"Son, mom is wrong, I shouldn't have asked you for money!" , Peking University doctor Wang Yongqiang, immigrated to United States for 20 years and did not return home, his mother was seriously ill in bed, and refused to show up even if she was about to die.
(Source: North Evening Online 2019-12-3 "Peking University postdoctoral fellows who have been missing for 20 years were found, but refused to recognize each other, family: extremely disappointed!") 》）
It is difficult for ordinary people to imagine that a doctor with a higher education can abandon his parents for 20 years and ignore them, which seems to be a great disfilial piety on the surface, but after learning about his experience, no one will question him.
Wang Yongqiang's background is very poor, they have a family of five, his brother is disabled, in order to take care of him, the whole family is making money everywhere, and his sister also dropped out of school early to work.
For Wang Yongqiang, he may not know what childhood is, because he has been like a "wild child" since he was a child, and he is almost always on the way to pick up garbage, just to sell some money to subsidize the family.
However, although he lives in this kind of family, however, it did not break his determination to study, on the contrary, after entering school, he has been studying hard, and his grades are always top-notch.
Not to mention anything else, just in terms of academic performance, he is the most common "child of other people" in the neighborhood.
But it's a pity that the parents' concepts are different, in their opinion, reading is a waste of time, it is better to go out early to work to make money, the family is already so difficult, how can there be money for him to study.
But Wang Yongqiang always insisted that knowledge must change fate, so he continued to do ideological work for his parents.
Then what followed was endless quarrels, and finally, after Wang Yongqiang agreed to a request from his mother, he finally agreed to let him study.
Mother Guo Qiaodi said that if you have to study, then you must pay money every month, you can go to school, you can't delay making money, and the money you earn will be handed over to the family!
It is hard for ordinary people to imagine that a mother can force her son to such a point!
Therefore, Wang Yongqiang has been living under high pressure since then, as long as he is not in school, he will definitely be able to see him in the hotel and on the construction site.
And the heaviest burden on his back is family!
Later, Wang Yongqiang was escorted as a graduate student, and while enriching his horizons and accumulating knowledge, he could also receive a scholarship, which was equivalent to a relief in the snow for him.
But who would have thought that his mother was still forcing each other everywhere, even if Wang Yongqiang needed money to do experiments, and he needed courtesy to make friends, Guo Qiaodi was still unwilling to let him go, and even went to school to make a fuss.
It's hard to imagine that a doctor can be born in such a family.
But his parents' high pressure on him is far more than that, Wang Yongqiang married a professor's daughter, thinking that he had seen the dawn of happiness, but he didn't expect that a good marriage would force his wife away because of his parents' constant compulsion.
Later, Wang Yongqiang, who was furious, finally made up his mind to stay away from this family.
He immigrated to United States without telling his family, and since then, he has no contact with his family.
On the other hand, his mother searched for him for 20 years and never got any news of him, and later, when he was seriously ill, he found reporters and wanted them to help contact his son and wanted to see him again before he died!
However, Wang Yongqiang's heart has already cooled down, and he no longer has any nostalgia for this family, so Guo Qiaodi can only leave with slow regrets.
Some people may think that Wang Yongqiang has the ability to help his family improve their lives after becoming a doctor, or after working in United States, but he did not do so because he was unfilial.
However, most people still think that Wang Yongqiang's life is too bitter, and it is right for such a family and such parents to stay away early.
In this regard, I would like to say that if her parents had respected him and gave him a little love, things would not have developed like this.
They can only blame themselves for all this......
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