1. A difficult and valuable marriage process like breaking out of the cocoon into a butterfly
In May 2015, in an office hall in the bustling city of Shanghai, Wang Feng was trying to suppress the excitement surging in his heart. As a rock star at the level of a "young veteran" who is nearly half a hundred years old, he is about to enter the marriage hall hand in hand with Zhang Ziyi, who is 8 years older than him. The meeting and love between these two will undoubtedly write an extraordinary legendary chapter.
The frenzy of public opinion had already begun to sweep in before the wedding. "She's a full 8 years older than you!" "I'm afraid the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be quite delicate......" Wang Feng knows that the pressure Zhang Ziyi faces as a daughter-in-law is by no means idle. And Zhang Ziyi herself is still struggling in the haze of the past relationship. However, in the face of the call of love, they all chose to move forward without hesitation.
After the marriage, all kinds of doubts and criticisms came like a tide. Some people question whether the marriage will last, while others believe that the age difference will cause a lot of trouble. However, these two determined souls did not back down because of this, but chose to tolerate and understand each other.
Whenever Wang Feng saw his wife frowning due to the pressure of public opinion, he would always step forward and hug her tightly, whispering warm comforting words in her ear. And Zhang Ziyi will also often encourage her husband not to be affected by external comments and to enjoy the current happy life with all his attention.
In this way, they eliminated the barriers caused by the age gap with their tolerant hearts, and broke the shackles of family resistance with understanding.
Time flies, time flies. In the blink of an eye, eight years have slipped away. Now that it is 2023, Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi are still holding hands, looking at each other and smiling. The road to marriage is never easy, but as long as there is sincere love, you can be brave from all difficulties and obstacles.
Although this marriage journey is tortuous and difficult, it is undoubtedly the most precious treasure in their lives for them.
Second, the aftermath of the previous relationship experience
Before getting married, Zhang Ziyi and her ex-husband went all out to fight for the right to raise their daughter Xiaotian together, but due to the difficulty of reconciling the contradictions, they ultimately failed to achieve their wishes. Now, she is determined to play the role of a loving stepmother in her new marriage.
The first days were indeed challenging. Xiaotian was wary of this strange "new mother", and Zhang Ziyi didn't want to be too eager, so as not to cause the opposite effect.
So, she chose to wait patiently and gradually repair the scar with full love.
As time passed, Xiao Tian's heart gradually opened up and he did not hesitate to accept this newly arrived family member. Zhang Ziyi always takes her to experience the fun of outdoor sports, and the emotional bond between the two of them is also closely connected. Sometimes, Zhang Ziyi's mother-in-law will also enthusiastically join in the joyful ranks, and the three women play in the bright sunshine, as if they have become a real family, intimate and happy.
As an excellent stepmother, although she needs to deal with various heavy tasks in public, Zhang Ziyi still takes the initiative to take on the role of her daughter-in-law and carefully cares for the way her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along. She never tried to shirk this responsibility, but always smiled and respected, and took the initiative to form a close bond with her mother-in-law. Even if she was reproached by her mother-in-law sometimes, she was able to stay calm and patiently explain and dispel each other's doubts.
After a long period of hard work, the estrangement between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law gradually disappeared. Under the guidance and influence of Zhang Ziyi, the relationship between the three women has become increasingly harmonious. Every time the festive season comes, the three of them are inseparable, like sisters like siblings, intimate.
Zhang Ziyi successfully resolved the gap between generations with her patience and love, and finally won the sincere recognition of her daughter and mother-in-law, and became a relative in their hearts. Faced with the shadows brought by her past feelings, she did not choose to escape, but bravely turned these gloom into the power of love and threw them all into a new life.
3. The practice of educational concepts
As a stepmother, Zhang Ziyi has a unique and deep understanding of her daughter's education. She knows that teaching by example is irreplaceable for children's development.
Therefore, Zhang Ziyi attaches great importance to the perfect integration of words and deeds. She encourages her daughter's all-round development and fully supports her in pursuing her own interests and hobbies. For example, when her daughter is studying art, Zhang Ziyi will not only accompany her daughter into class, but also carefully check her daughter's homework and patiently answer every question she asks when she returns home.
Whenever her daughter encounters a problem in a painting or handicraft class, Zhang Ziyi will always devote herself like a child and complete her homework by herself, using this as an example to show her daughter how to overcome difficulties. In order to avoid her daughter feeling bored, she will also cleverly incorporate some fun elements into it to make the learning process more lively and interesting.
In addition to the field of art, Zhang Ziyi is also committed to training her daughter to study music. Whether it is piano, violin or guitar, as long as her daughter shows strong interest, Zhang Ziyi will devote herself to it and accompany her daughter throughout her learning journey. Sometimes, Wang Feng will also join this joyful "family band", and the three of them practice and enjoy the charm of music together.
Perhaps because of the deep influence of her mother, Ms. Zhang Ziyi's daughter's performance in study and daily life can be called the ultimate self-discipline. Zhang Ziyi is very proud of this, and often feels that being able to raise a child to grow up healthy and happy is undoubtedly the greatest blessing in her life.
She sincerely exchanges hearts for hearts, puts herself in the shoes of children's growth, and uses loving education methods to convey positive values to children's hearts. Zhang Ziyi, through her real actions, perfectly shows the image of an outstanding mother.
Fourth, the harmony and unity of career and family
Balancing the dual pressures of career and family has always been one of the major challenges that Ms. Zhang Ziyi faced after marriage. As a professional woman who is active both at home and abroad, she often has to travel between different cities.
Thanks to the understanding and support of their husband, Mr. Wang Feng, the two of them were able to face the challenges of life together. When Ms. Zhang Ziyi is in her hometown, she will devote herself to family life. She cooks her own meals and cooks delicious meals for the whole family. Sometimes, she would warmly invite her mother-in-law to her home, and the three women would sit around and laugh and laugh.
Of course, tutoring her daughter to complete her studies is also an important task for her. Ms. Zhang Ziyi always carefully checks her daughter's homework and patiently answers the difficult questions. Sometimes, Mr. Wang Feng will also join this "homework team", and the three of them communicate and learn from each other under the light.
Such a warm picture of family harmony makes people yearn for their happy life. However, whenever the pace of work steps out of the country again, Ms. Zhang Ziyi will devote all her energy to her acting career. There was a time when her physical condition was problematic and her work was affected a bit.
However, Ms. Zhang Ziyi was not knocked down by the difficulties, but regarded it as a kind of exercise, as long as she adjusted her routine and received treatment in time, all problems would be solved. As the famous saying goes: "Walk thousands of miles, so that the woman's surname is good." This sentence could not be more appropriate for Ms. Zhang Ziyi. She is like a brave traveler, full of hopes and dreams, shuttling back and forth between the two homes.
Of course, only she knows the bitterness and pain best. However, it is with this firm belief that Ms. Zhang Ziyi has been able to achieve brilliant achievements in her career and have the opportunity to spend those wonderful times in her life with her family. For her, work is a way to achieve self-worth, and family is the warmest haven in life.
These two elements are undoubtedly equally precious and indispensable in Zhang Ziyi's life! 5. Facing unexpected challenges in life
Life doesn't always go smoothly, and the unexpected can often be unexpected. For example, Zhang Ziyi's health journey has brought her a lot of troubles.
At one time, Zhang Ziyi suddenly felt unwell on the set, and was immediately rushed to a nearby hospital for treatment. At that time, her husband Wang Feng was separated from him, and when he learned the unfortunate news, Wang Feng's mood instantly fell into chaos, and he rushed to the hospital overnight without hesitation to accompany his beloved wife.
Although there were no serious consequences in the end, this experience made the two deeply appreciate the importance of mutual consideration and understanding between husband and wife.
After marriage, Zhang Ziyi had to be hospitalized several times because of physical discomfort, and at this time, Wang Feng would dutifully take on the responsibility of taking care of his wife. Sometimes, in order to take better care of his wife, he will even temporarily put down the work in his hand and accompany her wholeheartedly.
Seeing his wife lying quietly on the sickbed, Wang Feng's heart was full of complex emotions. He is well aware of his wife's tenacity, but at the same time hopes that she can get more rest.
In Zhang Ziyi's view, her husband is like an indestructible Great Wall of steel, giving her endless strength and solid support. Whenever her condition is relieved, she always says firmly to Wang Feng: "We must go all out, there is still a long way to go." ”
So, they encouraged and supported each other in this way, and they got through one difficulty after another together.
In addition to physical health, there are often other unexpected situations in life, such as job changes, family disputes, etc. In the face of these difficulties, Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng have always insisted on resolving them with a tolerant and understanding attitude, rather than adopting a tough confrontation approach.
They know that the road to marriage is not an easy road, and only by supporting each other and working together can they overcome many difficulties.
Drawing strength from hardship, rather than giving up easily, this is the secret of Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng's happy marriage.