In addition to sweet sugar, there will also be difficult sufferings in life, and how to balance the two seems to have become a problem.
Perhaps confiding in others is a quick and easy way, but you have wondered how to swallow this pain if you leave others.
No one will be with you forever, and no one will want to listen to you all the time.
The suffering of life does not have to rely on words to pour out, nor does it have to rely on venting to get rid of it, it can quietly leave in a more peaceful way.
Sometimes choosing to swallow the bitter fruit silently is not honest, but know how to endure, Taoguang and obscure can achieve a greater cause, there is no bitterness and where the sweetness comes from, first bitter and then sweet should be the best arrangement in life.
The suffering of life does not need others to help you bear, it is the fastest way for you to transform and grow, swallow the bitter fruit, and reap the growth and strength.
How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, such a simple truth everyone understands, it is indeed not easy to do, but only by persevering can we see the sweetness after bitterness.
Remember, never think of others as emotional 'trash cans'.
Venting your bad emotions to others and having a negative impact on them is both disrespectful to the people around you and a manifestation of not being able to bear hardships.
People close to you may not mind your conversation, but if you meet people who are unfamiliar or sinister, they may take your sadness as a joke, hype it, and spread it to the people around you.
Not all people can empathize with you, it's a difficult thing, the world is big, how many people can really understand you, you don't know if the people who look reliable in front of you are laughing at your 'scar' in their hearts.
When you get used to sharing your pain and suffering with others, you can no longer stand up to these difficulties alone.
Children who are accustomed to eating sugar are unbearable as long as they are stained with a little bitterness, and it is both disrespectful and irresponsible to regard others as a storage warehouse for bad emotions.
Emotions should be personal, when encountering pain, you can't just let others come up with suggestions and help you digest, you must have your own strategy, suffering is your own, you shouldn't let others interfere.
Each has its own suffering, and others may be even more bitter.
No one's life is smooth sailing, everyone has suffering, but some people choose to publicize it, and some people choose to lick their wounds alone and choose not to say it.
In fact, smart people often understand that there are more bitter people in the world, and it is wise to have their own suffering and see the suffering of others.
Sometimes don't just think that your own suffering is suffering, that someone on the other side of the world may be suffering that you can't imagine.
The world is fair, it gives you pain, and if you can face it strongly, you can have more strength.
Sometimes others are different from you because they can suffer what others can't, and the so-called suffering side of suffering is never a fiction.
Some people face difficulties, even have affected normal life, can still laugh and live, can still look at every day positively, not all the suffering has to cry and swallow.
The suffering is your own, and no matter how difficult it is, you must swallow it.
Suffering is an important practice in life, people who know the method and can solve it are often more transparent, in the ancient times, there was 'lying down to taste the guts, three thousand Yue Jia can swallow Wu', and now there is a saying that suffering is a blessing.
Do not learn to digest their own suffering, nor can you see the tests and gains and losses in it, there is bitterness and sweetness, the two are born together, swallowing the bitterness of life, there will be future sweetness.
When you understand that there is nothing wrong with suffering now, many times instead of looking for help from others and asking others to give advice, it is better to think of your own way and learn to suffer, so that you know that success and happiness are not easy to come by.
When you harvest pain, it is also an important turning point in your life, choose the right one, you can turn over, harvest what you deserve, can't stand it, choose to give up, and can only continue to stay in despair and darkness.
Heaven has always been fair, there is as much happiness as there is pain, no more and no less, depending on how you decide.
In fact, when you choose to share your pain, you have already lost the first step.
The reason why people who are calm and steady can hold on to the square inch is because they are in charge of emotions, and the things that are painful and painful in your eyes may not be worth mentioning in the eyes of others.
Taking the initiative to show your own scars to others is undoubtedly showing your past weaknesses, and there will be no more gains, compared to the so-called praise and empathy, what you experience, the reflection you get, is the best way to fight back from suffering.
The suffering you experience will make you walk more firmly on the road in the future, and the pain will become your glorious medal, which will become your strong backing and resist the pain for you for a longer time.
Your suffering is your precious spiritual wealth, a test, and the best way for you to attain nirvana, and success depends on your ability to bear it and the time you can persevere.
The more tolerant and bitter people are, the more they can reap the final rewards, just like a dark horse, in silence, rushing in front of everyone.