School district housing, second child, full-time mother, working mother, generational rearing each keyword, let "grow up with you" hot search.
This is not, Lin Yunyun, the full-time mother played by Ying'er, can be called "the phenomenon-level nanny Mrs. Kuo".
Being "raised" in the villa, the daughter Crescent moon is more well-behaved and sensible, but in fact, she lives in fear every day.
Supervise and tutor her daughter every day to practice piano, dance ballet, do logic training, and learn French recitation;
Accompany your daughter to a top training institution with expensive tuition every day, and do not ignore the bits and pieces of her daughter's learning process;
Check the homework paper every night, tutor the daughter to correct, and do not understand the self-incarnation teacher;
……
So paid for the family, but was picky by her husband Gu Jiawei.
"Our family is only allowed to be the first, not the second."
Kindergarten open day performance, crescent moon one person to cover 3 programs, get a full hall of color, who ever thought, Li Extraordinary 45 seconds Rubik's Cube performance, let Gu Jiawei go home, yell at Lin Yunyun.
"I've lost all my face to you."
The harshness of her husband, she can only swallow her anger, and even accompany the smiley face, there is no dignity at all.
Painting the most beautiful makeup, playing the hardest work, working in the workplace up to 996, Lin Yunyun goes to work but 007, it is difficult to be a full-time wife, and it is even more difficult to be Gu Jiawei's wife.
Stay-at-home moms are hard, and working moms aren't easy.
Liu Tao, who plays a job awakens, because he is stuck in the conference room, he also encounters a series of sex discrimination.
"How difficult it is to balance career and family" has become an eternal pain in the hearts of working mothers
Each hot search topic has triggered heated discussions among netizens, especially mothers, do not believe, you look at the following three points, which is the life of you?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > full-time mom or working mom</h1>
Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes.
Don't look at everyone as a mother, lurking in the mother's circle, with a "chain of contempt" that you don't know:
Breastfeeding moms despise milk powder moms, and stay-at-home moms despise working moms.
After all, in the eyes of most people, the child eats breast milk better than milk powder, and the mother accompanies the child at home, which is more helpful for the child's growth.
In "Growing Up with You", this chain of contempt is also confirmed.
Although full-time mother Lin Yunyun is very humble in front of her husband, in front of her mother, she is full of superiority, just because she can spend all her thoughts on her daughter, and her daughter Crescent is the "cow baby" that everyone envies.
As a result, Lin Yunyun not only despised women in the workplace, but also scorned the mothers who picked up and dropped off their children.
After the news spread that Xi Wang, the son of the "strong woman" in the workplace, accidentally swallowed the ring, Lin Yunyun accused Su Yunyun of being too big and unworthy to be a mother in front of all the mothers.
When she heard Su wake up and explain, "I was busy at the time, it was my husband's child", Lin Yunyun almost jumped up, and said in surprise:
"How can a man be allowed to bring a child?"
Why can't men bring children?
Therefore, in the chain of contempt in the mother's circle, there is also a kind of contempt, that is, from a personal point of view:
Working moms also despise stay-at-home moms.
Because full-time mothers give up their self-ideals and regard serving their children and husbands as their own life values, which is contrary to the values of working mothers.
Therefore, after many times of sneering, the head-on confrontation between Su Ande and Lin Yunyun began with the "nanny snatching incident".
"Don't you look down on moms who let nannies take their children?"
"You're squatting at home and you're fine!"
A sentence of "squatting at home" directly poked Lin Yunyun's pain point, and the relationship between the two people fell to the freezing point.
In fact, whether it is a working mother or a full-time mother, there will be unspeakable regrets.
Therefore, there is no such thing as a good mother who is high and who is low, but a good mother who loves her children and is willing to give everything for them.
Whether it is a full-time mother or a working mother, it is just a choice in your life.
No matter which one you choose, remember that what makes you tired is never life, but your attitude towards life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > disappeared dad or troublemaker dad</h1>
In the process of taking the baby, it is indispensable to be spat on by the "pig teammate" at home - the child's father.
In the play, 5 "pig teammates" have 5 kinds of baby realms, which are worth pondering:
Gu Jiawei, played by Li Zonghan, is a "tiger father" who requires children and must take the first.
He would rather eat instant noodles and leftovers himself than spend money on various training courses for his daughter.
But he sometimes has a "fake corpse", such as one day just entered the house, he heard his daughter want to drink water, but saw his wife Lin Yunyun focus on brushing the mobile phone and did not hear.
So in front of her daughter, she angrily scolded: "A mother who brushes her mobile phone every day cannot cultivate excellent children."
When his daughter doesn't get the first place on an open day, he will blame his wife for not educating the child well on a drunken night, regardless of whether he will wake up the new moon.
Xi Bin, played by Li Guangjie, originally wanted to be a "warm father" and give the child a happy childhood, who had thought that the awakening played by his wife Liu Tao would be a "chicken baby".
So on the way to educating the children, the two disagreed, which became the fuse of their quarrel.
Leaving aside whose education method is correct, it is not a good thing for children to say that two people with different educational ideas are fighting each other day by day.
Parents arguing in front of their children will make parents lose their prestige in front of their children, and the feelings between husband and wife will also be greatly affected.
Li Xiang, played by Zhang Ruihan, is the father of a hanging child Lang Dang.
In the child's life, he was seriously absent. During the day, the child's mother is in charge of the child, and at night, the child's mother will go to deliver takeaway in order to earn more money, so li Xiang let Li Xiang watch his son sleep, and as a result, he sneaked out to play cards after his son fell asleep.
So much so that when my son woke up, he found that there was no one at home, and he almost burned when he went to pour hot water.
Although Jiang Bo, played by Jia Jinghui, is like a small child, he is also trying his best to "glue" family relations, but he does not count when he speaks at home, and his opinions are often ignored.
Shen Zihao, played by Zhang Lu, is a single father, who did not expect that he who was greasy and slippery in his mouth on weekdays did better than many mothers, and the shape of his daughter alone made people admire.
These five fathers almost cover all the types of fathers, many netizens in the brush drama, can not help but think of their fathers, have said that if their fathers are more responsible, they may take a lot of detours.
Nowadays, the importance of fathers in parenting is more and more recognized, and even children's songs have changed from "only mothers in the world are good" to "I have a good father", and it is undeniable that a father who is not absent in a family is more likely to bring a sound personality and happiness to children.
Of course, no one is perfect, and being a father is the same, you don't have to be a full score dad, but at least you can become a hard-hearted dad.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > generational pet or no one to help</h1>
In the drama "Growing Up with You", the plot of dog blood such as mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is cleverly avoided, but in the issue of educating children, people are more popular than dead, and Baba is angry with her mother.
He Jinghua, played by Hu Ke, although there is no mother-in-law problem, has become a chicken feather because her parents intervene in her life:
Want to train children to eat independently, but will be chased by the grandmother to feed;
The child was in trouble outside, and when he returned home to prepare for education, he was protected by his grandmother and grandfather;
The two children have already made He Jinghua bad enough, and the older generation will also dislike the son-in-law's "live broadcast career" by the way.
Although there are old two families in life, they have also become a resistance to educating children and cannot overcome the difficulties. No wonder a friend sighed and said:
The old man with the baby not only does not help, but also pulls the hind legs.
It turns out that spoiling the child in the next generation is what makes the mother's heart more tired than no one to help.
Compared with He Jinghua, the other three mothers can be considered to be hands-on.
Lin Yunyun looks like a "rich lady", but in fact she is a "free nanny".
The schedule of the day is so full that there is almost no time of its own;
It seems like a life of food and clothing, but it is really too humiliating to face the life of having to obtain the consent of her husband for every expense and rely on people's sniffles.
As a gold medal designer, He has been busy with work, and before he looks forward to the big class, everything is done by the nanny. The sudden resignation of her aunt left her at a loss.
On the kindergarten open day, other children can do everything, but Xi Hope will only turn over and fight, so that she will lose face, so from then on, the Buddhist mother has become a chicken blood mother.
Shen Xiaoyan, who is called "paying off debts for An Lingrong", has a more miserable life.
Married from abroad, she met unladylike people, lived a life of divorce and did not leave home, and every day except for sleeping, she ran to make money.
Although the custody of the child was given to her ex-husband, Shen Xiaoyan still bears the expenses of the family alone, and this is not to mention, she also has to be blackmailed by her ex-husband - transferring custody at a high price, being stolen money by her ex-husband, domestic violence, and even harassment in the middle of the night.
There is no one to help them with their children, they will always be in a hurry, get it wrong, mess up here, and their lives are often in a mess.
No matter what kind of encounters are encountered in real life, when choosing a good side, you must be prepared to accept the bad side, just like He Jinghua, she enjoys the peace of mind of her parents taking care of their children, and she must consider the problem of generational pets.
No one in this world has a perfect life. Whether they are spoiled by the next generation or no one to help, they are like you and me in our lives, creeping forward in life.
In the drama "Grow up with you", there are many scenes that resonate with everyone, such as the school district room problem, the Versailles of the mother's circle, the disaster scene of the father with the baby, and every scene is really like a picture deducted from our lives.
In fact, this drama was originally called "Starting Line", and later renamed "Growing Up with You", compared with the Indian drama "Starting Line", the multi-line plot reflects more of our real life troubles:
As a mother, do you give everything for your children, or do you pursue your dreams?
As a father, how should you grasp the scale in educating your children?
And when the concepts of three generations conflict, what should be done to not hurt feelings?
No matter what kind of problem you face, it is always right to solve it with a positive attitude.
A good family is also to be managed with heart, and the conflicts and choices are indispensable practices.
Eventually, you'll practice the "Golden Eye of Fire", discover the love hidden in it, and discover a better version of yourself.