This news instantly exploded in our country. You know, China is a country that attaches great importance to filial piety, and since the Han Dynasty, most dynasties have ruled the country with filial piety.
Therefore, filial piety is the moral high ground recognized by all our people in our country. Maybe this person can be very fast, but if he still insists on filial piety, then many people will think that this person is not bad yet. But even if this person is as good as ever, but he is not filial piety, he will definitely become the object of social criticism.
It is conceivable how important filial piety is in our country. For a Peking University doctor, his education should be much higher than many people in society, so he should not be unaware of such a simple truth. So what contradictions have arisen in the family that make this Peking University student willing to risk verbal criticism and refuse to contact his parents?
Young and studious, parents refused
Wang Yongqiang is the child of a poor family, just as the so-called children of poor families have long been in charge, and Wang Yongqiang has learned to be independent and bear hardships early. Perhaps it was heaven that took care of this child, although Wang Yongqiang's family was poor, he was very talented in reading and his grades were very good.
But unfortunately, Wang Yongqiang's parents are short-sighted people, they have no idea of "reading to change their destiny", and they only want Wang Yongqiang to drop out of school. However, Wang Yongqiang rebelled against fate for the first time, and although his parents repeatedly asked to withdraw from school, Wang Yongqiang still used various methods to complete his studies.
In the end, Wang Yongqiang achieved very good results in the college entrance examination and stepped into the door of Peking University. This makes all of us see that this child can be admitted to Peking University, and naturally has unlimited prospects in the future, after all, in the 80s and 90s, there are still very few people who can be admitted to universities.
Wang Yongqiang also believes that he has finally been admitted to the university of his dreams, and now, as long as he studies well, his fate can be changed, and he no longer has to listen to his family's arrangements. In fact, Wang Yongqiang's idea was really naïve, he naively thought that as long as he left home, he would not be restricted by his family, but in fact, the real nightmare was coming.
The parents sucked blood and eventually ruptured
At Peking University, where Wang Yongqiang worked, there were college student subsidies every month, and he originally wanted to take these subsidies to improve his life. However, Wang Yongqiang's parents did not know where to hear about the subsidy cost, so they constantly persuaded Wang Yongqiang to send the subsidy home to improve family conditions.
Under the pressure of his parents, Wang Yongqiang had to transfer the subsidy coefficient of the university back home. In addition, Wang Yongqiang's parents often bragged to the villagers about how powerful their sons were, and could even arrange jobs for them in Beijing. In fact, the cow was blown out, and the pot king Yongqiang had to take over himself.
During the years of study, Wang Yongqiang's tuition fees from universities, graduate students, and doctorates were all saved by his own part-time work, and various subsidies from the school every month were returned to his parents. You can imagine how hard this grassroots student is in life. But his parents never asked him anything but asked for money.
Later, Wang Yongqiang finally graduated with a doctorate, and in order to leave the family, he and his wife ran to Japan to continue their studies. However, his parents did not spare him, demanding that Wang Yongqiang must take their family to settle in Japan.
After they repeatedly and unreasonably made trouble, Wang Yongqiang's wife finally couldn't bear it anymore and divorced Wang Yongqiang. Wang Yongqiang, who lost his family, believes that everything is the cause of his parents, and is extremely disappointed in his parents, and finally chooses to stay away from home and settle in the United States, at the same time, he no longer asks anything about his parents.
Thus, there is a scene at the beginning of the article. Originally, under the repeated crying of Wang Yongqiang's parents, we all thought that Wang Yongqiang was an unfilial son. But under Wang Yongqiang's story, we suddenly felt that this matter had become a confused account. Wang Yongqiang said of the netizens' views on him: "It is difficult for a clean official to break the family affairs."
epilogue
Parents are the strongest harbor for children, what a happy sentence. But for Wang Yongqiang, his parents are no longer his safe haven, but a wooden bridge that may collapse at any time. Not only is it dangerous here, but it is also very likely that you will be crushed to pieces by a broken bridge.
Therefore, he can't live on this broken bridge, so he chooses to stay away from here. Don't know the suffering of others, do not persuade others to be kind, perhaps we have truly experienced Wang Yongqiang's life, we know how desperate he really is, only to choose to leave his parents and family.