Text/Wei Chen
Disguise is human instinct, in order to achieve a certain purpose, in life we will more or less disguise, some people pretend to be strong and some people pretend to be weak, no matter which is inevitable to lie.
Researchers who study the human brain have said that lying is most likely a behavior that occurs shortly after the development of human language.
In other words, it is human nature to lie, and almost everyone will say a few lies from time to time every day.
As the saying goes, everyone will create a false surface image in the social process to mislead others and deceive others, so as to hide the true self and protect themselves.
Of course, there are also some people who have a clear "human design", and their purpose is not only to show the "excellent" self, but even a means to obtain survival capital.
The reason why life is difficult is not how hard life is, but often because deception is everywhere.
There are some people in this world who always pretend to be very weak and innocent, and suddenly come to the bottom of the pot when others have pity and let down their vigilance.
There is a word for this type of person that is quite appropriate, that is, "playing a pig and eating a tiger".
Such people cannot afford to provoke, and if they are accidentally provoked, they may be retaliated against for a long time in the future.
"It is not advisable to settle a knot" is an ancient adage, in interpersonal communication, try not to be an enemy of others, even if it seems ordinary people, it is impossible to offend.
Don't think that actors are only in film and television dramas, and the actors in life are often more difficult to distinguish between true and false.
Since it is a "acting" that is different from its true inner nature, some people pretend to be scheming and some people play ignorant and simple, and the more simple people look, the more complex the heart.
Most people do not have a good impression of the word "city government", thinking that people who have a city government are not real, in fact, a person's merits do not depend on whether they have a city government.
The city government is like ingenuity, and where and how it is used depends on the moral level of the people at that time.
The ancients used "Tarzan collapsed in front of the face and the color remains unchanged" to describe a person's calmness, but there are two kinds of people who can be so calm, either the heart is strong enough, or the heart is cold enough.
Something important happens in front of the indifferent person and does not change color, just like a deaf person listens to thunder, without perception, he will not be afraid and will not react in any way.
Psychological research has shown that those who talk endlessly are actually very simple in their hearts, but they are silent people, and there are many things hidden in their heads, which are difficult to understand.
People with strong hearts generally give people a very kind feeling, they seem to have no "opinions" of their own, as long as the direction of development of things is not very out of line, they will not rush to deny, and have strong inclusiveness when getting along with people.
A person's inner strength has nothing to do with appearance, they do not necessarily look "tall and tall", but they can show a superior "hardness" at a specific point in time.
The path of life is never a good road, stumbling is inevitable, if you do not have a strong enough heart, it is easy to give up when you encounter setbacks or falls in the middle.
Long Yingtai wrote in "Mountain Road": "There are some things that can only be done by one person; some passes can only be crossed by one person; and some roads can only be walked by one person." ”
Life is not easy, each has its own difficulties. Being able to face it optimistically and positively after experiencing vicissitudes and setbacks is truly powerful.
In life, some people look very intimidated, but when they really encounter things, they react unexpectedly, which is boldness.
You know, the teeth and claws do not represent a person's strength, calm and self-assured.
Those who are not impatient in the predicament will always have a way out of the predicament in the end, but those who are in a hurry to break through the cage often make themselves bleed.
When I was a child, I was so stupid, I would always easily believe what Xueba said, "I haven't finished reviewing it", and later I saw clearly that the harder people worked, the more they would hide.
Society is like this, and it is difficult to see the real thing as it seems.
Haruki Murakami said, "You have to be a big person who doesn't move, you're not allowed to get emotional, you're not allowed to secretly miss, you're not allowed to look back." "Be a strong adult, even if your heart has already been stormy, you must show a calm smile on your face."
Only in this way can we "easily" carry a thousand gold weights in life.
Regarding the pressure of life, if you accidentally hit your foot by a stone in your hand one day, don't cry out loud, as long as you don't say it hurts, no one knows whether you are in pain or not, and no one will even find your embarrassment.
Inner strength is not unconscious, but has a more perfect "camouflage" skill.
People, only by first controlling their emotions, can they better control the direction of life for the rest of their lives.
Wei Chen said: May your life be better after encountering my words
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