When I brushed the circle of friends at noon, I saw a sentence that hurt me very much:
"I wish I could be a little more stupid so I can't hear his perfunctory tone of voice to me."
I remembered that there was a question on Zhihu: At what moment did you like him?
A girl said:
When I saw a strange tree on the road that wanted to tell him, I knew I was finished.
So what was the moment when you disappointed him and wanted to break up with him?
She said:
When I shared the tree with him, he only got back to me with an "um" time.
The next time I pass by there and see the same tree, I don't want to share it with him anymore.
When I'm willing to share interesting things with you first, you should know how important you are to me.
And when you're too lazy to respond to me and perfunctory, I know I'm sharing the wrong person.
The antonym of love is not hate, but indifference.
The opposite of love is not unlove, but perfunctory.
In fact, whether a person likes you or perfunctory you with his own heart can be perceived.
In a relationship, the person who loves you has a hundred ways to spoil you, and the person who does not love you, the way of perfunctory you is similar.
Let's take a look at which of the boys' practices are particularly perfunctory!
Really loved it
Just perfunctory
There is a saying that goes like this:
The farthest distance in the world is that you are my WeChat top, and I am your message do not disturb.
I gave you my passion and care, and you laughed at me on the other end of the screen for being sentimental.
There is a cruel law in the adult world:
It's not that you treat a guy well and he'll respond in the same way.
In the relationship, there is some hurt, once forgiven because of deep love, two or three times is cruel to yourself.
I often see a relationship like this:
One person is good to another person, and the result is still not to get that person's liking.
He grumbled casually, and she patiently listened to the response, only to get his lukewarm perfunctory.
She sent out good morning and good night, and usually waited a few hours before receiving one: Hmm.
Some people talk about love as if they have exhausted all their strength, they say:
"I'm willing to do these things for him."
"For his sake, I can..."
What I'm trying to say is don't let a relationship turn into an abyss that consumes you.
Whether it is endless giving, or endless acceptance, it will be painful.
If one day the disappointment is enough, it will become indifferent.