"Memories are a road with no end," Márquez said. ”
"All the splendor that has ever been in life, after all, needs to be repaid with loneliness."
In the past, it's really not worth recalling, let alone looking at it closely.
When people reminisce about the past, they are always sad and unhappy. Some old people are always crying, always snotting and tearing about the difficulties of the past, how they have suffered and tribulations in the past.
Most of the parents of the post-70s generation are like this. The same is true for the grandparents of the post-70s. I used to remember my grandmother talking about her experience, which was a lot of suffering, and her eyes were always lonely and sad. My mother sometimes reminisced about the past, but she always burst into tears.
Even I don't want to reminisce about the past, because there doesn't seem to be any memory worth being happy and looking at.
I always feel that I am a little stupid and unenlightened, so I suffer a lot of losses and feel bitter. I don't want to remember at all.
Most people don't do that.
It's not that it's a bad time now, and it's not a sentiment of strong sorrow, but, indeed, the past has passed, and there really aren't many happy things in the memories. Perhaps, it is the pain that is profound, and it makes us remember it deeply.
Uncle passed away a few days ago, so there are some emotions. Sometimes, quietly thinking about everyone's life, it is true that I don't see a few people living comfortably and happily. Most of them are unsatisfactory and bumpy in their lives. Even many people did not live to understand until they died.
The transparency of life is not something that everyone can understand. When we obsess on all kinds of things, we actually plant the seeds of unhappiness.
If we analyze the past, we will only have more regrets, because the level of understanding at that time could not reach the current level. Therefore, the past is even less worth looking at.
How to live transparently, in fact, should be to look down on the world, look down on everything, and look down on emotions...... Only in this way can we better face the days ahead.