Mo Yan wrote in the Sandalwood Punishment:
"The most taboo thing in the world is perfect."
The blossom is thankful, the moon is full, and after the perfection, it is followed by withering and regret.
Therefore, the proverbs of the old ancestors often say a "half" word.
Li Mi'an of the Qing Dynasty had a "Half Song":
The wine is half drunk, and the flowers are half blooming.
The sail is half open and half-turned, and the horse is half reined to stabilize.
Half less but spare, half more anti-entanglement.
A hundred years of bittersweet semi-ginseng, will take advantage of only half.
After reading this "half a word, you can taste the true taste of life."
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Many people like to watch "Readers" because of Dong Qing's thoughtfulness to the guests. There is this scene:
Guest Xu Jinglei has always given people the feeling of being calm and elegant. But in "The Reader", when she read that "there is a person who dies on the earth, there is another star in the sky", but she can't cry unexpectedly.
It turned out that she grew up with her grandmother, and on the day of her grandmother's death, she was like a lost soul, and she fell down, and it took a long time to ease up.
Years later, when that sentence evoked her memories of her grandmother, the tears suddenly fell short and burst out of her eyes.
As the host of Dong Qing, if you ask questions at this time and dig deeper into more behind the story, you can add more program effects.
But Dong Qing did not.
Knowing people is inexhaustible, and there are words that cannot be completely said. When dealing with people, you have to say half of the words and leave half.
Leaving room is not sleek and sophisticated, but to put away the sharp edge, take into account the feelings of others, and make each other comfortable.
To see through is to experience; not to say thoroughly, is to be wise.
Knowing people without judging people, and being able to resist the impulse to reveal themselves, is the real maturity.
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Hangzhou Lingyin Temple often hangs a pair of couplets, the upper link is "life can be more satisfactory", the lower link is "everything but seek half of the heart".
In the first half of life, everyone is not willing to be mediocre. Want to pursue better, want to get more, a brain into the crowd, open the mountain to split the stone, cut through the thorns.
However, most of them backfired, and nine times out of ten, people who could not turn their brains around hit the south wall with their heads and their broken teeth swallowed in their mouths.
People with a sensitive nature will slowly see that the evolution of everything has its rhythm. If you blindly work hard and be more true everywhere, there will certainly be few good fruits to eat.
Actor YongMei has acted in more than 20 years of drama and more than 50 plays. Most of the time, she plays a supporting role and is not very famous.
When it comes to a good script, YongMei strives hard, and no matter what the result is, she concentrates on playing each role.
Not long after she was listed in Berlin, when asked how she was going to show her skills, YongMei said:
Traditional fittings
"I'm not an actor with special ambitions, if the ambition is too big, it will become very tired and impetuous, I don't like that, or go with the flow." 」
In life, half of it depends on the struggle, and half of it must follow. The happiness of life, of course, must be fought for hard, leaving no regrets; after doing our best, we must still not be able to ask for it, we must know how to retreat from the rapids.
Walking in the world, if you want to be fast, you can't reach it, and your pace is not hurried or slow. Being as free as a cloud and being as free as flowing water is the attitude that life should have.
Life should not be arranged too full, and life should not be designed to be too crowded. When it is too tight, take the initiative to loosen the binding. Leave room for it to turn around calmly while bumping into Dead Hu.
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There is such a story.
Two people who fell into the water, one with good eyesight and one with myopia. Both struggled desperately in the water.
Suddenly, the one with good eyesight saw a small boat in front of them, drifting towards them. The vague one with myopia also saw it.
So both of them struggled to swim towards the boat.
As he swam, the one with good eyesight stopped discouraged, for he saw clearly that it was not a small boat, but a piece of decaying wood.
But people with myopia don't know it's a piece of wood and still swim forward.
When he finally swam to his destination and found that it was a piece of wood, he was not far from the shore.
Eventually, people with good eyesight lose their lives in the water, while people with myopia are able to save themselves.
People sometimes need the transparency of the heart like a mirror, and they also need to have great wisdom and foolishness.
If everything is clear and clear, wouldn't it be a lot less interesting?
All wise people know how to stay half sober and half drunk. Don't pretend to be confused when you should understand, and don't be more real when you should be confused.
Just the right amount of confusion is the embodiment of life experience and the highest wisdom for people to live in the world.
Colorful autumn landscape. Colorful fall scenery landscapes.
There is a saying in the Cai Gen Tan:
"The flowers are half open, and the wine is slightly drunk, which is very interesting."
Flowers bloom for a season, people live for a lifetime, and it is appropriate to stop, and the thickness is appropriate.
The happiness of life lies in the wisdom of "half".
Only by knowing how to appreciate the half-blooming flower is the most beautiful experience in life.
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