Recently, I inadvertently brushed up on a 2006 TV series "Life and Death Robbery", which starred Chen Xiaoyi, Zhang Jiayi, Tao Hui and so on. The drama tells the story of a family affair triggered by a one-night stand. The most obvious main line is one child, one father, two mothers. A mother provides eggs; a mother gives birth to life; a mother lives a short life; a mother has enough energy and time to accompany her child to grow up. The war between two mothers over their children, one mother loses her mind, and one mother loves her child while still maintaining her reason.
Let's start with Sha Xiaoxiu, the first mother who provided eggs. In my opinion, Sha Xiaoxiu is not a smart woman, and she is not a qualified mother, she just desperately loves their children in the way she thinks is right.
Sha Xiaoxiu met Yuan Muye because of the ride, and the two had a one-night stand. After the separation, Sha Xiaoxiu began to think of Yuan Muye, and she began to try her best to find Yuan Muye, and the kung fu paid off, and really let her find it.
Sha Xiaoxiu approached Yuan Muye step by step, and when she learned that Yuan Muye's wife could not have children, she offered to donate eggs for them. Yuan Muye's wife, Lin He, unknowingly accepted Sha Xiaoxiu's eggs. Since then, Sha Xiaoxiu can be said to have infiltrated Yuan Muye's family life.
The unborn child became the last life sustenance of Sha Xiaoxiu, who was seriously ill, and she looked forward to the birth of the child and secretly calculated Lin He's due date.
On the day of the child's birth, Sha Xiaoxiu called Yuan Muye, and she asked if it was a boy or girl. She went to the master to count the child's eight characters. She began to slowly deviate from her original intention, she wanted to be a veritable mother of the child, she wanted to compete with Yuan Muye and Lin He for this child.
Sha Xiaoxiu began to take action, looking for the media to expose the egg donation incident, and found a lawyer to fight a lawsuit with Yuan Muye and Lin He.
Sha Xiaoxiu said that she wanted to have children and loved children, but none of the things she did were beneficial to children, she was just venting her inner fears. Life is coming to an end, and she wants to grasp a thing that belongs to her completely, and in her view, the child is the thing that should belong to her completely.
Sha Xiaoxiu's work and troubles exposed their most hidden things in newspapers, magazines, and television stations, and Sha Xiaoxiu's exposure of this move greatly ruined his strong life. Let Zhuang Zhuang become the talk of the people around you after tea for a long time.
Originally strong and strong can have a pair of parents who love themselves like ordinary children, Sha Xiaoxiu's initiative to expose, but let his life be spread under the eyes of the public. From a young age, Zhuang Zhuang was pointed out by the people around him, and Lin He and Yuan Muye had to choose to move away from Sha Xiaoxiu's harassment in order to give their children a peaceful life.
But Sha Xiaoxiu did not stop there, she tried every means to find Lin He and Yuan Muye's new home, and secretly took Zhuang Zhuang away, and lin He and they fought a lawsuit.
Sha Xiaoxiu wanted to fight for the custody of the child, but she forgot that she did not have the ability to raise the child at all. No energy, no time.
Sha Xiaoxiu, a cancer patient, her life is counting down, she is unable to raise this child at all, and she is weak to rely on drugs to survive. She didn't even have time to spend with her children because she didn't know when her life would end.
So many factors that are not conducive to raising children are in front of him, but Sha Xiaoxiu can't see any of them. She just wanted to satisfy her possessiveness for the child for a short time, and she didn't think about the situation that the child would face after she died.
Until the moment of the end of his life, Sha Xiaoxiu did not know that he had been making trouble for so long, getting a result that he least wanted, and ruining the child's complete family.
Sha Xiaoxiu's steps were pressing forward, making Lin He unbearable. When Sha Xiaoxiu came to the door for the last time, Lin He decided to let go, and she didn't want to get entangled with them. Lin He chose to leave, and at that moment Sha Xiaoxiu panicked, only to realize that if Lin He really divorced Yuan Muye, Zhuang Zhuang would not have a complete home. And his life has been counting down, and he can't raise a strong body at all. At that moment, she asked: You all don't care about being strong, what should you do if you are strong?
Sha Xiaoxiu was on the verge of collapse, so when Yuan Muye asked her to leave, she couldn't think normally. She and Yuan Muye pulled together and accidentally fell and lost their lives.
Sha Xiaoxiu left on his own, angrily took Lin He, let Yuan Muye go to prison, and the child's good home was scattered by her.
Seeing sha Xiaoxiu's deeds, I always had a sentence in my mind: The parents love their sons, and they have far-reaching plans.
Sha Xiaoxiu's series of acts of competing for children, ostensibly, love children and want to be with children. In fact, it is nothing more than a wanton venting of fear that life is coming to an end. Just show your fears and fears in a different way.
It was just that her wanton behavior hurt Lin He's heart, and Lin He didn't know how her mother should go now.
Sha Xiaoxiu can only hug the child for a short time, so when she is close to the child, she should restrain herself and keep herself rational at all times.
Don't be delusional about letting the child call himself the mother, don't show too much affection to the child, and infringe on Lin He's rights and interests.
When approaching the child, Sha Xiaoxiu wants to satisfy his feeling of being a mother, possessing the child's child, and Sha Xiaoxiu wants to satisfy his own selfish desires. Sha Xiaoxiu, who was obstinate, could not listen to anyone's advice.
Sha Xiaoxiu did not know that the child never needed her company, he had his own father and mother, his mother loved him very much, even if she knew that he had come not brightly, she still gave birth to him without hesitation. His mother experienced a September pregnancy for him, endured the pain of childbirth for him, and his mother loved him with all her heart. With such a mother, a strong life is full enough.
Without Sha Xiaoxiu's life, he would live a happier life, and he would have a sound family with his loving parents and growing up with him. But the appearance of Sha Xiaoxiu deprived the child of happiness. Lin He wants to divorce Yuan Muye because of Sha Xiaoxiu's appearance, and Yuan Muye goes to prison because he killed Sha Xiaoxiu by mistake. Sha Xiaoxiu provided the possibility of life for zhuangzhuang, but it was Lin He who really made zhuangzhuang alive, and it was lin he who could make zhuangzhuang live happily.
As parents, when facing their children, they sometimes need to restrain their excessive love. As a parent, it is more necessary to remain rational and think about whether their actions will affect innocent children when making life choices.
Compared with Sha Xiaoxiu's unforgiving step by step, Lin He has always maintained rationality. In Sha Xiaoxiu's child who wanted to die and live, Lin He told Sha Xiaoxiu that he didn't have to do this, he would give birth to a child, not because Sha Xiaoxiu was forced to die, but because it was her child. When Sha Xiaoxiu was in danger, Lin He was willing to let the children come to see Sha Xiaoxiu. That was Lin He's kindness out of life.
For all the good things that Lin He gave, Sha Xiaoxiu was not only not grateful but also took revenge and ruined Lin He's marriage. Lin He loves children far more than Sha Xiaoxiu, she loves rationally and restrainedly, and she can make any sacrifice for the sake of children. But Sha Xiaoxiu sacrificed the happiness of his children for his own sake. She herself is tossing and turning, and she has died, what should she do with the future of her children? The pain she left for the child, how the child should consume it.