The foundation of Yihe education is to "educate people", and to carry out "teaching" activities on the basis of "educating people", the current education is goal-oriented, success-oriented, ability and employment-oriented, and lacks a truly systematic and effective "life" education. I think this is a lesson that many children need to really make up, otherwise, the children we cultivate will be particularly "excellent" and appear to be self-explanatory, utilitarian, and unwilling to take responsibility; "Average students" seem worthless, they don't care, they are a little messy, and they can't get good and lack of inner strength; "Students with learning difficulties" appear to be negative, have low self-esteem and even resist and need help, but fall into a helpless state where no one can really recognize and help.
As children grow up, enter college, enter society, and especially after forming a family and becoming parents, many hidden "human and moral" problems emerge, which will affect a person's happiness in life.
Therefore, I think it is urgent for every family to pay attention to the education of "being a human being". In fact, the core function of Western schools is the system of "self and success" with "common respect for rules and no evil" and "learning to improve ability" as the core, and the school does not assume the responsibility of systematic moral education, and the education of life and morality is actually completed by religion.
However, the thousands of years of tradition of the Chinese do not have a real sense of rules, the vast majority of people have no religious beliefs, and the education of being a person and morality is actually carried out in the traditional Chinese culture with "family and country under heaven" as the core, in the bits and pieces of life and learning, especially the family bears the heavy responsibility of moral and life education. If there is no systematic education of morality and life in schools, and families do not really attach importance to moral and life education, then I think that no matter how good or bad children are in learning and how strong they are, they will encounter many difficulties in the future and fall into the confusion and pain of life.
The country has begun to rejuvenate, our culture has begun to rejuvenate, the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation and the realization of the Chinese dream will definitely take the revival of culture and civilization as the core and carrier, in such a good historical background, I hope that more people pay attention to children's life and moral education, and the education of life and morality should be exemplary, life-oriented, detailed, Yihe education has done a lot of work and exploration in these aspects. Yesterday I saw two small things written by two teachers in the Yihe WeChat group, and I was particularly moved and shared with you:
Mom and Dad, thank you for your love
Text: Yihe Lu Yanhong
As we all know, Yihe does not want to have "management", but hopes that everyone will slowly develop real self-discipline, how to ensure this? Yihe adopts the "family and family" model instead of "management", a male teacher and one or two female teachers lead about ten children to set up a family, all the children's life and learning difficulties are solved in the way of "family mutual assistance", the children are like brothers and sisters, and the teachers love like biological parents, if you go to Yihe, you will feel the great charm of this. Our family is called "Activists".
Today, the mother of our child Wenjing donated some family funds to our family in a private message. When we were in the twilight of the year, we discussed whether to collect the money or not. Ye Hua said, don't accept it, because we can't always collect money from parents to satisfy ourselves, which will make us develop the bad problem of not working hard, Wei Chun agreed, and Minghong's opinion is also not collected, because we can't use so much money. There are also children at home who say that we also have to consider the feelings of other parents for the reason of not accepting them, so that it will not stimulate parents who are not willing to donate to follow suit, and put pressure on those parents who are unwilling to donate, and this passivity will lose love and sincerity.
There is another voice to receive, Mom and Dad want to express their hearts, and if they are rejected, Mom and Dad will be sad, and fulfilling others is also love. The key is the understanding and use of family funds, is it too selfish to use them only on ourselves? We will also use this donation to help more people and pass on this love.
In the end, we left the decision to Wen Jing. Wen Jing was very embarrassed and wanted to use the dice to decide whether to accept or not, but we stopped her. Under the guidance of everyone, Wen Jing expressed her thoughts, take it, the family's father's opinion is not to accept it, not to accept it, I feel that my mother supports us, and my mother will be unhappy if she refuses.
So does Wen Jing's heart want to accept it or not? After being embarrassed for a long time, Wen Jing finally called her mother in order to find out why her mother would donate to the family fund. Wen Jing was very satisfied with the answer he received, and he told us, take it!
In fact, it doesn't matter whether the money is collected or not, through this incident, Wen Jing has learned to express herself truthfully and choose independently, her heart is strong, and her responsibility is enhanced, what a good thing! At the same time, through this incident, all the children have improved to varying degrees.
Finally, we unanimously decided to say a few words to the activist moms and dads:
Dear Moms and Dad,
We have all felt your care and love, and we will repay you with our own growth, and be a Yihe person who is loved and admired by others. We will use the family fund carefully to pass on your love and love more people. Our family fund for this year is enough, please don't donate to us. Let's grow together in love!
Tonight's shouting is unusual
Text: Yihe people Yunlu
At the dinner party tonight, Qingjiang smiled and asked the children who had spoken swear and done bad behavior in the past few days to consciously stand up, (today's children have turned many of the swear words we used to think of as popular words, and Yihe is strict in this regard), more than 20 children consciously stood up, and the spirit of daring to face it is very inspiring to me. Xiaochang said that such behavior is a violation of the core school motto of "don't embarrass the Yihe people, let others like and admire the Yihe people", and everyone unanimously decided to bear the consequences, and after the curtain wakes up, 20 children went to the center of the playground and shouted "Don't embarrass the Yihe people, let others like and admire the Yihe people" 500 times.
At around 7:10, more than 20 children consciously stood in the middle of the stage in the school playground and shouted in unison, "Don't embarrass the Yihe people, let others like and admire the Yihe people"! In less than five minutes, many children joined the shouting procession, one, two, ten, twenty people, less than ten minutes, all the children and all the teachers stood in the team of 20 children to support these children, everyone consciously stood in two rows around the center of the rostrum, holding hands with each other and raising them above their heads and shouting, "Don't be ashamed of the Yihe people, let others like and admire the Yihe people"...... Once, ten, twenty, hundred, two hundred, three hundred, four hundred, the voice was high and loud...... The children and teachers were tired and persevered, their arms were painful, their clothes were soaked, their voices were hoarse, and many children were stimulated because of their inner beauty, crying loudly and persevering......
The 400 shouts were over, and I don't know when I burst into tears. I was moved by the selfless companionship of the teachers, moved by the children's perseverance and real release, moved by the students choked up and hugged each other sincerely and shouted "I love you", and moved by the teachers and students who were like a family and sincerely hugged each other......
Dear Yihe children, I love you! Dear teachers, I love you!! Thank you for the strength you have given me and strengthened my faith! I firmly believe that Yihe School has a bright future! We firmly believe that Yihe Education has a bright future!!
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